Too Much Carefulness of parents toward their child..?

@siliguri (4224)
India
May 15, 2010 7:57am CST
I don't know what you will think..but My parent care me a lot which really hassle me sometime..Knocking me in my cell phone again and again asking same question have you taken your launch, where are you..? ..etc. Sometimes i show my anger to them because of it only.. What you think i'm wrong i shouldn't feel so(annoying)..make your point here..my friends?
8 responses
@alexies29 (124)
• Philippines
16 May 10
My parents are also like that even if I'm already an adult. Sometimes it's annoying, but I just think of myself in their place. If I'm a parent, then maybe I'll also be like them You care so much for the person that you'd like to know if he/she is okay. Parents would always want the best for their children. They're always concerned with their safety and health. It's okay to be annoyed, but don't let your parents know about it. Just keep it to yourself, so that you won't hurt their feelings. They are just concerned, that's why.
• Philippines
16 May 10
I think it is really normal for parents to care a lot for their children to the point that children at times felt that they are straggled with too much over protectiveness. I think you need to talk with your parents about it that you are already a grown up and that they just have to respect on some of the decisions that you make. Open communication will help a lot.
• Philippines
15 May 10
Yeah sometimes it gets too annoying but it's not right to be angry at them. They're just showing how they care for you. If it bothers you that much then you could atleast contain your anger. You're human and you can do that as well as think responsibly. I'll never be angry to them whenever they worry about me and if ever I did, I hid it really well for them not to notice.
@elmiko (6640)
• United States
15 May 10
well it could be worse such as if they didn't act liked they cared.
@kukaw27 (50)
• Philippines
15 May 10
I knew how it feels to be treated that way especially your mother. When i was at your age my mother was like that..i felt angry coz i don't want to be treated that way. I want to keep out from them,i want my privacy! But now am already a mother, i know how it feels to be a mother towards her child/ren..It's just one of our ways to love our them/. just bear with her because then you will understand how it feels to when you become a parent!
@xeroeight (1061)
• Philippines
15 May 10
In my opinion, you sure are lucky that you have a parent that really love and care for you, some of my friend never experience that, they really have a little attitude if you know what I'm saying,but I do understand them it's only because they are lack of caring and loving from their parent, as for you, you should be thankful, I guest you will realize that when the time comes that you are the one who care for your own blood, just an example do you have special someone? how much you care for him/her? (sorry I don't know if your a male or female :P) try to imagine how much you care for that someone special to you, and ask your self, you are not just someone special to your parent you are their own blood that's why they do such thing, just try to talk to them that you are already in mature state but I think you can never let them stop caring and loving you, I suggest enjoy the caring and loving of your parent, remember we don't stay here forever, I hope I did not offend you that all enjoy and happy mylotting,
@emerillus (477)
• Philippines
15 May 10
hi there, siliguri!I guess they are overprotective of you. I looked in your profile and you are already 22 years old. I think you are old enough. Do you live with them? If not, I think they just miss you.hehe. It's not wrong of you to be annnoyed, but talk to them for just a minute and tell them how you feel. After all, you are not a baby anymore.
• United States
15 May 10
I a the same way with my daughter so I know how your mom feels. It is just love and concern that makes her hover so much. I try to stop it when I catch myself. But,one day my daughter is going to wish i were there to hover over her. so will you my dear.