is it possible to fall in love with in days ?

Canada
June 3, 2010 1:15am CST
how log til you realized thats what they call love? and how many expiriences led you too that. also can you be in love more then once?
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10 responses
• United States
4 Jun 10
Love is something you work at. It's something you make a commitment to. It has to develop over time. "Love at first sight" and falling in love within weeks is infatuation. That is what attracts us to the person. The excitement. But that is only the first step. To truly love someone you have to really know them and care about them. Love really comes down to a choice. Not a choice of who they are but of who you are willing to be. I read a quote recently that I really liked, "Marriage isn't about finding the right person. It's about being the right person."
@jt1982 (16)
• United States
4 Jun 10
I fell in love with my fiance almost immediately. We were close friends for two years, he was there for me through a really rough marriage, and though I had feelings for him, I backed away over concern that he was 2 years younger than I and still had so much to go through before he'd be ready to grow up & mature. We lost contact for about a year and a half and then suddenly we ran into each other again out of no where. The moment I picked up the phone that night, I knew I loved him & a week later, when he could finally get out here to see me, I found myself falling in love & knew I was going to spend the rest of my life with him. I never knew true love until the day I looked in his eyes as he held me for the first time. 2 1/2 years later, we're engaged, have a beautiful 1-year-old baby girl and are ready to welcome our precious son into the world this October. Since the first time, I find myself falling in love with him over and over again every single day.
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
3 Jun 10
Normally it'll take me months to say that I'm already in love with the person. Sometimes you feel like you really want someone you met for a few days but that's not love, yet. That's infatuation. You love, sometimes they get lost and then you'll have another chance at love in time.. so I definitely believe you'll love more than once. Best of luck
@danoluma (817)
• Kenya
3 Jun 10
It is still very possible to fall in love my dear. Love is something that just happens and it finds you off-guard completely. It can take time for you to realize that you are in love or it can be just once. happy mylotting. Mzbaybe
@srganesh (6340)
• India
3 Jun 10
Falling in love can happen in seconds without giving you a chance to think over.Some may call it infatuation but it is the seed for all love.No two people can start liking each other without mutual attraction.And one can fall in love as many times as possible.
@xeroeight (1060)
• Philippines
3 Jun 10
well yes I can be in love for more than once but now I am only in love with one girl. I realize that I'm in love before I even know A girl or sometime when we are too close to each other. what happen to me and my girlfriend we get too close to each other.
@med889 (5941)
3 Jun 10
I have been a friend to my boyfriend for more than six months before knowing that I am dating him, it is such a mixed feelings at that time when you yourself does not know when you fall in love with the other so I think we do not realized totally the exact time when we fall in love though. And we can be loving more than once too. If the first one is now going smoothly then we have a chance to try another one too.
@meirhu (363)
• Israel
3 Jun 10
I am in love even BEFORE I MEET someone. I have a Jesus complex and love EVERYONE.
@JoaniZik (90)
• Philippines
3 Jun 10
"Falling in love" is a fallacy! You have to MAKE A DECISION! you can do that in days or maybe months, other a year, while others years.... it doesn't matter how long or short as long as you made a choice and made a COMMITMENT to love someone.
• Philippines
3 Jun 10
It takes long time that love will develop in two person. In my own experience, I fall in love with my friend. I suddenly realize that I am happy when I saw my friend and longing to spend more time with her.