Friends.. What if I don't apply LEAVE of ABSENCE? will you treat me with love?

India
May 29, 2010 1:33am CST
really really what if? .... I have been enjoying the patronage, teases, spanking, and all from most of my friends here in mylot. It has been really a wonderful time for me, while i WAS bedridden, with a broken leg. But, now I am wonderfully healed. Physically, Mentally and more! I have promised my wife and kids to take them to OOTY, a summer holiday resort. And so, leaving to Bangalore from my home town, HYDERABAD... tomorrow. The question is, What if I did not inform you of my leave of absence? ... would you forgive my absence for over 15 days.. and treat me with the same love and tenderness when I return back? The absence previously was for over 2 years.. but, this time, I promise to be back in 15 days' time. just asking..... please tell your own experiences too.
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@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
29 May 10
Well, 15 days is a very long time. But, family comes first. Hope you will have a lovely time. Enjoy it. Now you can think of some nice topics to come and entertain us with. TATA.
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@mysdianait (64058)
• Italy
29 May 10
A very long time? A month would be, erm... is longer!
@zralte (4186)
• India
29 May 10
Two months would be longer still....or how about a year for that matter??
@mysdianait (64058)
• Italy
29 May 10
Very courageous zralte! Yes it would. Indeed both of your suggestions would be!
• Malaysia
29 May 10
2 years? well, i couldn't find myself for 3 years, so 2 years of absence isn't that bad now, let's see what we can do in 15 days... i think i'll start a party or two. get some hot nurses here, and.. hehe.. you can't know. you'll be away have fun on your little getaway CT. do bring back some more of your interesting topics when you return
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@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
29 May 10
Hot nursed, my angelic butt. Whats wrong with the girls here?
• Malaysia
29 May 10
nothing wrong. i just like soft nurses you wear a nurse outfit, and i'll like angelic butts too..
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• India
29 May 10
well, maria... with 'O' in place of 'A' ... thanks for the view. i will try to come online, on my brother's laptop, as his family also joins us on our family retreat to a summer resort, near BANGALORE of INDIA.. ooty. will try to forget all about fluff, and nurses... for another two weeks.
@zralte (4186)
• India
29 May 10
Go and have fun your your family, consult. I wish I could escape this heat. If I could, I probably won't tell anyone and just be gone mysteriously and back again. On second thought, I might probably tell everyone, too.
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@mysdianait (64058)
• Italy
29 May 10
That's a tricky situation and a tough decision to make and it's when you find out who your real friends are They would send you money for your trip if they knew wouldn't they? Or would they never speak you again because you should have taken them with you?
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• India
29 May 10
oh. Diana.. i never thought about this offer.. Start a separate discussion on that.... but, it is not allowed to ask money here in mylot. So, will be waiting to withdraw all your SPONSORED money. how nice. Friends will be sending money for the trip.... I wish I had planned this earlier... --------and, zralte.. thankyou. I wish you also some respite from the heat.. please don't forget me, when I return./ and, you are all my friends.. so, listen to DIANA.. ... she said something about sending money ...
@mysdianait (64058)
• Italy
29 May 10
She also mentioned something about would they never speak you again because you should have taken them with you which you seem to have missed completely
@neildc (17253)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
29 May 10
i don't think there is a problem with this my friend. if you will be absent for 15 days, that only means you will be back, though we will surely miss you. besides, you already made a comeback after two years of becoming inactive, so there will be no problem, as long as you come back after 15 and you have some surprise to all of us.
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• India
29 May 10
thankyou neildc... for your comments here, and for the friendship. I wish you will forget me. I promise to be back. ..
@neildc (17253)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
29 May 10
we'll be waiting for your return...
@mysdianait (64058)
• Italy
29 May 10
I had to read that more than once and then, all I can think of is.... is that a promise or a threat?
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@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
29 May 10
MD, i think it was both. But i am sure he will give us a very straight answer. TATA.
• Malaysia
29 May 10
knowing CT, he might consult us on the answer...
• India
29 May 10
hahaha. just got in.. will have to read all the responses before I decide...
• India
30 May 10
Well If I know that you are on vacation with family definitely will love to you but suddenly you disappear without any information, will think twice :) Have a good vacation and enjoy to the fullest.
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• India
31 May 10
thankyou ajay ... So, I HAVE done the right thing in announcing about my family tour. i will keep you all updated about my trip. Right now, using a guest laptop... from BANGALORE. the climate is already cool. and my kids enjoyed the journey. tillnow.
• India
31 May 10
Great going, enjoy your trip to the fullest.
@Jotomy (6351)
• India
29 May 10
Hi consultrainer, family is first then only others. Happy journey.
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• India
29 May 10
thankyou jotomy. it is true. My other topic on breathing techniques is lost, ... I could not read your comments. But, I believe, you all friends will give me the same helping hand,. always.. after I return.
@Jotomy (6351)
• India
30 May 10
Hi consultrainer, that was actually good topic and useful topic. i don't know why they deleted. I posted response for it. I learned yoga in shivananda ashram. So i posted some of the benefits of breathing exercise too so that whoever read they will be known. You got huge response for it.
@sid556 (31003)
• United States
30 May 10
Hi Consultrainer, I would and I'm sure all those that you got close to here would too. Glad to hear you are all healed and life is going well with you. I would say this discussion is your application for Leave of Absence pretty much. Even if you had said nothing at all, I would think most would wonder where you are and welcome you back when you returned. I was barely in here much at all for the several months that I was taking care of my mom full time, working full time and trying to take care of all the needs of my daughter. I did pop in here and there but it wasn't much. Everyone was great about it. You go spend some quality time with your family! You all deserve it. Create some memories and cool stories to tell us when you get back!
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• India
9 Jun 10
the memories are plenty. and the ideas too are a million to a day of my wonderful holiday.. but, the climate here is not supportive. It is hot and sunny again. and, I am not able to recollect all the ideas and topics that I planned to start. thanks for the love. It was truly a great holiday. I sincerely Wish you all the same ... very soon.
@SViswan (12071)
• India
30 May 10
Aww...I haven't been logging on and sorry to hear about your broken leg. Glad to know you are much better now. I don't inform people here about my absence and I don't think I will be missed either...lol...so I wouldn't feel bad if you didn't let me know you were going to be away. In fact, I hardly know when ANYONE takes a break since I'm not around much anyways. Hope you have a great trip. Bangalore is hot now (I'm lucky I stay indoors most of the time) but not as much as Hyderabad, I guess. Ooty should be cooler but very crowded this time of year. When we checked out the temperature at Ooty 3-4 weeks back, we found it to be hotter than Bangalore...lol...we were thinking of a break which never happened...due to the temperature. Anyways, you guys enjoy and have a nice trip:)
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• India
31 May 10
thankyou. .. friend. Me and family reached here... and all through the day, my sons enjoyed the pleasant breeze . . while travelling in the train. ... it is sure cool .. no comparision at all with HYDERABAD. late night, also, there were hot winds... spoiling. till we reached some 100 km away. will be updating more.
@Renhard (3480)
• Jamaica
29 May 10
No problem. I can forgive you. Go have your fun and when you come back then we have some more fun. See you in the next 15 days. By the next 15 days my exams will also be over and that means more fun . So enjoy yourself while it lasts to the fullest. See you next time
• India
29 May 10
that is a wonderful quotation.. ENJOY yourself to the fullest, While it lasts. very philosophical.. Thanks for the bestwishes. I will return with more fun and vigor. Write your exams very well, ...
@vandana7 (68728)
• India
29 May 10
Renhard, the 16 year old philosopher!
• India
29 May 10
do you believe the profile age? .. even I bluffed my true age here in mylot. So, vandana... please grow... and, change your angelic dress. I would like to see you in a new one!
@Hatley (164464)
• Garden Grove, California
30 May 10
hi consulttrainer of course with lots of love, when you return. I was missing in bad trouble for 11 months and could not even post to tell all my mylot friends why I was not on mylot but my son kept my account going by signing me in from the free computers in the library. My son lost his job and did not just e asily get another one so we got behind on the rent,were evicted,were lied to by a supposed friend who was going to stake us to three months rent in an apartment in Antioch Ca but as we were about to rake up money to move us and our belongings to antioch on my birthday,ironically , we received an email from the manager of the apartment informing us that the lady had changed her mind and told him to tear up the agreement she had signed the day before.that made us homeless,our stuff in storage. because of my age and diabetes and a bad foot my son got me into Gold crest retirement Center where I am now, paid for by my social security and ssi checks. he is still in govsponsored apt with three other men all out of work still. butI finally got my beloved computer and monitor out of storage and now am able to mylot and my friends all did welcome me back to mylot. this happened about six or seven months back now. mylot earnings go to pay my internet bill thank goodness for that.
• India
9 Jun 10
i am back again.. and will update the details soon. thanks Hatley.
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@Hatley (164464)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Jun 10
hi consultrainer glad you are back. cheers.
@nangisha (3504)
• Indonesia
5 Jun 10
I will wait for you patiently my friend . Go and have fun with your family and have wonderful moment. I think I will miss discussion you made . Say hi to your family...
• India
9 Jun 10
:d I am back.. but, partially. Enjoyed the holiday. Did not get any laptops... in the ooty, kodai places.. thanks for the support friend. I will sure convey your greetings to my family. Infact, they are TRULY enjoying the cool climate. Will update in the next 12 hours.
@tessah (6621)
• United States
30 May 10
since having to leave the lot unexpectedly more than once to return months or even more later.. id most certainly exsue yer absence if you informed us or not, and be happy to see you return. enjoy the trip and time with yer family!
• India
9 Jun 10
ha. thankyou . just returned. And, all is well. it is hot again here. but, all the past ten days, enjoyed climate around 18 degrees. while it is around 45 degrees here. so, you can understand the thrill my kids and family got through the holiday.
@paula27661 (15899)
• Australia
30 May 10
I have seen you around the place and I have enjoyed reading your posts so I will look forward to your return along with everyone else here. You are lucky to be going on holiday with your family; here is a chance to make good memories! Glad to hear you are all recovered, enjoy your break!
• India
9 Jun 10
thankyou paula. I completed half of my tour and holiday. And returned. with all the fun and enjoyment. Yes. I am truly very lucky to have spent the time and money. EVEN if some could afford the cost, there would not be such free time, and such a wonderful climate there at OOTY. thanks FOR your love and encouragement.
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@veejay19 (3592)
• India
30 May 10
You aren`t working for a company,friend, so go ahead and enjoy yourself with your family. Ooty is a great place to be in now with this hot summer on.Sorry to hear about your broken leg and glad to know that its healed properly. In 2008 i had undergone a minor operation to remove a benign tumour which had formed on the back just below the last vertebrae.After the surgery i was on bed for a week and then was able to sit on my pc.That was my only leave of absence ever since i got my pc.
• India
9 Jun 10
hahahaha. you got me wrong. But the purpose is served. I am back again, after a holiday. and will be online through ... thanks for sharing my pain of broken leg. Yes. It is healed completely. I am thrilled to know about your complete recovery too.. from the dirty tumor surgery.
@dloveli (4369)
• United States
29 May 10
I forgive you but dont let it happen again. LOL seriously have a great time with your family. You deserve after being laid up. I love mylot. On my last vacation I took my laptop with me and kept everyone posted on my adventures. You could take us with you. I would love to go on a virtual vacation with you and your family. Just kidding have a great time. Just dont forget to come back in 15 days. dl
• India
29 May 10
oh thankyou very much ... loveli... this leave is a once per year plan. that is what I PROMISED my kids... and, it is very hot summer here. So, I am taking them off to a mountain resort.. my brother too joins with his family. and he is into IT sector. So, has to bring his laptop. I don't have one. SO, will try to come online, once a day. I welcome you all, on to the VIRTUAL vacation... please join me.
@vandana7 (68728)
• India
29 May 10
Of course, I will forgive you, if you agree to accept my spankings on return kiddo!
• India
29 May 10
lols. I will have to think about this offer. and, thanks vannie.. and, meluan.. :p it is my previlege... please read the recommendation of Diana... she says something about friends sending money, ...