friends or lovers

It happened to me when I had a crush on my friend when I was in my first year on University and we had both in fact had this crush and it was only the last day of the semester when we were returning home that we both told each other, it was really funny, we even kissed because we wanted to make the moment a memorable one, and it happens, today we are still very good friends though.

I had once a best friend where in we became so close and we love hanging around with each other. Then after a long time he courted me and of course I said yes since I've been in love with him secretly and I found out that he also feels the same way too but afraid to tell me since he know that I am interested in some other guys. But we only lasted for 4 months I think since we found out that we are not good as lovers but we are best if we remain friends. So after we broke up, we never had communications for two months even if we see each other along the way. But after those two months, we were back to being best friends again. Until now we remain best friends and I prefer it that way.

There are friends who become lovers and there are friends who just stay friends. If you have a girl "-" friend, it doesn't always mean that you're bound to become lovers. It just means that you're friends. It's up to you two if you're going to go there or just stay as friends.

i do not agree to your comment as i had a friend and a lover at the same time, and it is difficult to say who do you love the most, but these two loves are different. and i need both them with me. if i met my best friend and my lover is not there, i will always talk with my friend about my lover.but in some cases i have seen that best friends of some of my friends had become their lovers but not to me