Does Assuming Helps?

Philippines
April 29, 2010 11:38am CST
I do not know, but I am so bothered today. I had received a call from someone very special to me. But I guess we had misunderstanding, I could not just call back, in any way. My friend told me that it's all right. He told me that she can understand. Now I want to talk to this person, but I could not find here this time. I do not know. Does assuming helps that she is all right?
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15 responses
• India
29 Apr 10
ya!! dont worry , as u dont have time!!but whos that special ones, what misunderstanding, no dont think about this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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• Philippines
29 Apr 10
dear friend, I hope I could just assume she is all right at this... but I guess I need to know if she is really doing fine...
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@saphrina (31744)
• South Africa
29 Apr 10
She is fine, Prime. Just a bit sad. Nothing to worry about.
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• Philippines
30 Apr 10
I know I can calm down now...
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• United States
29 Apr 10
I don't think she asssumed, she Knows you. With my friend I know and understand if he is upset , we will get this tone that may upset others but it doesn't upset me. So before he can say I'm sorry , I say I understand. Asssuming to me is bad.Everyone shoulsd just stop and listen and Then respond. But to asssume youKnow what is about to be said is bad.
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• Philippines
29 Apr 10
Thank you sarah...
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• United States
29 Apr 10
You are welcome. I'm glad I could help.
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
you are my friend sarah, remember, and I will always treasure anything coming from you...
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• China
30 Apr 10
I don't think assuming help.Don not hesitate any more,act!Just pick the phone and call her!
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• Philippines
1 May 10
I like this qing! Well said...
@eurekafemme (5881)
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
If she is important and you had indeed the conversation with a misunderstanding, then it is not all right to assume that she is ok. How can you say that? Besides, it is never a good feeling when you have an argument with someone,no matter what the reason is. It is proper to call her back, make an effort to find her, and settle the misunderstanding. Be at peace.:-)
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• Philippines
1 May 10
That's verygood dear friend... that's a best response.... and I am happy to hear from you... I hope you are all right too by now... God bless... and we are all right now... thanks for the nice advice...
@libramie (563)
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
With our modern technology now a days, finding someone you want to talk to or to see is not something hard if you want to. Don't assume just communicate to have you a peace of mind.
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• Philippines
1 May 10
verygood point dear... I like that... and yes I had just done that... thanks ... and now it's all right...
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
Hi Prime! Don't hold to your feelings assuming that she is ok. you have to check her if she is really alright., if you really love here, then do the best as you can., if you really concern about her feelings then you must take some action right? if theirs a will there a way... good luck!
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• Philippines
1 May 10
if there's a will there's a way---that's verygood cherwin my friend... I love her.. and we are okay already... thanks for all your concern... and you can already use your emoticons... congrats dear friend...
@cmjune76 (274)
• United States
29 Apr 10
Without fully knowing the complexity of what is going on, all I can suggest it letting it go for now.
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• Philippines
1 May 10
you also have some good point dear friend... and I am happy now that it is all fix... thanks...
@cream97 (29178)
• United States
29 Apr 10
Hi, primeeaque86. No, assuming does not help most of the time. It is better to find out from your friend if she is indeed really alright. Don't just assume that she is because another friend told you that she was. It is better to find out from the horse's mouth itself. That way you can know the real truth.
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• Philippines
1 May 10
That's a very good idea my friend... now I know that she is all right... but I will always remember that advice... i gu8ess it would work most of the times... yes, it would...
@bagputza (504)
• Belgium
29 Apr 10
Hello dear friend Primeaque86 , if i ware put in your place , i guess i couln't help not to feel bothered too , knowing that this close person to you might not be okay , i think the best thing to do right now its try to contact this person trough the mobile phone or try sending her an email. Does this person has Facebook , or does it connects to msn ? If it does try leaving messages all around , sayin' that your a bitt worried and if with a bit of luck , you might come across this person and have your feelings back in place. I in gennerall , when it come to my fammilly or close friends that i care verry much about , i dont like to assume thingz ( Only when it comes to poker ) , i prefere to convince myself and see the proof with my own eyes.Now if its good to assume or not , i cannot say dear friend , hence i cannot speak in someone else's place. Have a nice day dear Primeaque86
• Philippines
1 May 10
That's a nice advice from you dear friend... you are always giving that to me every time you come in here... I really appreciated that... yes... and you knew I just did what exactly you told me... and now I know that she is all right... there was just trouble happening in her place... that's the reason... but now it's all right... and I am so happy...
@saphrina (31744)
• South Africa
29 Apr 10
I don't think it was a misunderstanding. Maybe somethng went wrong somewhere.
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
Now I know thank so much My B... at least now I can breath easily...
@saphrina (31744)
• South Africa
30 Apr 10
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
and you know that I love your words...
@sunnycool (12738)
• India
30 Apr 10
If she really loved you then she would never misunderstand you Prime ---I wouldnt mind sort things out if there are any differences .As for time being look for the best than to get depressed over the worst
@saphrina (31744)
• South Africa
30 Apr 10
Thanx BB.
@sunnycool (12738)
• India
30 Apr 10
It would be a problem when a couple are fighting over a third person which isn't the case here
@saphrina (31744)
• South Africa
30 Apr 10
Now the whole world knows, i have a very nasty BB.
@eLsMarie (4135)
• Philippines
6 May 10
Hi Kuya! With this kind of situation, I don't really think that it does. I don't know but I think it would be better if you'd make the effort to contact again the person. I would assume that you won't get tired because she's special to you as you say.
• Philippines
8 May 10
You are right my Little Sis Em.... she is very special, so I had some my best effort... how are you today?
@eLsMarie (4135)
• Philippines
17 May 10
Hi! I'm okay... I'm a bit excited because school year is fast approaching. I really miss studying and doing all the nerdy stuffs...
• Philippines
17 May 10
I am so much happy for you my little sis em, are you about to finish college now?
@SomeCowgirl (32277)
• United States
17 May 10
Maybe they didn't understand like they said they would and are upset with you? I am sure that everything is all well now though as it's been three weeks since this post.
• Philippines
20 May 10
yes, everything is all right now my friend, I am glad that you still drop something with this post, I was really worried that time, but at least we had settled everything, and now it's fine, we are happy.... God bless and happy mylotting!!!
@Hatley (134692)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Apr 10
prime If you had a call from someone very special, and something happened to cause a misunderstanding, don;t just assume, find out as assuming is just so iffy,you might assume correctly that she is okay or again in assuming you may assume incorrectly. If I were you I would find out the truth and straighten it all out.
• Philippines
1 May 10
Yes, thank you dear friend hatley... it's really good to give an assurance...
@neildc (16903)
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
get some loads so you can call her. don't waste time. this is a matter of love and love.
• Philippines
1 May 10
Perfect neil... and it's all right now... thanks for the nice advice...