June 3, 2010 3:22am CST
my friend called me cos she heeds to talk to me i got mad.. in the middle of the night? so i said i will see her tomorrow. we met in our favorite restaurant and she started to tell me about her problem.. i cant believe this! my friend and her father in law having an affair for the last 3 months and the worst she is pregnant. she told me that she was to end the affair but too late now.. asking me to help her.. how?
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3 Jun 10
wow.. this is a really dificult situation.. and yeah... this is adultery... she has to take the consequence of her action... when she got into that relationship, i do beleive that she knows the risk she is taking... if she is me friend, me too wouldnt know what to suggest.. we will just have to pray that everything will be turn out fine... its not too late for her to end the affair... its never too late... pray for her... we cannot turn back the time...
3 Jun 10
Hello juicekoday.. thanks so much to your response.. prayer.. yes! very much needed for this situation but time is running and still no action to be done.. i think prayer plus action is needed immediately but the big question is how to BEGIN?
4 Jun 10
yeah.. prayer, pray that she will be guided and that she can take the consequences.. there really is nothing you can do.. your just a friend and not directly involved with this... if she's ready to take the consequences already then she can inform her husband... probably both of them can... but she or they will have to know that may loose the people they love and they may loose trust from them...
3 Jun 10
hello Cutie 18f.. i am asking if it is too late for her to stop this affair? now i am also so confused..what would i say? as a friend actually we are best of friend since our high school days.she is now 1 month pregnant actually i got really mad to her at first cos she keep this affair from me and now that she is in deep trouble she asking me for help. no! her husband does not know about this, and now she wants me to talk to her father in law to discuss this, i think i will see him.
3 Jun 10
This is so weird, how can she do this? I mean yes it is immoral to me,how can she tell others about the baby's father now and her mother too, she is betraying many people at the same time so I think she needs to take up an action as soon as possible such as telling her mother and planning what to do next,you are a friend and you cannot interfere too much in her personal family life so just advise her to talk to her parents once for all.