Loving the unlovable

hi,when the society is going in a way then it mostly influences everyone.Loving the unlovable is really a tough task.People though they in their heart know the wrong they are doing just there should be a strong person who can change the mindset of the society and the prople who are hard and harsh.

Just try to avoid the people that you think would not do any good to you. And don't be influenced by others. Stand by your own principles.

people thought is often influence one person. but first of all, i will try to make my experience with that person personally before i made up some judgment.

I used to be that type of person. I brought it upon my self though. People used to try to get to know me, but I would always push them away. I had my own little quirks that made me very uncomfortable about people in general. Looking back, I feel bad it. I messed up some potentially great friendships due to my own baggage. I heard some people were talking trash behind my back, yet their friends still wanted to get to know who I really was. I ended up living up to the misconceptions, instead of just being myself. I've gotten to know people who were seen as very anti social, or down right weird. They turned out to be pretty cool overall.

its upto you to love him but its always good unles u dont curse the person you only tend to have the feeling for someone special so dont force urself to love someone its not worth it it seems artificial but if u wanna help him well have a try

That is really a problem. People who is unloved tend to feel more an outcast in the society. If we can accept them as they are and also help them accept themselves as they are. Maybe we can understand them much better.