Can you Describe What Perfect Heart Is?

@elleb0418 (1107)
Philippines
May 22, 2010 5:52pm CST
I often think about this question someone ask me.As a person I do easily give a piece of my heart for them to know that love is flowing in my heart for them.But when the time I give them the piece of my heart I never expected any return.For me it's unconditional. If you look inside what my heart looks like? It is full of scars,rough edges and deep gouges.Why because it represents how I do easily give my heart to anyone. For me a perfect heart is the heart is where you see scars and deeps gouges,where whole pieces is missing.For me every scars represents the person whom I given my love,I tear every piece of my heart and give it to them. The rough edges represents the love I shared for them which I cherish the most. Always remember you don't know how to love if you did not experience pain and sacrifices. Can you share your idea about what is a perfect heart for you?
6 responses
• India
22 May 10
Hi friend elleb. I am feeling very happy to have met you. Your words are so touching and mine will be too. I truly understand what you mean by those scars,rough edges and gouges. But it is not always true that a perfect heart will have scars and rough edges. And I;m not coming to say that my heart is untouched either. For me or better say according to me a perfect heart is one which doesn't rip itself into little bits to be split but gives itself completely to every person it loves. It never expects anything in return except a little time of the person, so that they can spend share a few moments of joy and sorrow. I tell this from experience... i love my sister. The only thing i ever expected in return from her was for her to spend some time with me everyday... if not face to face we talk over the phone. It might look like waste of time and money talking over the phone but only after i have spoken with her i feel a great rush of happiness and joy that keeps me driving through. I don't want to push out on that now... anyways hope you understand what my heart wanted to convey :)
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
23 May 10
Hello Billy, Thanks so much for sharing a nice comment here. Nice to meet you too in mylot. The true beauty of the people is looking at his/her heart. You and your sister is not together?she is far from you? I do hope that she will share her time talking to you everyday.
• India
23 May 10
Thank you friend, for those kind words. But it is really hard to look into the hearts of people these days. Many act, which is the worst thing i would ever dream of in real life. They pretend to be close to you, supporting and caring more than your dear most one but once they have their work done with you.... tich they break up silently. It really hurts when i come across such people in life. It was wonderful of you to share your thoughts with me... See you elleb, Billy
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
23 May 10
Hello again Billy, Yes we cannot really look whats inside the heart of people this days.Maybe are pretenders,they pretend that you are the most important person in their life, but why id sometimes they are happy breaking someones heart.If we widened our point of view it's maybe because they don't appreciate what is really the beauty in this world.
• India
23 May 10
I always believe that perfection is finality and finality is an end. A perfect heart is never perfect. A perfect heart is never at its place, it is always reaching out to others who are in distress. A perfect heart is always broken, with pieces joined together with love. It is always overflowing with love to the brim. You will always find it bleeding and weeping for others. If you ever touch it, you will find it writhing in pain. If it sees you in pain, it would melt. It is always willing to sacrifice itself for the sake of others.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
23 May 10
Thanks so much for sharing a wonderful comment.A heart is not called perfect when it doesn't feel pain and broken. A perfect heart always being wanted to love eventhough it bleeds.
• India
23 May 10
Hi friend achilles, you have a lot of meaning in your words. I am learning a lot about love now-a-days and your small comment has widened my sight of a perfect heart :)
@JoaniZik (90)
• Philippines
23 May 10
personally, i don't think that "perfect heart" is the term. i think it's more of a "experienced heart" well maybe because experience is the best teacher. there is no such thing as perfect, everything and everyone has their own limitations and weaknesses and those things can either build or break a person. moreover, nobody needs a perfect heart-ed person. what we need is someone who accepts their weaknesses but does their best to grow and mature in life.
@yresh12 (3222)
• Philippines
23 May 10
A Perfect heart is a very hard thing to define. I think you defined it quite well and with ease. Yes I think your the type sort of "martyr" in that sense. You also have to understand that Despite of experiencing that there are also a brighter side of everything. Don't think about love and pain all the time. You can never be completely happy if you don't learn to let go of the things that hurt you. Scars are there and with it comes lessons that you should apply for you not to get hurt again.
• Philippines
23 May 10
Well, i can't say anything more to this. You're right. You can't say you know how to love just because you experienced it. You have to be scarred by it for you to learn it.
• Philippines
23 May 10
Well, i can't say anything more to this. You're right. You can't say you know how to love just because you experienced it. You have to be scarred by it for you to learn it.