who will you choose? The person you love most or the person who love you most?

Philippines
May 24, 2010 3:57pm CST
Choose only one, will you choose the person you love most but don't appreciate you..? or the person who love you most and willing to do all things just to win your love but you don't feel the same? and Why? Which is which..?
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@dawnald (84148)
• Shingle Springs, California
26 May 10
Sorry, I'd rather be alone than be in either of those situations. Either a relationship where both people love each other or no relationship at all.
• Philippines
27 May 10
safe comment my dear :)
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@dawnald (84148)
• Shingle Springs, California
27 May 10
But also true...
• United States
25 May 10
i think both situations are horrible...being with someone when you don't feel the same way as they do for you is kind of selfish. while at the same time who would want to be with someone who doesn't appreciate how you feel for them. both are bad situations,you just have to pick the sweeter poison if you are to choose.if it were me, id definitely pick being loved more than i love...guess im selfish
• Philippines
26 May 10
haha... sometimes, we have to be selfish if our heart is on the risk.. :p
@med889 (5958)
25 May 10
I would definitely be choosing the one who loves me because I prefer to love the person who loves me instead of always waiting for the approval of the other one whom I think should love me too. In life one should always let free what is not ours so what is ours will automatically comes to us.
• Philippines
25 May 10
maybe you are right..it is better to study on how to love that person that to look so stupid in front of the person who ignoring you...
• United States
25 May 10
Wow! I have to give it to you.. Great question! or at-least I like it! I would say the person that would do anything for you! Think about it. Do you really want to love someone who don't love you back? I heard that you can learn to love someone with time or at-least care for them. I will most definitely go with the person who cares for me and will do anything for me! Kathy
• Philippines
25 May 10
nice answer.. :) yah.. it's really hard to decide... "sigh" atleast you did..
@raynejasper (2326)
• Philippines
24 May 10
..hi.. based from my experience, choosing the person who loved you most is better than choosing someone who can't comprehend your love.. however, this is only applicable when you yourself is willing to learn to love that person.. of course, in every relationship, love is one most important foundation.. but if you don't feel anything towards the person who loves you, it would be better to wait and look for somebody else.. loving is like trial and error because you have to take the risk and see if it works.. the thing is, when you found out that your decision is wrong, it is not easy to overcome it.. that's why it is always needed that we prepare our self for whatever positive or negative consequences as a result of our decision to choose or not to choose a person..
• Philippines
25 May 10
nice comment raynejasper :) yah,.. you definitely right..
• Philippines
7 Jul 10
As of his time, where i am in my midst of emotional roller coaster i guess im going to choose the person who loves me most that the one i love, what if the person im longing for does not love me and will not love me no matter what? ive experienced that its so painful especially if you have done your part already , did your best but seems its all not worth, your efforts are not appreciated and all that. For now i guess love will be develop once you're with the right man.
@youless (91492)
• Guangzhou, China
7 Jul 10
This is an easy choice for me. I will choose a person who loves me most. Namely he loves me more than I love him. So I will always feel being loved and this will make me love him. Love a person who doesn't love you won't make you happy at the end. I love China
• Philippines
7 Jul 10
the answer depends on the situation but for me i probably choose the one that love me the the most and the one who is willing to do everything to win my love. i believe that love is a choice there are times that you are in love with the person and there are times you are not. if i choose to give the person a chance i believe that i will learn to love him because i choose to teach myself to love him. yes love is in the heart but love is also the conditioning of mind and heart..