what if your one relation comes to an end???

@umit_umit (1986)
India
May 5, 2010 3:21am CST
what all of you will do if your one relation comes to an end??will you go for the second one?and do all the things again for the partner to be with you??as yo never know the other may leave you??what is the gurantee??what is your view!
4 responses
@netcoder (276)
• Philippines
5 May 10
the truth is we cant control nor hold someones heart so no matter what we do if the other half already lost his or her interest towards us then we cant do something about it even if we tied them up as we only suffer a lot if they stay and yet they are not happy with us. its not easy to find someone that will really stick to us at the end and if theres someone then how lucky they are. if we could only hold someones heart. everytime we enter into relationship its better to do things like friends with your partner instead of thinking them as your bf or gf. or better yet, look for someone who love you more than you do and give your best to show them that you deserve it and if they didnt appreciate it then maybe theres someone out there who well deserve to us.
@umit_umit (1986)
• India
5 May 10
Good and cozy thoughts sweets!happy loting nice friend!!
@krisnel (498)
• Philippines
5 May 10
i will continue to move my life though it is so painful. i know that here is a second love for me that is more better that my first.
@umit_umit (1986)
• India
5 May 10
well you are lucky if you have got the second one who really loves you!as sometimes the marriages based on adjustments break!
@jugsjugs (13045)
5 May 10
I went and got a divorce from my first husband who i was married to for over 3 years and i have now been married again to another man for nearly 14 years and we have been together for nearly 16 years.I think that there are always a person for everyone and i wish that i had not got married to the first husband.I think it would have been a better idea to live with the person for over a year and then planned to get married rather than rush things after only a year.
@umit_umit (1986)
• India
5 May 10
well if there is seperation after say 10 years then i think to move ahead is very difficult the strenght is over!!
• Philippines
5 May 10
I am one of the people who had a failed or broken relationship. Actually, I had been in a five-year relationship, and I was about to be officially engaged when I called the whole thing off for a lot of reasons. Anyway, to answer the question, I will move on and continue living my life. I know that there's no guarantee of a long and lasting new relationship, but it's a risk I have to take one of these days. I guess, one of the things I have learned after the break-up is not to forget to love myself as well, because I don't think it's possible to give love if I don't have it within me.
@umit_umit (1986)
• India
5 May 10
well its very true a person who loves one self can only love the other!