Have you been patient for love to come?
April 25, 2010 5:36pm CST
You know,I'm single right now. I am the type who does not do the first move. Out of my singleness, I have had lots of friends to laugh with. But still, there's a sidetracking feeling to need for special someone? I want to be patient for the right time to come, but how long would my patience last? How about you guys? Have you felt this way before?
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25 Apr 10
Yeah I have been like that before, waiting for the right one to come. I am not only waiting but also keep praying that our path will cross. After my first relationship, its been a 8 years as well that I waited for my boyfriend now. Waited that day would come, unknowingly our path is about to cross when my teacher introduce me to him. Who would taught that is was my dearest professor would introduce us. Just be thankful that after the 8 years of waiting here he is already. I would pray now that he would not be gone in my life, pray that he will remain and stay forever.
25 Apr 10
I wasthe same type of person and got my love finally. So I am sure there is someone proceeding towards you slowly. May be you do not see that person now but its there for sure, just be patient. I waited for my love and it came to me without any announcement :)
25 Apr 10
hi uniqueorn, It happened to me before. While almost all of my close friends have their own boyfriends who gives them chocolates, flowers and letters, wait for them till classes is dismissed and go with them in any special occasion, I don't have anyone. I had suitors but I do not feel any thing for them. Well, I feel jealous with my friends sometimes but I know that maybe it is not the right time for me to have a boyfriend. I waited till I graduate from my first course. I don't think that I can have boyfriend while studying and I know I was still young that time. After I graduated, I started to look for work and there I met my first boyfriend. But maybe I am still not so serious with the relationship that I let him go. He already made a marriage proposal but I just turn it down. I studied again for a degree course. I enjoyed my studying and mingling with my classmates in the university. Although, there are some suitors but I do not feel any thing. I wanted to have someone as my partner but I know myself. If I do not really love a person, I won't really feel anything even how persistent he is in courting. And then I joined a community site where I can study foreign languages. There I met a man who is very friendly to me. We became good friends. Not long after that, he courted me. I do not make it hard for him because I know I have feelings for him too. It was more than 2 years since I remained single after my break up with my first boyfriend.
25 Apr 10
"patience is a virtue" as they say. i had my first boyfriend when i was 21 and luckily he is also the last. my high school and college life was devoted to my friends and i feel i have enjoyed that single state. at least i got no one to divide my time with. i can be with my friends whatever time of the day i want and nobody will ever check my whereabouts constantly. =)
26 Apr 10
Before when I was student I was jealous with most of my classmates because after our class there's someone waiting for them so I was kinda asked myself why I don't have someone with me. But now that I am matured enough I am not concern about it and you know when it's time for that person to come the it'll come so you don't have to wait for him. It's better to be careful in choosing the right one for us because if we rush just because we are quite pressured by the situations then don't expect it will so we should be mindful enough to handle every situations specially when the love thing. Patience is virtue so let's be patient enough and make ourselves busy with other things.
26 Apr 10
all you have to do is wait a little bit more, trust me someone will come, i was once on your shoe, during a period wherein society dictates that you should have someone (dating or into a relationship) i was at college that then 16-24 years old without seeing someone. just contended with friends, although there are awkward moments especially when you plan for outing and school reunions and almost everybody got somebody, but may waiting paid more than i can imagine, later i meet someone we are still together and no plans of parting ways in this lifetime.
25 Apr 10
I think that when that special someone that is meant to belong to your arms and kisses will appear into your life you'll feel it. There is no recipe for love, no one would know when this or that would happen. Only that when it occurs it is deep and intense, passionate and tender, wild and sensual. And then, my only advice to you would be... love like there is no tommorow.
30 Apr 10
Hello Uniqu3! I've been single for about almost a year. I've been happy. I went out a lot and had fun but at the end of the day, you still feel that there is something missing. You need someone to be there of you and take care of you. I miss that feeling but I just got used to it that's why it's easy for me to put it at the back of my mind.
28 Apr 10
I have been patient for love to come. Until now, I'm still waiting! I checked your profile and it says you're only 19. You don't need to worry. If you want to be patient for the right time to come, then be patient. I think that depends on you. I've felt that way before but I realized I'm too young and there are lots of time for that. You know, I have a crush on a guy for more than a year now, and he's still not my boyfriend, but I'm waiting! LOL. Keep believing.