"I want your money, your money not you!!!"

@jamed28 (1910)
Philippines
May 24, 2010 2:33am CST
I'd met a girl, whom I thought, love me. She always ask me to go out and meet at the mall. Well of course I need to treat her, since I am the guy. She is an easy go luck woman and she likes to go to a party almost every night. One night, I was at home when my friend ask me to go to a bar in the highway. I am not in the mood of joining him, but she told me, my girl was there and she is with another man. So I immediately went with him and go to the bar. And there I saw my girl with an old man, almost looks like her grandfather. She is flirting with the grumpy. I can imagine what I was seeing that night. I was so mad, when my friend sing a song out of the blue.... " I want your money, your money NOT you!!! I want your money your money not you!!!" (in a tune of NOBODY! well i don't know the title of the song, but i used to hear that song.) So instead of going to that girl (my girl NO MORE)I just smile and we just got a drink inside the bar, let that money girl saw me, I don't care. Good thing I found out early.
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21 responses
@laydee (12814)
• Philippines
24 May 10
It's indeed good that you saw the truth before you got all your money spent on her. There are a lot of women who are this way really. But you could have taken notice already when she would always want you to buy something for her. One trick you could do with a new girl is to just give her a very cheap date. See what her reaction would be. It's also good if you tell her upfront that you don't have money, you'll see that she'll surely get away fast!
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• United States
24 May 10
I'm wondering if he at least banged it out.......Cause if he spent a lot of money on the "Trick", and he didn't get the "goodies", then it's a problem.......
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@laydee (12814)
• Philippines
25 May 10
True. I may be conventional but in that case, I hope he got something out of that girl at least.
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@BART78 (2933)
• Canada
24 May 10
well mey! is not your loss its her, she just wasted a good guy like you, if i'm your shoe, i would probably ignore her and invite her the next night make her dose some boozze and take advantage of her and say "goodbye! thanks! nice mating you"
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@hanna811 (132)
• China
24 May 10
haha,what a good revenge.i agree with you that it's the girl's waste not the man's.the girl lost a man who loved her and one day she will know that what a silly action she did and will be very regret.
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@dloveli (4369)
• United States
25 May 10
Jamed im sorry you had to go thru that. No one should. However its girls like her that make the rest of us look bad. You dont deserve that. This is the 21st century. Those rules of the man treating the woman are gone. Take turns. If you invite her then you pay. If she invites you then she pays. When I met my fiance, we each paid. When I had money I paid. WHen he had money he pays. He gives me $20 every day right before I leave out the door for work. I also buy him little things or give him money. You seem like a good guy. The fact that you were willing to pay for her without question is an admirable quality. When you walked in the bar and saw her with that old guy it is clear that she doesnt want love she wants a "SUGAR DADDY". Dont ever be anyone's meal ticket. No one. Not a lover's, brother's, mother's, no one. You are making a life for you. Not to take care of loved ones. so many times men especially get feeling guilty and think they need to take care of their family. Thats not the way it works friend. Your money is yours and noone elses. dl
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• Pakistan
24 May 10
Seems like u are a lucky guy! xoxo
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• China
24 May 10
i am sorry to hear that.however,it is good for you to find that ealier.it is the loss of that girl,but yours.now,leave her and you will get another girl who love you.have a nice day!
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• Philippines
24 May 10
You maybe hurt by now but you must be grateful that you found out early on. Alteast you're just starting to have an emotional investment on her while she's enjoying your money investment (on her);). She's such a great USER but you can smile now cause she's the loser here. I guess she let go of special somebody who truly love her. So cheer up! In time, you'll find the right girl for you who will accept the poorest you :D
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• Philippines
24 May 10
In my opinion it is because of the fact that life is economically not good, girl tend to become practical..Good for you,you that early..Bad for her,lose her integrity..
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@xeroeight (1061)
• Philippines
24 May 10
well you are lucky to know it earlier, its really sad many women do anything for money,
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• Australia
24 May 10
It is a good thing you found out early. I have been there. Some girls just want you for the treats till they can find someone better. Not a nice way to treat guys but some girls are like that. But most of them are real nice and loving and will love you for you so get out there and love like you have never been hurt.
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@aimroma (69)
• Philippines
24 May 10
congratulations! you just made a right decision. our minister always tells us that the best partner you can find is someone you have known for a long time-- probably a friend. so someday, i shall marry my best friend. haha. hope you can also find the woman who shall sing "i want nobody, nobody but you!" and not "i want your body, your money, not you!"
• China
24 May 10
good haven!how come there sre girls like her in this world! well, i say it's her loss,just move on ,you would find the right one. XDXD
@jdyrj777 (6558)
• United States
29 May 10
Yes, its a good thing you found out now what a bloodsucker she is. Sounds like she may have been a hoe too. I bet she didnt have a job either. Happen for you that you found out early. Dont look for girls ina bar. You should start attending church and find a good girl there.
@laniekins (4585)
• Philippines
26 May 10
Thank God you know that she's only playing around. You don't deserve that kind of girl. Get another one who's simple and who hardly go to the party. Nobody I think is the title of that song by korean girl group "The Wonder girls".
@anuraa32 (2452)
• India
25 May 10
Good thing you found out early. You are a lucky man. Not many people are so lucky. Some people are just after money. Money = happiness to them. To each his own.
@RachelleNH (1408)
• United States
25 May 10
Aw I'm sorry, that's very shallow of her. Life will teach her a lesson in due time!
@paula27661 (15899)
• Australia
25 May 10
You reacted the best way you could. She did not even deserve your attention that night! Sadly there are people out there who have no qualms about using others for what they can get and I believe that what goes around comes around and she will get what she deserves and she may learn a lesson or two the hard way! Best thing to do is move on and when you meet another girl treat her well but be cautious! Good luck...
@bjcyrix (6910)
• Philippines
25 May 10
Maybe she didnt want just your money. Perhaps she wanted "your money, your body, not you."Its quite an old joke rendition of the "Nobody, Nobody" song from the WonderGirls. Anyway, its nice to have friends like yours who really look out for you. They insisted that you come but eventually blurted out the important factor why they were pestering you. It was also very mature of you to keep it cool and not make a scene. With your move, the girl might actually be the one ashamed of herself in public. If you didnt make your presence known and she saw you, she would be paranoid to hide from you or else you would know her deal. It would be a very challenging moment for her. Im sure you're going to meet someone who would not take advantage of your generosity. Goodluck and have fun!^_^
@derek_a (10902)
25 May 10
Well, all I can say is that you are better off without that girlfriend. I have had girlfriends like that too! But life passes by and then something always seems to turn up. Good luck.. _Derek
@elvieb02 (696)
• Philippines
25 May 10
well, good for you, there's no reason to continue to be upset with someone like her, at least you knew it early. good luck!
• Hong Kong
25 May 10
Humans works for money through many mehods. So do girls. It is your tradegy that you met this kind of girls. It is your luck to recognize her in time. So any coins have two sides. Forget it and Look toward your future. Most thinks are fine and positive.
• United States
25 May 10
That's good that you found out what kind of girl she is.. from what you have said, you are too good for her, because you obviously know how to treat a girl. Just be careful next time someone wants to be treated so soon into the relationship. That girl is nothing but a gold digger, and you deserve somebody better than her!