what do you do when you have a broken heart?
8 May 10
Well, its really hard for the first time but, after getting over that, its a good basis for the other broken hearted scenarios that one might go through again. You can try to convince yourself that you guys weren't really meant for each other or you can find someone better but, if you are really hurt because of some reason that the relationship really didn't work or didn't even start, its up to the person if they would continue to be sad or angry about it. It happens..
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9 May 10
Well it happened to me like a few days ago and I tried to pretend like i didn't give a damn, but the truth was, she was always on my mind. I say you should be friends with them (depends on what ended the relationship), or move on. I did both and I'm getting into a girl I've always flirted with.
8 May 10
I go to the parlor, cut my hair, have it photograph, pamper myself, eat whatever I want, buy new clothes, feel happy for the day... then cry the whole night. But, that's the way life is. We have to cry to be able to release the pain, and accept it. Healing would not be possible if you don't accept the burden... and after the storm had passed.. you will born again my friend. Welcome to a new YOU!
8 May 10
interesting :) i actually cut my hair too back when i had my heart broken. although not right away. i had it cut when i told my friend that i was ready to move on. then my friend, being the good friend that she is, also had her hair cut with me. although we did not photograph the cut hair.
6 May 10
i can get over it through finding another one. i can easily forget the pain if i will forget the person who made my heart broken and search for a better one whom i know can give me the love i need.
31 Jul 10
The best cure for a broken heart is to remember the wonderful times you were fortunate enough to share enjoy with the other person. Keep active in your mind only the good times. Know that like all wounds, you heart will heal also with time. Do as many things you can do that make you laugh and feel good. You can try getting out with friends or family, being alone will not help, too many things will be on your mind. Don't expect to fell better in a day or a week, this will take time. Be around people who can make you smile and forgot the sadness.
18 May 10
I cant get over it :( i try to keep myself busy with things and divert my mind. But at the end of the day when i am alone i just get back to her, thinking all night that why did it has to be like this? I just want to be with the girl i love the most. i dont really know what should i do to make her feel that i really love her.
11 May 10
Having a broken heart is not easy. Ive been in a relationship twice, for me it was serious. I dont about the girls I have relation with. When my heart was broken I coudn't sleep, and I can't stop thinking why did our relationship ended. Handling a broken heart alone is difficult so you must get an outlet, a person whom you can share your heartache. Some one who can advice you. In my situation before my parents are the one who comforted me, thats one way how you get over it. Another is to put away all the things that will make you remember him/her, examples are pictures, gifts, etc. you know what I mean? All the things that will remind you of him/her. This will help also, keep youself busy, put your attention into something. Watch movie, go somewhere you will spend time alone by yourself. hope this help. Good day.