need opinion

@forjosie (1548)
Indonesia
May 13, 2010 8:26am CST
If you're married to some one..... someday you find your couple cheat to you, what will you do? what do you choose, devorce or forgive her/him because you have children and you still love him/her
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3 responses
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
15 May 10
I've experienced it. I did not choose divorce, as many should I think about getting a divorce, especially children and families. love may have been reduced, but I always try to survive. besides we also still need each other, it's very hard to live, but divorce is not the way to go.
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@forjosie (1548)
• Indonesia
15 May 10
yes... I agree with you... i try to struggle my marriage only for my son my be I don't love him anymore....but I try...
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@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
16 May 10
love is not lost entirely possible, perhaps in love you just reduced. I believe there is still a little love, in your heart.
@Rhazelle (356)
• Canada
13 May 10
Make them promise never to do it again. And then keep an eye on them. And get them tested for STDs. Just... well. It would probably ruin the relationship a bit, but I wouldn't want to raise kids alone. Although if it really ended up not working out after because of it, then I'd divorce and find someone else.
@forjosie (1548)
• Indonesia
15 May 10
thnx for the opinion...:)
@keasling (724)
• United States
13 May 10
Truly depends if the person is truly sorry for what he or she has done. A couple can work out trust issues and stay together happily if they truly work on it and love each other. Love does conquer all as long as it is true love.
@forjosie (1548)
• Indonesia
15 May 10
thnx for the opinion...:)