Life's & Routine's Changes/ Is that good?
May 10, 2010 7:55pm CST
Dear Friends I feel confused. Recently I spent my time with in a new group of friends. I meet them in my class. We have such a great time together but we are completely different. I figure out recently that spending my time with them, make me to forget some other things that were important for me before.Habits,that feel my life with joy the times of loneliness.Because of that I feel that I lost my self.My old self. Is that true?Or my life is more interesting now? What should I do?
• United States
11 May 10
I think it's tough, Rose_Wolf, to take on changes. But also, I think it's okay that you're having a difficult time going through this transition. Whenever you take on something new, something old tends to suffer. The trick, I think, is to break up by level of importance. What things do you think are worth more of your time, and which are worth less? And then just be conscious about it. If you don't actively think about how to divide your time, your time decides for you and you'll tend to have more fun because you id will drive your actions, but then you'll tend to feel guilty for not really getting done what you need to but would rather not. Like I said, you just need to be conscious and make active choices.