do u like to have love marriage or arrange marriage?

@vishkris (205)
India
April 29, 2010 6:28am CST
hi mylotters...y do u think arranged marriage is best and why do you think love marriage is the best? according to me love marriage is the best coz when u have a love marriage u know completely ABOUT your lover..about her family background or whether he/she had any relation etc..but in arrange marriage we do not know anythng about our soul mate n more over a known devil is better than a unknown angel...lol
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@siliguri (4224)
• India
29 Apr 10
I like to have arrange marriage..because arrange marriage is most success and peaceful life..rather then love marriage...
@vishkris (205)
• India
29 Apr 10
who said arrange marriage are more successful..the main reason for divorce is arrange marriage coz u couldn't manage to adjust with your wife or hubby..n fight starts
@RobinJ (2501)
• Canada
1 May 10
I am not sure which one I think is best but If you do not mind a bit of information, a love marriage is not as you think, You may know some one your entire life but until you live with them do you truly get to know them. As well in love marriages, either or both parties can lie and deceive each other again only living together will actually show a person's true nature. I may be misinformed but I thought in arranged marriages both parties were under scrutiny for a very long time, and just think you both start on a level playing field, you know very little about each other, and there for no games needed. Very interesting topic
• India
30 Apr 10
hi vishkris,I believe in love marriage as in that we at-least know the history of the person to whom we are going to marry..we know her very well and which mean less problem after the marriage as both of can understand each other very well but in arrange marriage we will require time to adjust in the family and also can face more problems in the life if we fail to understand each other..
@maharlikah (1045)
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
Both are good but it depends upon the situation. In arranged marriage we are not sure if both will live happily ever after. But when both are in love and are compatible enough to live together for sure they will live in harmony.
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
i choice both love marriage and arrange marriage..that's all i can say thank you.and god bless you!!!.
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
arranged marriage could only be successful once both parties knows each other well and better and the couple learned to love each other even they are just arranged by parents. if the couple knows how to handle things., like chinese most of them i have learned got an arrange wedding because they want that their business shall flourished with helping together with both families. But not all arranged marriage enjoys the processed it's hard to love a person, unless developed love. Still the love marriage is the best because you have marry the person you love it's all because you love him so., or love her so. Love is very important thing among other thing.
• Philippines
29 Apr 10
I prefer to have a love marriage because I want to have a wife whom I love. I think arrange marriage is not that great because both of you do not know each other well, maybe it will end up fine but who knows? No one can tell what will happen in the future.