300 good friends that ur spouse hates or Ur spouse whos your best friend

United States
April 28, 2010 4:09pm CST
If you had to choose between a bunch of good friends that your husband couldnt stand because they are bad influence.. would you choose them or your husband who is your husband and your best friend...
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@Hatley (159408)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Apr 10
hi if they were good friends how could they be this bad influence that you talk about unless he does not want your to know or see anyone but him making hime your controller. no if they were really good people and good friends a husband that would make me choose would be out the door' with the print of my foot on his butt. something in this sounds like the makings of a wife batterer, to keep wifey stowed away from anyone, no friends, and to be horribly jealoous then lose the temper and start to hit, and who says they are a bad influence you or your husband? if he means they want you to see them talk to them and be the friends you were before he came along he is nuts.[
@vandana7 (57493)
• India
29 Apr 10
@vandana7 (57493)
• India
29 Apr 10
Hatley said it all. :) I haven't got anything to add. Oh! Ok. Your husband may not like the way they talk, or dress, or be over familiar. He might be drawing lines somewhere. May be you need to see where he draws lines, and check whether it is possible for you to adhere to them. If it is, you can have your cake and eat it too. Isn't it? I mean both your friends as well as your husband. :)