Is the statement " The bad boy always gets the girl" still true?

Philippines
April 28, 2010 11:10am CST
With my history, it was true that I had to become a bad boy to get the girl/s. I am still wondering, is it still true?
8 responses
• United States
28 Apr 10
That saying is a myth.....the girls don't like the bad boys. They like the guys with money. You have to flash it every chance you get with out making it seem like it's on purpose. Girls like to be seen in a nice car.......You know the saying, "Man that walks, walks alone". Get yourself a nice car. A girl like to feel different then any other. Tell her your last girlfriend was a cheater. Tell her your heart was broken. She do everything to show you she's not like that. And promise her the world......even if you live home with your mother. It's like with nature.....The female of every species always go for the dominate male......and that's to do what it takes to get the girl.
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• Philippines
28 Apr 10
..and i thought youre supposed to learn here at mylot.
• Philippines
28 Apr 10
... cooljay5737 all about the mean green yo dawg! ... frontvisions101 : don't worry... he'll find his match someday. women can never be bought with "G's" just can't ... I know this because I was slapped once for fronting this with a girl.
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• United States
25 May 10
I love Filipino women!!!!! I wish I can have more then one.....
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
28 Apr 10
I think this is not true at all but I do believe that some girls were attracted to bad boys because they think they have exciting personality and girls sometimes wants to be dominated by bad boys. It's the lure of being sweep away but liking it every step on the way. Girls are attracted to bad boys because they are not boring to be with. But as of today's society bad boys diminish their power to the girls because if you are a bad boy and you don't have money of financial stability you are worthless. Bad boy persona and add it with lots of money and you will considered to be hot.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
i dont think so. many still refers to the mr. nice guy with an attitude in life. I mean bad boys are cool, they are fun and are adventurous but girls who like them are more of the rebellious type hehe. for me, i like my guy clean, fresh, and cool, humurous but he need not be a bad "boy" just so he can be all these things. he could be a professional, a person working in a bank, a person who is loving and loves adventure but with nature trips not with killing sprees!
• Philippines
28 Apr 10
In my history, it's not always true. Some girls like bad boys and some girls like good boys. I suggest you just be yourself. You'll find the right girl for you.
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@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
hi joe, In my opinion, It depends on the given situation but this happen usually in those teen age lives where there are many confusions, peer attachments that tend to somehow be more on ego effect and physical attractions. Some teen age girl do prefer bad boy because of the masculinity and cool effect they visualized. They see bad boy as tough one who can make them feel secured and give them what they wanted. Sometimes, they even feel more of the society trend effect and make this girl feel rebel in a way. But, it depends on the girl personal thought. There are some bad boy who are pretending only to be one, but inside of him has a true heart that feels. That, often the girl to fall in love with that kind of guy. It is more of knowing the person totally rather than what appearance he is. Its more of understanding the person thoughts and accepting him as a person. The reflection of the person can be seen not only to what you see, but to what you know and realize for that person. It is true that no matter how bad boy a person is, he has some good things inside of him and only few people around him may know. Happy mylotting
@arunvenu (273)
• India
29 Apr 10
I don't agree it fully but i think bad boys attract girls more than good boys. Bad boys are cool, daring and funny. Mr nice guy is not like that, so girls are more towards the bad boy, but if a good boy is really daring then they will surely towards him because they feel safe. Girls need protection and they always tend to go into safer hands. They like boys who can kick someone if she is in a bad situation and definitely who must give her lots of love
• Philippines
28 Apr 10
Yep! Bad boys attract girls very much. I think these boys are way too confident whick most of the girls adore. Bad boys project masculinity.
@bagputza (504)
• Belgium
28 Apr 10
Good morning dear Joedollarhuat , well actually i dont really think you need to be a bad boy to get girls atraction , its true there are some areeas in my neighborhood where the girls really like the REAL BAD BOYZ , but what a girl really wants its a man who has enough ballz to protect her and never turn back when she is in need , a man that shows he is responsibile and he is able to take care of her , when i met my fiancee i was more of a shy dude around girls , but around my crowd i always showed that i am saying what i have to say , and if there is something on my mind i am saying it and state it , and i also was direct to Cristina ( that my girls name ) , and after three days that i met her and i made sure she is not with someone i asked her out , and its now three years we are dating and one year she mooved in with me. Have a nice day dear Joedollarhuat