we are so strange.

@saphrina (31740)
South Africa
May 18, 2010 3:36am CST
I feel like crying today, but that would make a ninny out of me. I can always solve my own problems, get over something or someone that have hurt me. But, for some freaking stupid reason, i cannot get myself under control. Flooding seem to be near and i think everyone already has their canoes at hand. Why, should we always be so damn emotional? TATA.
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17 responses
• Malaysia
18 May 10
hey you...hope everything is ok over there.. if you've always been strong and able to solve your own problems and stuff, then i'm sure you'd be able to get yourself out of this too. maybe you just need a bit of time to find your solution. and it is normal for anyone to have a breakdown once in a while. not all of us can keep up a strong facade and pretend everything is ok all the time..! there are times when even the strongest person has to shed a tear or two, only then we know that he/she really is human hopefully you can find a way to cheer yourself up, and once your thoughts are clear maybe a solution to your problem will present itself. then all will be better and you'd be all laughy and cheery again but if you find it too difficult to laugh, just try and remember the freaky christmas beetle you commented on previously...hehe, that still gives me the giggles take care you.. p.s. - i don't have a canoe, so you'd better stop the flooding! hehe..
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 May 10
I am trying my utmost best to get out of this mood. PS: My canoe sank.
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• Malaysia
18 May 10
then i'll hire a helicopter to pull you out of the waters... and i'll bring all the tissues i can carry to wipe up all your tears too when you're all ok already, i'll bring you canoe shopping...need to prepare just in case you have a relapse hehe..
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 May 10
Thank you, Mario.
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@basqui (3890)
• Philippines
18 May 10
Well, everyone should be alert in those times you are having in your country right now. It's okay to cry because it's human nature. If you're laughing from what you are going through right now then I wouldn't be amazed at all..
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 May 10
If only i could smile right now. That would have made a difference, but thanx for trying. TATA.
@basqui (3890)
• Philippines
18 May 10
It's really sad to hear what is happening in your place right now. I've seen it on local TV hours ago about other floods in Europe I think and it's really sad that some people have to evacuate and leave their homes because of the threats of the flood. Whatever you will encounter there, be safe and take care so you could get back with us here okay? Who will spank me if you were not here? lol
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 May 10
As soon as i feel better, i will spank you, promise.
@hexeduser22 (5854)
• Philippines
18 May 10
Just let it flow my dear friend. It's better to cry and be emotional than keep things in secret and die young. No matter how strong we are there are times when we need a shoulder to cry on. Don't be afraid to cry and if someone says your making a ninny out of your self I will beat the hell out of them. No one makes fun of my friend specially when she is about to lose control. Just relax and breath slowly for the time being. I can lend you my shoulders if you need it
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 May 10
I think i need that shoulder just about now.
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• Philippines
18 May 10
I will give you both of my shoulders if that would make you feel comfortable my friend. I hope somehow I can make you smile. If I wont be enough I would call back up and we will do our best to make you feel better
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 May 10
Thank you Hex. I appreciate it.
@cloud31 (5811)
18 May 10
My angel I'm sorry to know that you don't feel like smiling today, sometimes if we can't control our emotions then it will control us,relax a while find something to entertain yourself,take a deep breath,you're not the only one who had this feeling right now but soon will be over, when emotions gets exhausted it will subside itself.Cheer up.And smile for me.Please!!
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 May 10
The deep breath i took, but the smile. That is going to take some time and serious work. TATA.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
18 May 10
Thank you ladies----for taking a deep breathe for me So nice of you and really mean that
@cloud31 (5811)
19 May 10
You think the deep breath is for you sunny?I'm afraid deep breath doesn't work for you I think a tears would be much more appropriate
@Hatley (164777)
• Garden Grove, California
20 May 10
hi saphrina its true with a lot of us women as our hormones are different from the guys and we can weep over so many things. I think its just intrinsic and built into us. I wept over a very nice present my son and my husband gave me, and they look incredulous but I was touched and it made me cry. You need to read or look at something silly to make you laugh again. I have sat here and cried at some discussions where the user was having really awful problems and I cou ld not even offer help to them either. I just felt so helpless. All I could do was pray for them or offer an idea of how to get some help.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
20 May 10
Hatley sweetie, we are human and that is why we always care and cry for others. You are such a nice person to interact with. TATA.
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@Hatley (164777)
• Garden Grove, California
27 May 10
hi spharina thanks for the best response always nice to get one.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
2 Sep 10
My pleasure sweetie.
@dawnald (84133)
• Shingle Springs, California
18 May 10
Cus life throws things at us... Only in my case I'm too darn good at getting myself under control. You better now?
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
19 May 10
After this respons. Do i have a choice?
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@dawnald (84133)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 May 10
nope
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
19 May 10
Thanx Dawny.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
18 May 10
Stand up and make your way towards your mirror---have a look at your sad face---was it the same yesterday---Crying wouldnt help you infact it makes you meaner and you end up losing your confidence and self-esteem.So this ninny is going to laugh to this sunny's invisible non-humourous joke
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 May 10
I did and it ooks exactly the same as yestarday. Not much of an improvement.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
18 May 10
you should imagine your worst face with the present one---only then the results are gonna be fruitful
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 May 10
Thanx my BB.
@Jotomy (6263)
• India
18 May 10
Hi saphrina, i am feeling sad to hear that you are feeling to cry. You are so humorous, when i read your responses i really get laugh. Any way emotion are there for everyone, its a part of life. If you want to cry out, just cry out you will be free / relax. Otherwise you pour out to some one who is so close to you. There you may get some relief. Have a nice day don't make your day panic.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 May 10
If i could only get to the one who i can talk to. That would have been nice. TATA.
@Jotomy (6263)
• India
19 May 10
ofcourse you have somany friends to share with you.
@ifa225 (11099)
• Indonesia
1 Sep 10
we feel the emotional so we can feel the peace situation. then u glad when u feel in peace and try to find some way to relax your feeling when u r in emotional feelings. That situation also can make us know how to control some bad feeling without hurting other in the next time. PEACE...
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
2 Sep 10
Thanx sweetie. Those emotions can be so freaking irritating sometimes. But we do try to keep everyone happy. TATA.
@qamarep (4451)
• Pakistan
19 May 10
yes we all humans are very strange than each other. no we dont have to be emotional
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
20 May 10
Thank you so much for that insight. TATA.
@bunnybon7 (34949)
• Holiday, Florida
19 May 10
well do it kiddo! it always makes us feel better and you know bottling it up will just make it worse. i always like having a good cry to clear the head and start over again happy. its been proven that people that hold it in could have a breakdown some day and we dont want that. ok?
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
19 May 10
Thanx sweetie. All of it is out now and i hope it freaking stays out. TATA.
@neildc (17254)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 May 10
do you really mean an actual FLOOD, tata? as in flood that comes in with the rain?
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
19 May 10
No sweetie. From crying like a freaking baby.
@Opal26 (17691)
• United States
19 May 10
Hi saphy! There is never any need to explain that you just feel like crying! Hell, if that's how I'm feeling I just do it! I might not even have an explainable reason, I just feel the need to cry! So, don't worry my sweet friend, if that is what you need to do than by alll means cry! We all have "those kinds of days"! So, if this is one of yours, we are here for you! You know that we love you to bits and you don't have to explain! We are just here to listen! Lots of Love and hugs, Opal
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
19 May 10
Thanx Opal. I feel better. Just a stupid bad day, i guess. TATA.
@kaylachan (4776)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 May 10
I don't deney the human race isn't too unique. Though I think you'll be able to get through what's bothering you. Having emotions is a good thing.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
19 May 10
I know, but why do we have to be such ninnies about it? TATA.
@cream97 (29169)
• United States
18 May 10
Hi, saphrina. I am sorry that you there is flooding that is near your way. You are feeling very scared and upset right now and that is why you are near crying. I hope that nothing can harm you or come your way. You are a wonderful and funny person whom I think is sweet. Sometimes we need someone that will be there to comfort us when we are sad. And you need a friend right about now. I will pray for you to be as safe as possible. Please stay safe and take care of yourself.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
19 May 10
Thank you sweetie. I feel at least a bit better today. TATA.
@mrfdg1972 (3238)
• Philippines
18 May 10
its normal, PMS?
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 May 10
If it only were. That i could probably handle. TATA.
@cip116 (1011)
• Romania
18 May 10
I have a very strange behavior Hard times ...I am very logical and active Then comes "crisis" Emotions should not be accumulated saphrina :) You must say "this will pass"
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 May 10
I think thats the problem. I have been keeping everyting inside for too long. Now, it is time to make me feel absolutely like a idiot. TATA.