Love marriage or Arrange marriage
5 Jun 10
love marriage is a matter of sole. In love marriage our soul is beeing satisfied. In arrange marriage so many matters are being considered. That is also good. mine is a love marriage. I am living happily with my husband. But to live with my lover I had to give up my wonderful job and I had to emigrate to non English speeking country. These two things disturb me in my love marriage. In propose marriage we can determin lot of things. For example, in which country we are going to live in?
7 Jun 10
In our country, marrying someone because you love them is much more popular and accepted than arranged marriage. The way I see it, most cases of divorce you say are those of "love marriages", I agree, because arranged marriage now are not often practice by many countries or cultures. In some areas and culture arranged marriage still applies because it is part of their tradition or the parents or family want somebody that will contribute something good to the clan. This bond is very difficult to break due to the respect the couple have for their parents and the family's decision and the value they share with their family. But in my opinion, I would most likely divorce someone I married due to arrangement than someone I married because of love, not that I don't respect my parents or I don't love my family. It's just that for me LOVE is a basic and most fundamental ingredient that would make a marriage last a lifetime. Maybe those who opted a divorce have lost the love they have in the first place they married each other along the way. I think, divorce is not a question of the type of marriage you put yourself into, but more of how the couples complement each other. They must do everything they could to harmonize their relationship, they must practice the process of give-and-take and compensate for each others deficiencies. They must work together as a team, as ONE. And must always ask the blessing from above. --- for marriage to work and would not resort to divorce. :)
5 Jun 10
I prefer Love Marriage. Marrying someone with love is a big advantage. This is for life so how can you be to someone who you didn't love? You will do everything for your husband/wife because you love her/him. You can face everything for that person because of love. Unlike in the arrange marriage, you did not care for each other. You can do whatever you want to do without realizing that maybe you can hurt each other because of what are you doing. It is better if you can learn to love each other, what if you can't? You will going to suffer for the rest of your life for being married to the person you did not love? Worst you can't learn to love. So I must prefer Marrying someone with Love..=)