confused... help

Philippines
May 8, 2010 6:23am CST
this is my friend's problem. there was this guy who is five years older than her whom she really likes however the guy doesn't know it. this guy likes another girl, however my friend is confused most of the time because this guy likes hugging her most of the time, which she thinks that probably she is only treated as a little sister, but this guy doesn't do this to other girls. is there a meaning to this guy's gestures, what do you think
4 responses
• Philippines
8 May 10
I think that guy like him but he only afraid to say in words because of the friendship. And also she respect your friend that's why he only show it in action. Just tell your friend that ask his friend if his action has a meaning.
• Philippines
9 May 10
yup, it can be. some guys are just afraid of telling their tue feelings, but it is better to be said than expecting from nothing.
• Philippines
9 May 10
That should be. You some guys are afraid of telling there feeling because there afraid to be insulted. But me I am not afraid to tell my feeling if I like that girl. If I like him I will tell him I LOVE YOU.
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
8 May 10
Hmmm..tell your friend to be careful cause guys can give out some pretty mix signals sometimes.
• Philippines
8 May 10
yup, its really confusing unless this guy tells something to my friend. i just told my friend not to override the guy's gestures because it will just hurt her if she is hoping that this guy has also feelings for her.
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
9 May 10
Oh yeah, its the hardest thing when your actually expecting that this person feels the same way but then you find out that its actually nothing to him. It happened to me a lot of time, so yeah, its not a good feeling.
• India
8 May 10
hi dear don't confused in hugging. That does means the guy like her.pl. tell your friend to clearly talk with the guy whom she like and before going to worse end try to talk as soon as possible as friendly.
@juggerogre (1659)
• Philippines
8 May 10
If their is a girl that the guy likes then probably he hugs her because he treats her a his little sister. I suggest that your friend tells the guy what she really feels. There is also a possibility that he only likes the other girl. Like is very different from love. But she should also be prepared to whatever the guy will say. It can go either way...