Are you FAITHFUL or LOYAL?
By elleb0418
@elleb0418 (1107)
Philippines
May 17, 2010 7:06pm CST
Choose between the two?What describes you the most? The difference between the two is...
A faithful person don't have time to get attracted with others, his/her attention is exclusively for the one he/she loves.While a loyal person still get attracted to other person,appreciates beauty, flirt at some ways but at the end of the day, the loyal person knows where his/her heart belongs.
Are you LOYAL or FAITHFUL?
17 responses
@OConnell87 (1042)
•
18 May 10
at first i thought these two words meant the same thing until you explained. I would say i am a loyal person as i may flirt but i am also faithful because i wouldn't be intimate with someone if i was already dating someone else
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@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
18 May 10
i thought that too. i was thinking that this words has the same meaning. i didnt even think until now where do i belong har har har. i still know how to appreciate beauty and my wife knows that, but i dont flirt. so i guess i am half faithful and half loyal. so that makes me faithyal har har har.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
18 May 10
Me too I am more on the loyal side. We are not perfect, I admit it, I still do appreciates, I flirt but I know who owns my heart and who owns me too.
@lovelyn_medrano (3070)
• Philippines
18 May 10
I think I am faithful but once in my life i bacame loyal only... I don't easily fall to other person... I don't feel attracted also... but I know there was a time in my life that I almost fall for somebody else.... but God is good He pull me out of that situation and awaken me up!
Have a nice day elleb0418!
@lovelyn_medrano (3070)
• Philippines
20 May 10
I really don't get attracted to pretty faces... infact during my school days, there was never a time that I fell just because of that... My friends would say, "Oh he is so cute!!!" Then I would answered back, "yeah.." without any feelings... Don't get me wrong, I am not pretty. I am just an average cute lady 
But I don't really fall to a person's appearance. I have to know and talk to him first... But of course the pretty face is an added factor. 
I like to stay faihtful, I don't care even if my friends would call me numb or boring... I think that is my very nice attitude...
Anyways, being loyal is nice too, sometimes is good to feel the "kiling" factor... It is okay as long as we know our limitations... and never cross boundaries... 
Nice discussion elleb0418!
But I don't really fall to a person's appearance. I have to know and talk to him first... But of course the pretty face is an added factor.
I like to stay faihtful, I don't care even if my friends would call me numb or boring... I think that is my very nice attitude...
Anyways, being loyal is nice too, sometimes is good to feel the "kiling" factor... It is okay as long as we know our limitations... and never cross boundaries...
Nice discussion elleb0418!@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
19 May 10
I been once faithful in my life too,but he does not appreciate it.Now I am more in the loyal side,yeah I do easily fall but still I can manage and see to it that,I don't step on someone's property.:)
@markleob (1902)
• Philippines
18 May 10
it is normal to admire the beauty and attributes that other people possess aside from the one we love.
but that does not mean you have to leave your loved one for the sake of the adorable one. yes they are adorable but definitely not ours..
that is the reason why i cant consider myself as faithful AS OF NOW. i am just loyal.
@amyiceman (63)
• China
18 May 10
I think I am faithful.
I think that is very important. Your valentine needs sense of security and that is the key to keep a fine relationship.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
18 May 10
I salute you with your point of view too. Security is also one spices of the relationship to keep it going.
@amyiceman (63)
• China
18 May 10
My ex-boyfriend is a loyal guy. He is cute and very attractive. He felt OK about flirting with other girls, because he thought he was mine at night and I was in his heart. But that's not what I want. I felt so unsecure. And we broke up.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
19 May 10
More of us are in loyal side,maybe because our eyes is open to what we call reality. We are just human beings,we are not perfect.:)
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
18 May 10
I guess I am loyal to my hubby. He is the one and only for me. I am in love with him and love him. He is my soulmate. I am Faithful to God.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
18 May 10
I am happy for you.We cannot conclude in any love story until it was finish.Godbless and be happy always.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
18 May 10
base on your definition i am loyal. i dont think that there is a person who no longer appreciates beauty just because that person is in a relationship. we are human and human appreciates beauty. outside beauty or inside beauty. but since i dont flirt i dont know now if i am faithful or loyal. so its really hard to choose. i know where my heart belongs, but i dont flirt. welcome to the wonderful world of mylot elle.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
18 May 10
I am on the loyal side also. I am just a human being I am not perfect I had my flaws also,but I see to it and know who I belong to and who owns my heart.Thanks!
@rizzu87 (860)
• Malaysia
18 May 10
I think i am faithful, since i have started liking this girl i know, i just dont want to think about anything else apart from her. I just dont pay attention if some other girl try to talk to me or be close to me. I just hope that she loves me the same way i do
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
18 May 10
In my explanation about the two words..you must be like in the faithful side.Well that's your point of view. As what they said..no one is perfect in this world.You can't expect that if you love her 100% she can gave you 100% too.But who knows...:D
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
18 May 10
There is such a fine line between being faithful and being loyal. Loyalty can be good or bad depending on the situation. If i had to choose between the two, I would pick being faithful. It begins with your soul and spirit. It shows what kind of person you are to the world.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
19 May 10
Well that's your point of view also.But always remember we are just human being,we are not perfect.As a person we want to open our eyes in the reality,because we doesn't want to stub ourself by our own armor.:)
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
18 May 10
By your definition, i'd say i'm loyal. I'm just human. I get attracted to other girls even though i'm with someone. It's inevitable. Atleast it is for me.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
18 May 10
Yes, I salute you for telling what life and reality is in this world.As for me yah, I am always faithful,but I still go that I am loyal,because my eyes are wide open and I know that it's part of being human.No one is perfect.
@realbusinesswithyou (226)
• Philippines
18 May 10
i think i am loyal to say the least. i get attracted to somebody else, which i think is normal, if i dont i would be only fooling myself. but i know my limitations and i know where i would end up at the end of the day, and that is to my only love.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
18 May 10
Good answer real..as a person you should know where your limitations is, as a person it is normal to get attracted to others, appreciates beauty but at the end of the day you know where you belong.No one is perfect right?:)
@gaylevillariza (48)
• Philippines
18 May 10
i have been faithful throughout all my relationships but the saddest thing here is my partners are the one's who are not.. ;) but in God's time, i found the man who is not faithful to me, but the greatest thing here is that he is very loyal to me..i love my man!:)
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
19 May 10
lol! Still in the process of moving on?yeah it really sucks, you are still faithful to him even though you already broke up.
@anne25penn (3305)
• Philippines
18 May 10
I would have to be both, thats why it is very hard for me when things go wrong and the relationship ends. I always think of what or how my partner will feel in every action that I would make, especially with those who would court me still even if I tell them that I am committed. The only sad thing about it is that I get hurt the most by being both loyal and faithful.
