Who Cheats more?Boys or Girls?

@elleb0418 (1107)
Philippines
May 12, 2010 8:52pm CST
One of the boy said, Girls usually cheats more and they are the one who always give a broken heart,his reason is Girls sometimes a confident that they are smart enough. Other boy also said, fair. One of the girl also said, its the boy, reason is they are not contented with one only. How about you?who cheats more? and can you give your reason why?
21 responses
@juggerogre (1659)
• Philippines
13 May 10
I think girls. Simply because there are more girls than boys in the whole world :D But seriously based on my experience I know more boys that cheats on his partner than girls. That's what I observe to people around me.
@Rose2798 (359)
• United States
13 May 10
If you went with the fact that there are more girls than boys in the world, that wouldn't the answer still be boys?
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
21 May 10
In the real world really for me boys cheat more.lolz!
• Philippines
13 May 10
It is not clear who cheats more but I know that girls are seductive enough to cause a man to cheat. If the girls who show their body a lot disappear then guys aren't likely to cheat. Problem is no girls want to hide their beauty.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
24 May 10
So guys must have limitations.If you are in a relationship and love the girl you are with,even the girl will strip in front of you, you will not grab it.Agree?
@lakman (56)
13 May 10
Ican say the girls.Girls always have big expectations. When these are not met with they starts cheating. these expectations vary from love to money.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
21 May 10
In a relationship most of us had always big expectation.Not only the girls but also the boys. Did you say that we girls are just here to give out love because of money?It's so unfair to say that thing.
13 May 10
I would say boys cheat more because women usually is satisfied to just one stable relationship.When girls have this then she really settles with this relationship and tries her best to make it grow more.Whereas boys are more playful when it comes to relationship.They may be into one at the moment but they can't just settle into this one so easily but instead try to look for more outside this existing realtionship.They would only stop cheating once they realize which among the many relationship he has is most important.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
21 May 10
Yes, that's true and sometimes they are very coward to tell us girls that they already committed that act.I have known one guy, a coward guy who just only left without saying a word,then after I just learned that he married another girl in exchange of the girl he is with for almost 3 years. Sad right?Now who cheats more?who is selfish? I think mostly guys had that attitude.
• United States
13 May 10
I would say that it is entirely independent on the person/people. There is no way to say that guys or girls cheat more simpley because there is no proof. It would only be a biased opinion as an answer. I believe that the best answer would be that it is about the same. But in general, most guys would say girls cheat more. And most girls would say guys cheat more.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
21 May 10
So you are neutral?will that's your point of view also.We respect that.
@monkeylong (3146)
• Guangzhou, China
13 May 10
As far as I am concerned, I think we can not say who is cheating who else. I think the lovers just say goodbye to each other may think that they are not so matches . I think there are somemthing wrong with each other. They need try their best to cool themselves down. And think that whether they match well with each other, if not they may say goodbye. We can not say the boys cheat more or the girls cheat more.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
21 May 10
We are just asking here some opinion.But mostly I read here is guy cheats more.As what I observe,like the family who are seeking a family therapy in the hospital I work,always had the guy is the problem.
@elvira1 (101)
• Philippines
13 May 10
I think it's the boys who cheat more. Boys tend to look at other women and even court the girl if he thinks that he has a great chance with the girl. On the other hand, I can say that girls are more committed to the relationships they are in. :)
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
21 May 10
Yes, did you know that I question a guy today who is also my friend about this topic. he told me that when they know that the likes them also,then they will court the girl,opportunity right? That is why I do believe really that boys cheat more.
• Philippines
13 May 10
boys cheats best than girls. i would love to call them professionals.a lot of my friends were guys. i was the only girl in our circle that's why i know a lot of their styles and i see how many girls had cried already. what i love about my friends is that they never hit any girl ,good record. they just won't feel contented in the relationship maybe because they look for something which their girlfriend don't have.
• Saudi Arabia
13 May 10
hi....jacquiline i don't agree with your opinion,my reason is that quetion usualy based on everyones experiences and friends ,if you had a experince that cheated by a boy/girl... you may say boys more cheats than girls... at smae time if boy was cheaded by a girl that he may be says girls best cheat...and you may look your frends aslo say boys much cheater....haha... so i think the cheating parterners are commonly existed in our arround but for this quetions hard to say that boys more cheater that girls....have a nice day....
@joanick27 (142)
• Philippines
13 May 10
Boys cheat more. They think that their manly image licenses them to have so many girls. But as for the girls, it's really degrading to have an affair. Is that fair?
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
13 May 10
@boys...That's also your point of view.Somehow, sometimes we girls can say that when we had pour experience that we being fooled. Yes we girls are alwsys attached to our guy, We seek love and affection, and we do cheating when our guy doesn't give that to us anymore.
@lelin1123 (15644)
• Puerto Rico
13 May 10
In my opinion both sexes cheat alot but I think males cheat alot more then their female counterparts. Some men feel they have the right to cheat and so do so with out any guilt. They believe its normal for a male to have a mistress on the side to keep them happy. I think the male ego feels entitled for some reason. Its a total disgrace how marriage is not taken seriously like it should be.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
13 May 10
No offend here, guys had more percentage in cheating.Maybe thats their nature really.Lol!
@rhodalyn (251)
• Philippines
13 May 10
i think its the boys..why? by the belief that they are polygamous in nature.. they are contented with one woman.. just observe,many couples who decided to divorce are because of third party mostly in the side of the guy..
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
13 May 10
Well that's your point of view.Sometimes I do believe in that point of you also.
@ronz30 (276)
• Philippines
24 May 10
Ofcourse boys ! haha .. at first they make you feel that they really like you but when time comes you can now see their true colors .. They used to flirt many girls and not even think that they are now in a relationship wherein you should be honest to the person whom you commit :))
@rhinarea (311)
21 May 10
boys polygamous in nature.
• Philippines
14 May 10
That only shows that everyone is capable of cheating, regardless of gender. Well here in our country, I think men cheat more than the ladies. Here, people look at the ladies more BAD if they sinned and cheated their partners, that is why ladies are more careful with their act and don't do such things, if ever they are tempted they try hard not to fall into it deeply for it is really not acceptable in our society... Ladies are looked as dirty and flirt when they cheat while to men they are really noted like that so it is not something new...
@bestylish (923)
• Philippines
14 May 10
I think boys cheat more... but then again... girls also cheat. But since women are regarded as more loyal, I think boys cheat more than girls. There are some girls who remain faithful eventhough they know that their husband is cheating. But there are girls who also cheat when their husband is away especially hen they are abroad.
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
13 May 10
Both genders have the ability to cheat. Boys seem to get caught in the act more. They are a little bolder about it. Girls usually try to deny the fact. They are a liitle more coy in their deception about cheating. We weave a wicked web when we cheat so it is not a good practice to start. Sooner or laater you get caught in your own trap,
@umit_umit (1986)
• India
13 May 10
well friend i think its both ways,it comes when we see the other doing the same and we tend to do the same!if you may observe your pal to be sincire and loves you then you will also stop!or it goes on an on going spree just to show the other that i can also cheat,its basically a complex,which becomes an habit!!it can be from both of sides,but as for i am concerned,as a boy i think!!boys cheat more then the girls!!but its stupidity not a action to be proud of as we all are making fools of our own selves!!
• India
13 May 10
No both are same t depends upon in the nature,And the biggest funny thing is when you ask a girl she says boy and when you ask a boy he say girl.
@urbandekay (18312)
13 May 10
Equal but girls lie better and are therefore less likely to be caught all the best urban
@347eat (113)
• Philippines
13 May 10
Well this is a gender bias question. In my opinion both genders are cheating each other. Ok let me give you a specific situation, for example 2 couples are far away from each other, the boy misses her GF so much and he's misses her so much, despite of how many years they're in a relationship the boy will go to the point that he need someone to accompanied with someone which may lead to love making, same thing as with the girl she misses her BF so much until such time that she will sleep with another guy so the bottom line is both gender may cheat and its case to case basis.