What can I do to comfort my friend?

China
April 29, 2010 3:38am CST
Hi, friends here, I need you opinions! One of my friend is treated unjustly in her company these days. She works in an express company. And a few weeks ago, she examined a parcel from USA as per procedure. But when the client got the parcel, s/he found a necklace changed - that means the necklace isn't the orginal one. So...the client complain it. And my friends is questioned by her company. There is no evidence on her charge. So...her boss is trying to force her confess, so that they can give an explanation to client soon. The problem is she didn't do it in fact. So...she insist that she is innocent. I just don't know how comfort her. What should I do?
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5 responses
@bird123 (10518)
• United States
30 Apr 10
Stick with the truth.No matter how much people ignore it. It simply does not go away.Don't you either.
• China
30 Apr 10
Yes, bird, it's really troublesome!Because her boss frightens her. And they don't show her the videos or other materials. You know for a common person who also live legally, it's a very terrible thing! So...I really wish truth is revealed soon! Thanks, and your opinion is quite reasonable!
@qamarep (4449)
• Pakistan
29 Apr 10
first of all can you help her change her job .. i dont think of anyway that you can comfort her she will be burned
• China
30 Apr 10
Thanks for your opinion, qamarep! It's suffering for her to go to work everyday now. But I think it's not the time to change her job. If she quits now, that means she's guilty, and she may be a suspect. In another hand, I don't think her company will approve her resignation in this situation. But yes, after this matter, it's a good suggestion for her to change job! Maybe I should pay attention on job hunting info now.
@kedralynn (992)
• United States
29 Apr 10
Stand by her and support her. It may be a long and hard battle for her. And I'm so very sorry she ended up in this situation. Tell her you believe she is innocent and that you support her. She knows she did nothing wrong and she needs to stand by that. Hopefully because she is innocent things will work out. Hopefully they find out what really happened. I wish her the best.
• China
30 Apr 10
Hello, kedralynn, you're right, I think it may lasting long, but I hope truth will be revealed soon. Good news is her direct boss believes in her. What she needs now is friends' support! Thanks
• India
29 Apr 10
Hi OrangJuice, Your friend really needs you at this moment. Just be with her and tell her that you believe her and if she is innocent, no one on earth can harm her in any way. Tell her that all the friends and family are with her and that is what is important. Thanks.
• China
30 Apr 10
Thanks, damsel, for your answer! Yes, I call or SMS her now and then. But she haven't told her parents yet, so that they won't worry about her. I'm the only friend knowing this. I'm encouraging her!
@KrauseHome (35522)
• United States
4 May 11
You often hear of this type of thing happening a lot lately. Sometimes it could even be somewhat of a setup to try and make the person look bad. I would have thought the person making the complaint should first check with the person sending the parcel to make sure there was not a mistake on their end, and then double check the package etc. It also depends on what their options are from there. But when making a complaint and then that woman being occussed of something, unless someone has proof this was quite wrong for sure.