Do you want to marry?

China
May 4, 2010 3:58am CST
On may 1 day i attented my good friends wedding,i'm so happy that she was deeply feel happiness.she finally found his lover,marrige is a major event in life,she finally completed.at this time i felt loney,suddenly i also want to get married,so i decided that this year i must make myselves married,haha---single friend.do you want to get married,married friends,do you regret to get married.
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@monkeylong (3147)
• Guangzhou, China
5 May 10
As far as I am concerned, I think I do not want to have a marriage at the moment ,just for I am so young now. I do not want to have a marriage at so young an age. I think I need to spend more time to be a single,whicvh I think can be a wonderful one for me at the moment. If it really needs to marry, I think it would be about 5 years later.
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@monkeylong (3147)
• Guangzhou, China
5 May 10
As far as I am concerned, I think I do not want to have a marriage at the moment ,just for I am so young now. I do not want to have a marriage at so young an age. I think I need to spend more time to be a single,whicvh I think can be a wonderful one for me at the moment. If it really needs to marry, I think it would be about 5 years later.
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@monkeylong (3147)
• Guangzhou, China
5 May 10
As far as I am concerned, I think I do not want to have a marriage at the moment ,just for I am so young now. I do not want to have a marriage at so young an age. I think I need to spend more time to be a single,whicvh I think can be a wonderful one for me at the moment. If it really needs to marry, I think it would be about 5 years later.
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• Philippines
5 May 10
Nice topic Xiaxin. I am married and I can relate to this topic of yours. With regards to being single, well as long as you are happy then by no means enjoy being single, because once you get married, you will not only mind of your own, but be responsible to your partner too. Being married should be taken seriously, it is not a joke that you will just quit if you like too. Marriage is a commitment and a covenant that you set before God, it is sacred. Before you decide to settle down, you need to ask yourself if the person you choose will be the one you can grow old with grace by God's help and if the person loves you and is ready to give his life for you. There should be love and respect to both of you. If you haven't found the right person yet, then just wait for the proper time and don't force yourself just because a friend of yours got married, and suddenly you felt so alone. Please do consider the pros and cons before deciding to get married. Happy Mylotting.
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• Philippines
5 May 10
I think the issue of marriage is a two-way process. You and your future better-half should agree that married life is not a game. Once you entered in such relationship, there is no turning back and no space for regrets. Me? I want to get married to the man whom I think will love me for who I am, with no more buts. I guess every single lady wish to have a real partner someday, to share with her thoughts and feelings. So I think, you should look now for your lifetime partner and start planning for a wonderful marriage and I wish you the best ahead of you. God bless...
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@rhodalyn (251)
• Philippines
5 May 10
I want to get married..to have children and to be a mother for them..i love kids,,i also want to be a good wife to my husband to be..i want to have a happy family..
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@emdyey09 (264)
• Philippines
5 May 10
i'm turning 27 this year. being single at this age had become an issue. I want to get married, but only with the right reasons. Not just because everybody is pushing you to that direction, you suddenly decide you want to marry. Besides, marriage life is difficult. "And they lived happily ever after.." is a line ONLY for fairy tales. I'm not a cynic, I'm just realistic. Make sure you have secured finances before you get married and you can tolerate your partner because marriage really is for better and for worst. Divorce maybe is convenient BUT if that is your option when worst comes to worst, then prevention is better than cure. If you can't stand your partner, DON'T GET MARRIED. Since your still single, here's my advice.. Meet a lot of people, have prospects and choose well. Good luck! ^_^
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@mapuang (615)
• Philippines
4 May 10
Wedding is best day in one's life. This is the day that you really told to your self that you found someone you can be with in the rest of your life. I have boyfriend and we're planning to be married this year or maybe next year (i hope so). This is the most wonderful event of my life and can't wait to make it happen.
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4 May 10
For me getting married has been the best experince ever. I got married very young. I was only 19...and am only 21 now!!! We have been married just over 18 months, and are expecting our first baby 10 days after our 2nd anniversary. We got married because we were in love, a lot of people get married for the wrong reasons, or don't get married for the wrong reasons!!! There are lots of people I know, who want to marry, but won't because of the financial situation, their benefits would drop basically!! For us, we didn't care, we married because we were mad about each other, and we love each other more now, than we did when we married, we are best friends, we socialise together and laugh together, we're more like friends than a married couple, we fight and bicker just like brother and sister, but no matter what, at the end of the day, we give each other a huge kiss and cuddle and tell each other we love each other. I am not going to make out marriage isn't hard, good grief we have argued like cat and dog, we have money problems, we worry, and I get fed up of his family. But we have got through it all, and in our first two years we have gone through more than most will go through in a decade, and still made it out alive! I hope our marriage lasts forever, I hope we are always happy together, and I hope that no matter how our lives change, that we will adapt and stay with it. No matter how hard it is. But I cannot see the future, all I know is I will always fight for our marriage, and I am pretty sure my husband will do the same...I don't know what is going to happen in the next 5 years, I don't know how our lives will change, but I know that marriage is something which has made my life complete. I worried before I met my husband that I'd never meet someone, and then he turned up. Soppy? Yes. He's my everything. And I pray that we always stay as we are. So if your sitting there thinking, should I get married to this man? Maybe your answer should be no...because when my husband asked me to marry him, there wasn't a seconds hesitation before I said yes...there is no rule book for a happy marriage, some work, and some don't. It can happen for all kinds of reasons, whether it's adultary or just that you no longer love each other. But nothing should stop you fighting or been with the person you love :)
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• Bulgaria
4 May 10
I wanna get married with my boyfriend someday I believe I've found the man in my life. We've been together for 2 years and I want to grow old with him. Happy day all :)
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@piya84 (2591)
• India
4 May 10
Hiii there well my close there out of three friends are married and there are times when i feel alone but somehow on this earth i dont want ot get married.I dont know if it is fear of change or may be i haven't found right man till date. I am in my mid twenty and i dont want to get married.
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@velentina (893)
• Mauritius
4 May 10
Hi I think you should get married and have a person by your side to share your sorrows and happiness. Marriage is a lifelong commitment so think well before you get married. You have to plan well and look for a good life partner. Goodluck buddy. I do not regret for getting married.
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• Philippines
4 May 10
I'm single but i plan to get married one day and have kids. It's one of my goals in life. I want to start my own family and make it grow. I want to have successful children and loving wife.
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@calfbull (14)
4 May 10
Marriage is a major event in one's life.It is imprudent for you to decide that you get married in one year to fufil your lifelong task,just influenced by your good friend's wedding.
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@kharlav (1673)
• Philippines
4 May 10
Oh yes, I want to get married and I even want to marry after 2 or 3 years from, when I'm 24 or 25. I know it still very early, but I dont know, I guess I just want to have a family on my own and have children. But I just want to marry the person whom God chose for me so that I will truly be happy with this person because God's grace will be with us if that happens.
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@hisoka147 (606)
• Philippines
4 May 10
Getting married is a serious issue and it should not be taken for granted by simply getting married because you wanted too. Marrying somebody else takes a lot of devotion because you have to commit into your lover to be always together for the rest of your life. I don't really want to sound here like a priest to the brief summary of what I'm trying to say is to search for the right person whom you would like to be with the rest of your life.
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@kheigh (216)
4 May 10
i;m still young and i have lots of plans for my life and family but i would surely want to get married someday. 'cause we would all get old and it would be nice to be with someone special. it would be nice to spend the rest of your life with the person you truly love. but until i meet that someone and i fulfill my dreams, i don't think i'll get married in the next 10 years.
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@weasel81 (2502)
• Australia
4 May 10
i'm single now, and want to enjoy life before i settle down and marry. i will do it eventually and maybe have another child.
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• Philippines
4 May 10
I wanna get married someday coz I believe I've found the man in my life. We've been together for 2 years and I want to grow old with him.
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@dorannmwin (36697)
• United States
8 Dec 10
From the time that I was a child, I always knew that I wanted to get married and that dream became a reality for me when I was twenty-four years old. I've been married to my husband for six and a half years now and there is not one day of my marriage that I have regretted. I love being married and I love having someone that I am able to walk through life with. I really don't see it ever happening that I will ever regret my decision to get married to my husband.