who deserves your love?

Philippines
June 1, 2010 7:49am CST
Who really deserves your love? someone rich & good looking but not giving u the right love u expect OR someone is simple to look at, with stable life, giving u the right love u are looking for. who u think is the best lover for u?
9 responses
@jose431 (164)
• India
27 Jul 10
If it is really happen to me I will choose the person who is simple to look at ,with stable life and give right love to me,if there is love in our heart naturally we will success in our life.
• United States
2 Jun 10
I think the people who deserve my love are people who respect me and love me back. So, my family, friends and boyfriend deserve my love.
@med889 (5958)
2 Jun 10
The one who deserves my love is already my boyfriend now, he is the right person as far as I know him for the four years, he has been next to me always, supporting me in every way and standing by me.
• United States
2 Jun 10
For me, I would choose the guy with a stable ife, giving me the right love and simple to look at. I guess I came to this conclusion in my teens when I had insecurities about myself. I would go crazy for the hot looking guys who definitely didn't give me the time of their day to even say hi but just those dirty looks. Even worse, all the girls backstabbed me and thus I had no support at all! But with the average looking guys, they still didn't give me the real attention I needed either. So I was screwed with whatever guys there was out there. I blammed myself for being ugly. But one day, I got fed up with it and said, the hell with what I look like and that I should start loving myself. But you know what? Surprisningly when I did that, I noticed that all this time, those guys did like me. They were just scared of me rejecting them because I was so quiet of me being scared and hurt of them not liking me. I'm talking about those good looking guys. But at that time, it doesn't matter. I already made them look ugly in my eyes so I was still screwed. And the girls hated me because they knew they had competition. So why would I choose the less attractive guys? Because my choices were the simple ones, with stable life, and giving me the right love. I need the right love to complement my love for myself. just kidding. Well, the truth is I can make any guy look handsome or not with how they treat me. If they know how to love me the right way, they look so hot more than the real good looking guys. I would never get enough of them and want to be around them all the time. And plus, the good looking guys grow old and get disguisting. So there you have it. I would choose to have a simple looking guy (as long as not too ugly) who doesn't look up to me financially and giving me the "complete" feeling.
• Philippines
1 Jun 10
The one that loves you the way you want to be loved, the one that respects you and cherishes you. Money and good looks are secondary.
• United States
1 Jun 10
The person who deserves my love will never break my heart. He will never raise a hand to beat on me. he would treat my daughter with love and kindness. He will treat my mother like his own. He could be poor as a church mouse and still he would deserve my love.
@kquiming (2999)
• Philippines
1 Jun 10
Someone who can love me back the way I love him. But the feelings have to come from me first, I can't just love anyone who loves me. I need to get to know him first. The qualities I look for in a guy are about the same as every girl's. Kind, good-looking (of course this is subjective, and relative to what is good or bad-looking for each person), responsible, smart, etc....it's understood.
@Alan70pct (173)
• China
1 Jun 10
Hey ,love itself is a feeling,right?So justy folloow it.The one with whom u fall in love deserves ur love.Other things cannot hinter the way u love someone.
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
1 Jun 10
One of life's most difficult decisions can be deciding who is deserving of your love. Love is such a complex emotion. Giving your heart to someone and having them give that same love back to you is the best experience in life. The rewards of love can be great. they can also bring you the deepest sorrow. When you find the one that steals your heart, your breath and your soul, that's when you know you have someone who deserves your love.