What is necessary to fall in Love? Look or good Heart?

@keval32 (1099)
India
May 6, 2010 11:05am CST
Does look matters in love? Or Just good Heart is needed? As of me, good heart means: loving heart, caring heart, forgiving heart, and almost loyal heart. What u say what is most required to fall in love?
4 responses
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
7 May 10
at first, I must admit looks is the one you pay attention the most. but later on, you'll realize that a good heart is the one necessary to fall in love. loving a person possessing this kind of heart, you two can have a long time relationship.
@keval32 (1099)
• India
7 May 10
You're right Elleb, look is must for getting attracted. But after that good heart must be there to build good relationship for life time. Thanks.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
7 May 10
hm, i prefer to choose a woman with a good heart and make me confort when iam staying beside her
• Philippines
6 May 10
I will answer you question truthfully... "Love at first sight" it's basis of course is looks. We find something "mystique" in that person. And then we get to know the person, we get to hang out with them, get to talk to them, talk about personal non-shallow things and then from there... we'll know if we are bound to fall deeper than the usual "see" , or "look" At the end of it all, we can answer that heart is still all that matters. It ain't love if after getting to know the person and realize that the person is as nasty as our ex-wife's mother and still want to go on with our quest to having the person. Now I think that falls to different kind of attraction... Don't you think so?
@1anurag1 (3580)
• India
6 May 10
i think for love there is a true and pure heart needed. in my view if there is no true feelings in the heart of any body and this really works in real life true. if there is no purity in heart there is no value of being in love as no body can feel the heat then.