LOVE MARRIAGE or ARRANGED MARRIAGE...... which do you prefer?

LOVE MARRIAGE or ARRANGED MARRIAGE.... - Love marriage
India
May 17, 2010 4:27am CST
I prefer LOVE MARRIAGE, because i got married to the person whom i loved, Life is really beautiful when you spend it with your loved one. I feel we can understand his likes and dislikes before the marriage, so can start the new life with confidence. happiness is the best price we can get out of love marriage.I am not against arranged marriage just sharing my experience..... so what you all prefer.............LOVE MARRIAGE or ARRANGED MARRIAGE????????
6 responses
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 May 10
Well sweetie, almost all of my friends here know exactly how i feel about arranged marriages. Love marriage or stay single. TATA.
• India
17 May 10
Bold comment from you!!! Thanks saphrina
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 May 10
I promise i will try to do better next time. TATA.
@rosie230 (1674)
17 May 10
it would have to be a love marriage for me... because it would be my choice of the person i would marry, and that person would be someone that i am deeply in love with... an arranged marriage would be hard to even think about for me, how would you be able to get along with this person, if you did not even like them, or how would you live your life unhappy because you do not love this person, or what about whilst married to this person by arrangement you find the one person who you really love, and want to be with them... i know arranged marriages are still around but it would not be for me, I think I would rather be single.
• India
18 May 10
Hi rosie,ya thats true, thanks for your comment.
@hanizah (256)
17 May 10
Of course I prefer love marriage because in order to have a happy marriage couples need to have love for each other.And it is very hard to get married with the guy that you don't like or love.
• India
17 May 10
Thanks hanizah, and i agree with you.
• China
21 May 10
dear,well for us,there is phenomenon around the enviroment we lived that arranged marriage will find out whereever people could settle.nowadays everybody have work hard,work is the only way to meet us substantial and spiritual demands,all of people request consuming ,going to grocery or suppermarket to purchase a heck of a lot daily needs,that in order to get more money,everybody distribute most all their energy in working,study more lessons to improve their soft power,so in other manner, they dont have many time to hang out or take part in some social activities ,and arranged marriage just happen like that ,whereas in my point of view,i will choose love marriage ,that after staying for long time , seeing how their fit ,they can judge whether they sit well with each other,this is more assurance to maintain a steady marriage.
@wahsher (175)
• India
18 May 10
I prefer arranged love marriage!
17 May 10
I personally am agaist arranged marriages as it feels forced and marriage is a thing you should enter into with the person you have fallen in love with and not just because someone has chose that person for you. I love my fiance and the day we marry will be because we love each other and that no one has forced us into it.