What's the main reason anyone would wish to be in a relationship with you?

United States
May 27, 2010 6:52pm CST
What would be the main reason that anyone would wish to be in a relationship with you? We are social creatures and are not meant to be alone in this world, hence those who lonely are most likely lonely by choice, unless they have a disability that prevents them from being in a relationship. What qualities or characteristics about yourself would attract other people to you? Is it your charming or beautiful good looks? Is it your smile that melts other people's hearts? Is it your intense seductive gaze in your eyes that say, "come to me?" Or can it really be all in your personality? What honestly is it about you that would land you in a relationship?
8 responses
• Philippines
28 May 10
initially, my hypnotic and mesmerizing gaze would entice men to notice me..then my straightforward, albeit cheery attitude when engaging them in conversation would definitely hold their attention..then lucky guys will further find out that beneath all that, lies a true blue, passionate, understanding and very caring woman.. i love to love someone who loves me in return..and based on past experience, it is my being kind and caring that guys stays on in the relationship..i don't know what made me leave them though..(lol)..
@winjayoma (186)
• Philippines
28 May 10
The reason for any one or for all of us want to be in relation to other opposite gender because it is the way God has created us. The Bible says, it is not good for a man to be alone, he needs a help mate or a wife to be with him. That is applicable to all of us, we can't live with out partner except those who has the gift of singleness.
@winjayoma (186)
• Philippines
28 May 10
The reason for any one or for all of us want to be in related to other opposite gender because it is the way God has created us. The Bible says, it is not good for a man to be alone, he needs a help mate or a wife to be with him. That is applicable to all of us, we can't live with out partner except those who has the gift of singleness or celebacy.
@daliaj (5689)
• India
28 May 10
This is a good topic Eddy. I think many guys were attracted and wanted to have a relationship with me because I look pretty. I think the way you look matters in the first attraction. I also think it is because I am basically a nice person who talks well. The way I interact with other would have made them created interst in me.
• Philippines
28 May 10
Love- for me that's the only reason why anyone should be in a relationship with someone. I know it might sound a little bit cheesy but if someone wants to be in a relationship with me, we both should be in love with each other. Because of these mutual feelings, we commit to be together so we can have all the chance in the world to show how much we care. Furthermore, on my part, it has to be my personality, good or bad. If a person doesn't like what they see or realize about me, then I wouldn't even give a damn about them. Same is true when I want to be in a relationship with a guy. They need to have a good personality. Not necessarily super nice but at least someone with manners, respectful, trustworthy and responsible. I really don't go for looks 'cause looks fade away.
@p3ks626 (6550)
• Philippines
28 May 10
I think the main reason is that I am not like most girls out there who doesnt know how to take care of themselves. lol This discussion is making me conceited. haha! Anyway, I just think that there are too many girls these days who drinks with men and men taking advantage of them and girls just letting these men take away their virtue. I think the values I have are the best assets I have that a person would want to have a relationship with me. I am married now and my husband is happy because I am not like other women. And I am happy about that too. I am not saying this because I am ugly but because I think I have values that will make a relationship work out.
@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
28 May 10
Hmmm...probably because I'm a loving person. I give all my love to that person I'm in a relationship with. I don't get scared of loving him fully.
@abitcurious (1423)
• Philippines
28 May 10
PRobably because I'm good at everything. wink wink. Kidding. I never know what people like about me. Its something that just happens. I mean, in a relationship be it romantic or not, things are not done consciously I think. True if you really like someone you would bring out your best smile, your best everything so you would get noticed. But when your past that stage, everything changes. So I wouldn't know really. Was it because I smiled back at the time when someone desperately wanted a smile? That reminds me, I should ask my boyfriend about that. I'm sure what my friends would say. It's just is. PEriod.