Are you friendly or not?

Philippines
May 4, 2010 1:20am CST
I'm naturally friendly but I'm a quiet type of person. I have a feeling that because I'm quiet some people don't want to be my friend. I have only few friends. And i am a good friend to them. I'm hoping that some people in my sorrounding see's me the way my friends are. so that they can be my friends too. Do you want to be my friend?
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@andy77e (5165)
• United States
5 May 10
I'm the odd sort. I am very friendly, but not a good friend. In fact, I have almost no friends, because I don't trust anyone. People in America are rather cruel. So typically I am extremely friendly to everyone I meet, but I don't exchange phone numbers, never go out with people, and never have people over at my house. But other than that I get alone with everyone fine.
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• United States
5 May 10
Not all of us are that way. I am open to talking to anyone who approaches me..I am quiet and shy but will open up if someone breaks the ice first. I kinda keep to myself but am always nice and friendly.
• Canada
6 May 10
So, do you have such a negative and paranoid attitude because you have been treated badly, or abused or something? You say alot of "Never's". You're awfully young to be playing hermit. Or do you have a medical condition that makes you feel this way? I'm curious.
@andy77e (5165)
• United States
6 May 10
ah.. I suppose it would have to do with the fact that every person who has called me 'friend' has ended up stabbing me in the back. It's just not worth the risk to me.
@nangisha (3504)
• Indonesia
5 May 10
I am friendly but I can so picky about who will really close to me. Only the trustworthy and loyal will be my real friend. I think we need to know many people but few of them you can call real friend.
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@rhodalyn (251)
• Philippines
5 May 10
i have so many friends..my close one even call me as ms.congeniality because everywhere i go i will meet a friend of mine..im jolly maybe that's why i have so many friends..it feels great when you have many friends..im open to anyone who wants to have friendship with me..
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• Japan
5 May 10
I am very friendly.But sometimes I do know if I am wrong
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@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
4 May 10
I am only friendly when i need to be. Too much hassle with people who can really let your hair stand on end. We cannot always be friendly and smiling, but we can try. TATA.
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
4 May 10
My point exactly, sweetie. TATA.
@amelly (1556)
• Malaysia
4 May 10
i'm also a friendly kind of person and i also have many kind of friends..some like to gossip,others are quiet and some to hyper..i try to adjust myself to many kind of friends.if she;s a quiet type,i would not force her to speak like me but maybe i will try a different approach.there must be a reason why she hardly speak,maybe she's shy or she just don't want to speak all the time..i do respect all of them and i'm not bias with my friends..
• Philippines
5 May 10
wow, i hope i can see you and be my friend.. God bless.. You know I'm really quiet type but once a person became a friend of mine, i will let her/him or him know who really i am. I will share her/him the story of my life.
@cream97 (29166)
• United States
9 Mar 11
Hi. nice030481. Yes, I am friendly. I myself am also quiet too. I don't talk around people as much. But, I am nice when I am in a conversation with them though. Yes, I will be your friend, God did not make all of us alike, others will just have to accept you just the way that you are.
@dorannmwin (36698)
• United States
8 Dec 10
I tend to be a very friendly person. Typically I would say that I am able to get along with everyone. However, there are some exceptions to that statement because if I have been doublecrossed by someone, I'm not able to be friendly toward them any longer. I really don't have a lot of close friends because I choose to keep that circle small, but I have a lot of casual friends because those are the people that I tend to be most comfortable with outside my small circle of close friends.
• Philippines
26 May 10
i'm quiet at first, but once i get to know you i am talkative. that was my problem when i was a student. there are times i can't stop talking. some of my friends said at first they thought i was a snob, but once they knew me i wasn't. but i am friendly, i want to help others at all times.
@sheetalnr (590)
• India
9 May 10
I am quite friendly only to the people i know. Otherwise it doe take me tme to adjust with others who are strangers.
@yugasini (12839)
• Anantapur, India
6 May 10
hi nice, i am also a friendly person,if any one started friendship with me ,they do not leave me,that is my personality,i am having helping nature and caring nature,i respect friends and i am strait forward person,what is in my mind i will speak with the friend directly,that is my mentality,may be my words are some what strict ,but i am sincere and trustworthy person,have a nice day
@quita88 (3716)
• United States
5 May 10
Sure I want to be your friend ! but I warn you I am an old woman LOL hugs, quita88
@Opal26 (17690)
• United States
5 May 10
Hi nice! There is nothing wrong with being quiet! People are going to like you for being you! As you've already said, you do have friends and they like you! I don't think that people don't want to be your friend because you are quiet. Alot of people are quiet and a bit shy and there is nothing wrong with that! You just be who you are and don't worry what anyone else thinks! And I would love to be your friend!lol
• China
5 May 10
Of course I am friendly to everyone,my friend,colleagues,and even strangers.But I am not a girl of quiet.But there are many different types of "quiet"people.Sometimes I will find it's hard to start a conversation with a quiet girl,because she always keep quiet or just give smiles,and may make me don't know what to say because she doesn't like talking,which will make me boring.I think that is not quiet,just not talkactive.
@RachelleNH (1408)
• United States
5 May 10
I'm the same way-quiet and shy but totally friendly..but I've been told by some people that I can be seen as "stuck up" or arrogant-but I'm in no way those things. Once I get into conversation-I'll be anyone's friend. Sure, I'll be your friend!
• United States
4 May 10
I guess that you can say that I am friendly. I have actually become really shy when it comes to making new friends which is weird because I wasn't like that in high school but I was like that in middle school. Now if you ask people they will tell you that I am friendly and reliable. Sometimes I may look mad but that's just because that's the way my face is and I don't really smile when I am out and about. This will probably make people think that I am horrible but I'm not.
• India
4 May 10
I am quite freindly and i will help others. So i have lot of freinds. I am a short temper too. When my freinds kid also i will get tensed and i will scold them. this was not liked by my freinds. But i am trying to change it and i was unable to do that.
• Philippines
4 May 10
i am kinda quiet and reserved person that's why most of the time people think i an not approachable. am am not also not good in making new friends specially with my age range but ok with people older than me maybe because at home I am used to older people. i have friends same with my age but they are usually my classmates before. I think i can consider myself friendly, but i am not not easily being comfortable with new acquaintances.
@pumared (515)
• Bulgaria
4 May 10
I am friendly every time what can i do? You have to be good friend
• China
4 May 10
Hi nice030481 First, let me talk about myself, I think I am friendly person, I like to talk to anybody, and I always try to make a good communication with other people, even if somebody I don't like him, but I always try to be politely and firendly. And I think you are great person, have a nice day.