what do you do when you have a broken heart?

@allamgirl (2145)
Philippines
May 5, 2010 11:12pm CST
how do you get over it?
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15 responses
@ratyz5 (7829)
• Philippines
8 May 10
Well, its really hard for the first time but, after getting over that, its a good basis for the other broken hearted scenarios that one might go through again. You can try to convince yourself that you guys weren't really meant for each other or you can find someone better but, if you are really hurt because of some reason that the relationship really didn't work or didn't even start, its up to the person if they would continue to be sad or angry about it. It happens..
@allamgirl (2145)
• Philippines
8 May 10
like sheryl crowe sang, "the first cut is the deepest" :)
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@ratyz5 (7829)
• Philippines
8 May 10
Have not heard Sheryl Crowe for a long time now..
@allamgirl (2145)
• Philippines
8 May 10
:) it just plays on my ipod when i shuffle it. i didn't really know the song, my friend put the music in my ipod for me because i didn't know how at first , so i have a lot of songs that i don't know in my ipod :)
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@Andyvil (793)
• Philippines
9 May 10
accept everything that has happened. Forgive the person who hurt you. Forgive yourself and let time do the rest.
• United States
9 May 10
Dude that couldn't been said any better. I agree 100% with you.
@allamgirl (2145)
• Philippines
11 May 10
nicely said. it's kinda reverse to me though. i just let time move on , i forget then i forgive.
• United States
9 May 10
Well it happened to me like a few days ago and I tried to pretend like i didn't give a damn, but the truth was, she was always on my mind. I say you should be friends with them (depends on what ended the relationship), or move on. I did both and I'm getting into a girl I've always flirted with.
@allamgirl (2145)
• Philippines
11 May 10
i think in my case, it's better just to move on than try to be friends with him. i already tried it but we can't be just friends.
@maronva (15)
• Philippines
8 May 10
I go to the parlor, cut my hair, have it photograph, pamper myself, eat whatever I want, buy new clothes, feel happy for the day... then cry the whole night. But, that's the way life is. We have to cry to be able to release the pain, and accept it. Healing would not be possible if you don't accept the burden... and after the storm had passed.. you will born again my friend. Welcome to a new YOU!
@allamgirl (2145)
• Philippines
8 May 10
interesting :) i actually cut my hair too back when i had my heart broken. although not right away. i had it cut when i told my friend that i was ready to move on. then my friend, being the good friend that she is, also had her hair cut with me. although we did not photograph the cut hair.
@pumared (515)
• Bulgaria
6 May 10
when i have a beoken heart i go on.
@allamgirl (2145)
• Philippines
8 May 10
yup, i guess there's really nothing you can do but go on and move forward.
@rhodalyn (251)
• Philippines
6 May 10
i'll just cry and cry until makes me feel relieve..crying helps a lot when you're hurt..
@allamgirl (2145)
• Philippines
8 May 10
yeah, but sometimes, it feels like you have no more tears left in you, but you still wanna cry
• Indonesia
6 May 10
I never experinced as ssuch. difficult to at and drinking. without the fondation of faith and science can make a broken heart stress. overcome my disappointment with faith and science !
@allamgirl (2145)
• Philippines
8 May 10
you've never experienced one? wow, good for you.
@dpk262006 (56599)
• Delhi, India
6 May 10
hi all! There is nothing much to be done when when finds that his/her hearts is broken by some body. One needs to forget about the past and should look forward to some bright future. Cribbing over past will not do any good.
@allamgirl (2145)
• Philippines
8 May 10
the only way to move forward is to let go, right?
• Philippines
6 May 10
i can get over it through finding another one. i can easily forget the pain if i will forget the person who made my heart broken and search for a better one whom i know can give me the love i need.
@allamgirl (2145)
• Philippines
6 May 10
rebounds huh? :)
• United States
6 May 10
for me i just listen to music and sleep it off and hang with a friend of mine until im all good and ready to move on with life. or i drink with a friend till i pass out and forget all about my broken heart xD
@allamgirl (2145)
• Philippines
6 May 10
yup, friends really do help great with a broken heart. :)
@besthope44 (12145)
• India
14 Dec 10
Well though its tough Heal of a broken heart should be loved more..heart has to be given an heal, a peace and support. To focus on a different activity, work and giving heart a time to rest itself out of all sorrows.
• Malaysia
31 Jul 10
The best cure for a broken heart is to remember the wonderful times you were fortunate enough to share enjoy with the other person. Keep active in your mind only the good times. Know that like all wounds, you heart will heal also with time. Do as many things you can do that make you laugh and feel good. You can try getting out with friends or family, being alone will not help, too many things will be on your mind. Don't expect to fell better in a day or a week, this will take time. Be around people who can make you smile and forgot the sadness.
@rizzu87 (860)
• Malaysia
18 May 10
I cant get over it :( i try to keep myself busy with things and divert my mind. But at the end of the day when i am alone i just get back to her, thinking all night that why did it has to be like this? I just want to be with the girl i love the most. i dont really know what should i do to make her feel that i really love her.
• Philippines
13 May 10
shop!
• Philippines
11 May 10
Having a broken heart is not easy. Ive been in a relationship twice, for me it was serious. I dont about the girls I have relation with. When my heart was broken I coudn't sleep, and I can't stop thinking why did our relationship ended. Handling a broken heart alone is difficult so you must get an outlet, a person whom you can share your heartache. Some one who can advice you. In my situation before my parents are the one who comforted me, thats one way how you get over it. Another is to put away all the things that will make you remember him/her, examples are pictures, gifts, etc. you know what I mean? All the things that will remind you of him/her. This will help also, keep youself busy, put your attention into something. Watch movie, go somewhere you will spend time alone by yourself. hope this help. Good day.