Loving the unlovable

Philippines
May 9, 2010 11:17pm CST
Hi mylot friends have you experience the feeling of withdrawing oneself to a person that you tend to avoid? I have know a person that his popularity is not quite pretty and people is trying to avoid him... And to my surprise I also am influence by this people that I tend to avoid also that person.... A bad influence they are... We know that teachers, mentors, preachers, and the like are asserting that we have to love this kind of people... But people find it hard to do so. and they influenced me....
6 responses
@umabharti (3976)
• India
10 May 10
hi,when the society is going in a way then it mostly influences everyone.Loving the unlovable is really a tough task.People though they in their heart know the wrong they are doing just there should be a strong person who can change the mindset of the society and the prople who are hard and harsh.
• Philippines
10 May 10
Thanks for the thought umabharti... I can bet that you are a strong person, isn't it?
@alexies29 (124)
• Philippines
10 May 10
Just try to avoid the people that you think would not do any good to you. And don't be influenced by others. Stand by your own principles.
• Philippines
10 May 10
You're right at that alex but sometimes we have to listen not influence by others.... happy mylotting!
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
11 May 10
people thought is often influence one person. but first of all, i will try to make my experience with that person personally before i made up some judgment.
@cbjones (1157)
• United States
10 May 10
I used to be that type of person. I brought it upon my self though. People used to try to get to know me, but I would always push them away. I had my own little quirks that made me very uncomfortable about people in general. Looking back, I feel bad it. I messed up some potentially great friendships due to my own baggage. I heard some people were talking trash behind my back, yet their friends still wanted to get to know who I really was. I ended up living up to the misconceptions, instead of just being myself. I've gotten to know people who were seen as very anti social, or down right weird. They turned out to be pretty cool overall.
@maxyl12 (239)
• Philippines
10 May 10
That is really a problem. People who is unloved tend to feel more an outcast in the society. If we can accept them as they are and also help them accept themselves as they are. Maybe we can understand them much better.
• India
10 May 10
its upto you to love him but its always good unles u dont curse the person you only tend to have the feeling for someone special so dont force urself to love someone its not worth it it seems artificial but if u wanna help him well have a try