do u like to have love marriage or arrange marriage?
April 29, 2010 6:28am CST
hi mylotters...y do u think arranged marriage is best and why do you think love marriage is the best? according to me love marriage is the best coz when u have a love marriage u know completely ABOUT your lover..about her family background or whether he/she had any relation etc..but in arrange marriage we do not know anythng about our soul mate n more over a known devil is better than a unknown angel...lol
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1 May 10
I am not sure which one I think is best but If you do not mind a bit of information, a love marriage is not as you think, You may know some one your entire life but until you live with them do you truly get to know them. As well in love marriages, either or both parties can lie and deceive each other again only living together will actually show a person's true nature. I may be misinformed but I thought in arranged marriages both parties were under scrutiny for a very long time, and just think you both start on a level playing field, you know very little about each other, and there for no games needed. Very interesting topic
30 Apr 10
hi vishkris,I believe in love marriage as in that we at-least know the history of the person to whom we are going to marry..we know her very well and which mean less problem after the marriage as both of can understand each other very well but in arrange marriage we will require time to adjust in the family and also can face more problems in the life if we fail to understand each other..
29 Apr 10
arranged marriage could only be successful once both parties knows each other well and better and the couple learned to love each other even they are just arranged by parents. if the couple knows how to handle things., like chinese most of them i have learned got an arrange wedding because they want that their business shall flourished with helping together with both families. But not all arranged marriage enjoys the processed it's hard to love a person, unless developed love. Still the love marriage is the best because you have marry the person you love it's all because you love him so., or love her so. Love is very important thing among other thing.
29 Apr 10
I prefer to have a love marriage because I want to have a wife whom I love. I think arrange marriage is not that great because both of you do not know each other well, maybe it will end up fine but who knows? No one can tell what will happen in the future.