Comparing your partner...

Philippines
June 6, 2010 10:08am CST
Was there a time when you tried comparing your partner, boyfriend, girlfriend to other people? Maybe you compared him to other guys who do such things that impressed you a lot but you never experience it from your partner, or heard from your friends that their partners is like this, like that or does this does that for them to be happy and you envy them because your partner never did this, did that for you.
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• Philippines
7 Jun 10
yes i always do that that why my bf was always angry, i dont know but i really want someone that have all my criteria when it comes to bf specially f that guy is serious enough. though i know its wrong coz im so unfair to them they never compare me to their ex nor to other girls as they said they love me as i am.
@evepin (723)
• Philippines
7 Jun 10
sometimes i cannot help it. either compare because my husband is better or compare because of what's lacking. it is unfair though and once i get aware of my thoughts then i completely erase them. i should love my husband for how and who he is.
@YoungInLove (1254)
• Canada
7 Jun 10
Oh Ive compared my partner to other guys and I dont think its to bad. I mean its not like im like omg i wish he was alot better looking like that guy. I mean, i love my boyfriend, hes amazing, and gorgeous, and the same height as me.. So i have compared him to the height of other people just because I am usually a sucker for super tall guys, but aside from that, I dont really do it
@ericpapasit (1276)
• Philippines
7 Jun 10
Not a good Idea.... You may find it encouraging or discouraging though. Stop comparing I may say
• Philippines
6 Jun 10
It is so unwise to compare one person to another person. We are a unique individual. We have something character that no one had. They have something special that we don't have. Likewise if I have boyfriend, it is expected that he is different from my friend's boyfriend. I have seen something about him that I love. Whatever his attitude, character, and feature I have accepted it with all my heart. I am willing to share it with him for good times and bad times. Nothing to compare...
@avani26 (1521)
• India
6 Jun 10
Yes I have compared but that does not mean that I have done it only when my partner doesn't do something. I compare him with someone when they do not do it and when my hubby does it I feel how lucky I am to have such a loving husband but then maybe everyone does that.