Is your mother is real friend of you...??

@arunmails (3013)
India
April 29, 2010 9:11pm CST
[b]Hi Friends, This is a very big sensational question that is arising nowadays, "Is your mother is real friend of you..??".. Only mom can understands our feelings and act accordingly to that... but, how many of us are treating our mom as our real friend..?? is your mom is a good friend of you...??[/b]
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• Bangalore, India
30 Apr 10
ya i have the best mother,and she is really a friendly woman and i have a lot of thing to say about her ..that is she will be so friendly but times when she have to act as a mother at that time she acts and we have to play a role and my mother do all things for me and she give me what i need and in the right way and in the right way ..i loved my mother and i think all the life in the world will love its mother as it is the source of love and only some does not realize that thing and go in the wrong way so i think my mother do all the stuff and she the really great and we learn a lot of things from them..and that is the thing..
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@arunmails (3013)
• India
1 May 10
so you are the one of the luckiest person in the world..
@piya84 (2591)
• India
30 Apr 10
Hiii arun Yes i am very close to my mother and i can say that we are not only daughter and mother but we are good friends as well.I see many girls of my age talking about generation gap but this changing values and time has never affected us till date.There are differences but we respect those differences and we never clash and try to force each others view on each other.
@Zhizho (1352)
• Indonesia
30 Apr 10
Yes, My mother is real friend for me since I was married. I told her everything what I face on my life after marriage. I think before married, we have no good relation like now. Because she enough strength to educate us as her daughters. I know, she would like better things happen to us. But that make us fear her. So, I can't be friend with her. But, day by day, she was oped minded.And now, we like a friend. Truly friend.
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@besthope44 (12145)
• India
30 Apr 10
Well am lucky in this,but not my friends. Most of them are very strict and always maintain a distance with their children. They wanted their son and daughter to do what parents wanted, so the closeness is very less, unlike my mom.
@agv0419 (3030)
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
I know my mother cares for me although we have a lot of disagreements. I think most of the mother love their children but some don't. Our mother treat us equally unlike our father. Although I'm not telling all our problems to her but I think she feels it too that we have problems.
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@arunmails (3013)
• India
1 May 10
some parents think their children are children to them whatever they are... this is a big problem...
@junrapmian (2170)
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
My mother and I are not friends. I mean, I don;t treat her as my close friend, I am not used to telling her about my secrets or problems because most often than not, she will just scold me for being so careless and tactless. She is closer to my oldest brother and youngest sister. I don't know, I grew up feeling that there is a gap between us. I am closer to my father, I can tell him anything about me. Even my first sanitary napkin, he accompanied me to a nearby store to buy it. That's how close I am with my father. He is always there with me, to the PTA meetings, to school recognition days, he always attended school programs if I am a participant, he accompanies me to malls. These things although, I tell my mother first, she won't go with me and she will tell me to ask my father instead. Yeah, I grew up having disappointments with my mother but that was so long ago, I have my own children now. And I treated them all well and equally. They consider me as their friend whom they count on. I am always present in their school, I really take time from my office work if I'm needed. I don't want my children to grow having hurt feelings against me.
• Singapore
30 Apr 10
It's so sad to hear a story like that. You mean until now, there is this feeling that you somewhat "hate your mother" for those things that she did on the past?
@arunmails (3013)
• India
1 May 10
So, you are maintaining a decent relationship with your mother..
@Hatley (164065)
• Garden Grove, California
1 May 10
hi arunmails my mom has been gone for many years but I was very close with her all the time and respected her very much,and I did try to be a good daughter to her too. Now my dad I could not stand as he was a bigot and stern and hypocritical man who said one thing and did the opposite thing. He and the young woman whom myhalf brother eventually married had two illegitimate girls thenhe turned around and married my own mother who was 20 to his 58 andhe was grey haired and mean tempered to her. so my dad was not my friend but mymom always was.
@arunmails (3013)
• India
1 May 10
still now you are remembering you mom means, I can understand how she is a good friend to you...
@singuri (571)
• India
30 Apr 10
Yes my mother is a real friend of mine. i share every thing with my mother. She gives good advices and she always tells me to be positive in life and take everything happened is for our good.Some thing strange about my mother is she doesn't want to talk about her parents. I don't know why. Till now its remains a question to me.
@arunmails (3013)
• India
1 May 10
Good that you have a nice mom.. i think your mom might not have got a nice parent as you got..
• India
30 Apr 10
no,my mother and i are not good friends and i don't agree that they always do understand our feelings.well,sometimes it is true that mother's can be good friends that happens only in case of mother-daughter relationship.otherwise its not a good idea to make our mom's are best buddies simply because if we do that we are in a way imposing a lot of restrictions on ourselves.personally,my mother and i are not good friends.i prefer her only to be my mom only rather than my friend.
@arunmails (3013)
• India
1 May 10
Ya... in some cases I agree with you... not all the time she will be a good friend..
@junrapmian (2170)
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
My mother and I are not friends. I mean, I don't treat her as my close friend, I am not used to telling her about my secrets or problems because most often than not, she will just scold me for being so careless and tactless. She is closer to my oldest brother and youngest sister. I don't know, I grew up feeling that there is a gap between us. I am closer to my father, I can tell him anything about me. Even my first sanitary napkin, he accompanied me to a nearby store to buy it. That's how close I am with my father. He is always there with me, to the PTA meetings, to school recognition days, he always attended school programs if I am a participant, he accompanies me to malls. These things although, I tell my mother first, she won't go with me and she will tell me to ask my father instead. Yeah, I grew up having disappointments with my mother but that was so long ago, I have my own children now. And I treated them all well and equally. They consider me as their friend whom they can count on. I am always present in their school, I really take time from my office work if I'm needed. I don't want my children to grow having hurt feelings against me.
• Philippines
30 Apr 10
I don't know why my response was posted twice. Sorry for this.
• Philippines
3 May 10
of course my mother is a real friend of mine.. there is no more than other real friend than my mom.. she tells me always the truth.. she knows exactly who i am and what i am... she never gives up on me no matter what.. though sometimes i acted like i am over her, but still she remains there for me.. in our ups and downs of our lives, she is the one who almost sacrifices everything just for me to hold on in life no matter what.. mother knows really best... :-)
@zhouxi (1756)
• China
1 May 10
my mom is my real friend.i always like talking to her whenever i meet something.my son doesn't think i am his real friend.he always complains that i'm too strict to him.
• Malaysia
1 May 10
i dont treat my mother as my friend at all .. there is a limit for matters that can be discussed with our mothers, some matters can only be discussed with real friends as mothers will not understand