Why aren't I pregnant?
@camillefetish101 (140)
United States
May 8, 2010 7:41am CST
So Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, we've been trying for 2 years.
It's been unsuccessful and I am getting worried. I'm 19 years old, smoker, don't drink much, and don't do any other drugs. I've taken Plan B pill once and now is regular on my period. What's wrong? Please help me :(
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@camillefetish101 (140)
• United States
9 May 10
we're actually engaged but we have to wait till end of this year to make it official because I have to finish my CNA hours to finally get patients.
and i know i know, you should be married before haivng kids, get a house, a career.
@camillefetish101 (140)
• United States
9 May 10
no offense taking dont worry. i was in a hurry to reply to you because i was cooking.
but yes i USED to stress out about this and then they told me to relax so i did and when I felt that i wasnt relaxed enough I would stress about that too, HAHA. Oh joy! lol.
@parveen86 (101)
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13 May 10
dont wory hun!
my sista in law had the same trouble, she were having trouble getting pregnant for 5 years.being asian we all thought the problem was her but it turned out my bro in law had a low sperm count, have you been to the docters yet?
if you want to check how fertile you are theres a test you can buy from boots, think its called fertel or something.
talk to your docter also and invest in some ovulation tests so that your trying on the right days.plus start having pregnacare tablets for folic acid and vitamins now itll help boost your fertility
@camillefetish101 (140)
• United States
13 May 10
WOW you are awesome. really? i haven't heard of those kinna pills. are they safe?
and Im asian too and Im the one doubting but everyones thinking "your man lost all his guppies* or something" haha.
@camillefetish101 (140)
• United States
15 May 10
haha thats what I said. nothing is wrong with me, its you its always the man's fault haha jk.
so pretty much they are prenatal vitamins or something like it?
@parveen86 (101)
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14 May 10
oh yeh dont worry they vitamins really but theyre combined mixture of vitamins that help your body prepare for a baby.
lol you should be glad they think its him, normally the women gets blamed lol!!
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
8 May 10
It could be psychological in that you are unconsciously thinking that you and he should be married before you get pregnant. It could also be that there is something wrong inside and you should get checked by a doctor. You might not have any eggs or there might be a blockage somewhere. I do know that there are certain diseases that are silent and do not cause pain until later when it is too late. And you or your boyfriend may have gotten them and not known about it. It also could be the pills have made you less resistant to infections.
It also could be your boyfriend has a low sperm count. Anyway I would go to the doctor and have yourself checked out because if there is something wrong, then your chances of getting it fixed would be greater sooner or later. And get your boyfriend to see the doctor as well.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
9 May 10
It could be. My first daughter-in-law has two children, but in between them, she thought she was pregnant. She released the egg but there was nothing inside, so she had all the symptoms of pregnancy, but she really was not. Her periods stopped, etc. so if that is happening to you, you should see the doctor. The eggs release once a month and sometimes they are empty so the sperm does not take. But really you should see a doctor. He or she will probably get more tests for you and see what is wrong. It is much easier now then it used to be. When I was trying to get pregnant, it was at the time when abortions were becoming available and no one cared about women wanting to get pregnant only the opposite. There was only one doctor that specialized in fertility in our city (a large city by the way), but his heart was not in it.
Now you can get help.
@camillefetish101 (140)
• United States
9 May 10
Is it possible that I don't release eggs and still have regular period cycle? Please tell me, that seems to interest me. And also thank you for your help. But I am very interested about the release of eggs.
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@Lavender_Breeze (373)
• United States
8 May 10
Are you charting your cycles? Making sure you're trying on your most fertile days? If not, then that's where you should start. There is really only a very small window in each cycle in which you can conceive. Most Doctors will want you to try that way (knowing you're hitting your most fertile days) for at least a year before doing any testing. Go to http://www.fertilityfriend.com and take their free online charting course. If you have any questions, feel free to ask!
@cobrayogesh (174)
• India
8 May 10
please dont feel that way honey you are only 19 he might have been negligent.better forget the past and start trying hard with love and take ur love making to the next level visit your nearby doctor for queries i m sure ur a doll dont be sad it makes me feel too
@camillefetish101 (140)
• United States
9 May 10
I know, everyone say I'm young to be thinking about pregnancy and yes I do agree. It's just this little voice in my head when he accidentally released inside and from there I didn't have my period for about 7 months I believe and all of a sudden I got my period. It frightened me that I wasn't able to conceive and my grandparents met all of my nieces and nephews and I'm the only grandchild they have left that has no kids yet. It would just suck if they don't get to meet my child that's all. But thank you for your concern though :)
@cobrayogesh (174)
• India
10 May 10
take care be careful and thoughtful good luck on the little ones you seem excited and sweet as a moonlight flows through a giggling pond. peaceful dreams and give my regards to your boyfriend
