why some times your confidence lets you down?

Pakistan
May 1, 2010 7:21am CST
when you are very confidence of getting some thing from some where and you dont get it you really feel down as well as ashamed too. e.g you are the only one to get a position and you dont get it and the other person which is not even your mind to get it gets it you really feel down. it effects your work as well as your efficiency too. why people dont get that giving salary is not every thing some times some one is looking for pride and many many more things?? some times we need encouragement and some times a motivation too it is just because they are not well trained or they seek some thing wrong in us? can you tell me what is the main reason behind that?? or some times it is favoritism? Gohar
3 responses
@vandana7 (62290)
• India
1 May 10
Hi gohar, so nice to see you back. How are you doing? Last time we met on boards you were really sick. How is your gf? As to your question gohar, such things happen in everybody's lives. In retrospect I feel god had better plans for me so he did that. Had god not allowed that, I would have been in a real mess. So whatever happens, happens for our best. At 50, I can confidently say that. Trust allah, and ask him something better. take care
• Pakistan
1 May 10
well my sick season has not ended yet hahaha.. was suffering from fever for 15 days, got well for 2 days now having throat infection from 5 days hahahha.. i am not very healthy that is why i get caught by fever and sickness very fast. well about girlfriend she is fine and her family have said no to our proposal after 2.5 years hahahha.. but i am not leaving her i have told her i will and am with her. just dont worry, how are you my dear sister, how is your family missed you every one very much gohar
@vandana7 (62290)
• India
1 May 10
I am sorry to learn that you dont keep so well. Thanks for calling me sister Gohar. :) I am really honored. :) Gohar, I dont know if you are taking good breakfast. You do need to do that. The way you are getting sick, it is not at all healthy. Please ensure that you eat very heavy breakfast, preferably with lots of proteins, and fiber. That seems to be the problem with your health. Try that for four months everyday without fail, and if everything becomes alright, I would have bit the nail on its head. Use ginger in your tea. :) We have Brooke Bond natural here. It keeps me away from infections. If you have an equivalent, please try. As long as your girlfriend is with you, nothing matters. I am trying to lose some weight. :) No sugar. :) Family is good. :) Yeah, I too missed you dear brother. :)
• Pakistan
1 May 10
well well well.. break fast hahahah havent done break fast in last 4 years or soo. only lunch and dinner and a cup of tea in school near 12 pm in break time. well i am not a good eater that is why i find these sickness in me. i need a wife to give me all those break fast and lunches and dinners.. are you getting my point hahahahah i am very lazy :P gohar
@ericpapasit (1276)
• Philippines
1 May 10
Shalom Well, when you if stop believing in you self then discouragement come..... don't just quit push through and trust God... be patient, God has a plan and you can rely on Him.... Just sharing
• Pakistan
1 May 10
yes,you are right i always do the way you are talking about. because our religion also says that but some times people can fed up of that. i only mean that thanks for your response Gohar
@manbir84 (135)
• India
2 May 10
It could be favoritism nothing more.You should quit that organization if you have another option Or you have to find reason for that in some unconventional way.Be prepare for such shocks in this cruel world.If you have guts then be aggressive to achieve your goals.Not let dip in your performance after this incident if it it happens then it would be mistake in your side.Keep trying.It is not lecture from me.I telling you from my experience in my life.Most important have faith in God because it is not above the God,if some problem remain unsolved then leave it to God.This will surely help you.