I am in love with two people have you had this problem?

@mokkka (883)
Bulgaria
June 6, 2010 4:23pm CST
Basically, I love two boys dearly and I can't choose between the two.They Are so different and at the same time give me evrything I need and love me so much.Do I sound bad saying that I need them both?I just wish I could turn the clock back.any advice is good advice, please help.
5 responses
@med889 (5958)
7 Jun 10
I think you have not understood the real meaning of love because we cannot love two person at the same time, we have to feel something less for one among the two, maybe you still need to analyze both of them and their love for you too, some are infatuated and think they are in love so maybe you have to check this out as for whom you feel the most attached too.
@mokkka (883)
• Bulgaria
7 Jun 10
I feel more attached to the one I cannot really be with that is why I say it is difficult for me to decide.
@med889 (5958)
7 Jun 10
To the one you feel more attached is your love one and it is worth to fight for it though, go with what your heart tells you, you will be happier.
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@mokkka (883)
• Bulgaria
7 Jun 10
I hope so and I know that sooner or later I will probably decide just the thing you prospose but it is a bit difficult to be against everybody because being with him means to forget about my family.
• United States
7 Jun 10
It happened to me years ago ,you have to ask yourself, who have your heart? who do your family likes? then take your pick if not then just dump both,also make sure you never do this anymore or it will be the same thing.
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@mokkka (883)
• Bulgaria
7 Jun 10
The worst is than I feel stronger love for the one whom my family hates and this is quite a big problem.
• United States
8 Jun 10
then if your family hates the one you have more love for then thats the one you leave because your family see something that you to blind to see maybe you should try to find out why they hate him so much.
• India
7 Jun 10
This is really a pathetic situation where you hurt somebody after loving him and give something to somebody which you cant give it to other, it really hurts the one guys life or it may change his life, you either decide on one and go ahead with them, once you reach a state after loving both you dont know who is good and with whom youa re the best before you take decision decide who love you most rather than whom you love most
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@mokkka (883)
• Bulgaria
7 Jun 10
It is difficult because they both take care of me,help me,talk to me and need me.As I feel difficulty to decide I told one of them to leave me but neither of them wants.I am not sure what they find in me but they both say they cannot live without me and this is the way I also feel.
@eman_81 (16)
• Egypt
7 Jun 10
sure sure u should choose beteewn them ,, it is not logic to love the both in the same time ,, but u must choose quickly cuz if anyone know that u r in relation with somone else he will be v. angry & may be u lose the both
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@mokkka (883)
• Bulgaria
7 Jun 10
they both know for each other and have almost no problem with that exept that each of them says I should leave the other but it's been so for ages so I don't know what to do.
@ada8may21 (2419)
• Philippines
6 Jun 10
Dont let yourself be confused with the situation. As early as possible it would be better that you need to choose one and let go the other one. It would be unfair for the other guy to keep on holding him where in fact you can only have one guy. I know its difficult but you can try it. As you say they are two different person with different kind and attitude so just weigh which one is much better to keep and let go for now. As for your question if I had this problem. My answer is NO never been to such situation.
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