What are you most happy/unhappy about in your life right now??

@puccagirl (7316)
Israel
June 14, 2010 1:23pm CST
I think we all have things that we are happy about in our lives, but there are of course also things that could be better. So what are the things you are most satisfied with in your life right now? And what things are you most unhappy about? I am happy with my family, and with my current living arrangement, I live in a fantastic apartment and I get so happy when I come home to it each day. On the downside, I have some small health issues that could be better (nothing very serious though!)
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@cwilson26 (2737)
• United States
14 Jun 10
I am most happy that I have a decent job and a loving husband and a decent home. However, I am most unhappy with my job. I know I should feel lucky that I have a good job where I can work online and make decent money but I don't like my job anymore. I am a freelance writer for online companies and I am so tired of writing articles every day. So I am looking every day for a better job to replace it and I have found a few and applied but haven't heard anything yet. Once I get a job that replaces writing articles, I will be happier! :)
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@puccagirl (7316)
• Israel
14 Jun 10
Oh, yes! I definately know what you mean, since I used to write articles too. It does get a bit tiring after a while, and you feel like you are constantly repeating yourself. (at least it was that way for me) I hope you find something new soon! In my experience it can take a while before you find something really good, but if it is a good job, it should be well worth the wait!
@Wizzywig (7859)
14 Jun 10
I am most happy that I have 2 wonderful sons and am back at work after a recent health problem. I am a bit unhappy that it changed my life for ever but it could've had a far greater impact, so, overall, I guess I'm not really that unhappy
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@puccagirl (7316)
• Israel
14 Jun 10
That's great! (You not being unhappy, I mean, not the health problem) You seem to have a great attitude to life, and I think that's great! It makes life so much easier in so many ways. We should all strive for that, really!
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@karen1969 (1788)
14 Jun 10
Well, I am happy with my husband and looking forward to going away to London on Sunday. The things I am unhappy about are that we don't have enough money and my middle daughter is misbehaving and being very difficult at the moment, so I am very stressed about this situation.
@puccagirl (7316)
• Israel
14 Jun 10
Oh, it does sound difficult to have a misbehaving daughter (even though I don't have kids myself yet). How old is she? Maybe it's just a phase she is going through? Money is a great cause of stress for a lot of people, and very few people are probably satisfied with what they have and/or make, so I definately do not think you are alone there!
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@karen1969 (1788)
15 Jun 10
She is 17, so yes, it is a difficult age - quite grown up in some ways, but still a child in other ways!! I agree, i think most people have money worries, especially at the moment.
@puccagirl (7316)
• Israel
16 Jun 10
Oh, I think a lot of kids are difficult at that age, so even though it is hard, I am sure, do not get too stressed over it, she will grow out of it soon! (I personally was also not exactly a little ray of sunshine every day at that age, so I think that is just a part of being 17...)
• India
14 Jun 10
Yes, I am very happy for the reason to be in US for the first time and enjoying my days here. The reason for being unhappy is same , My wife could not come with me as it was very sudden to come, it could have been great to be with her here, we could enjoy together going around.
@puccagirl (7316)
• Israel
15 Jun 10
Oh, that is too bad that your wife could not join you. Fingers crossed that she can come over soon! Try to at least enjoy the time you have in the US, even though you miss her! All the best to you both, you and the wifey! May you be united again soon!
• India
15 Jun 10
yes thats bad but no control, looking forward to visit again with her in future. Thank You
@arnooba (75)
• Egypt
14 Jun 10
really very hard question for unhappy it is easy -- my car is broaken i that makes me not comfort or moving easlly for the happy thing -- iam afraid to tell you that NON :(
@puccagirl (7316)
• Israel
14 Jun 10
Oh, sorry to hear that! I hope that changes for you soon then! And that the car gets fixed soon too, I know how hard it is not to have a working one, it has happened to me a few times too, not for a long time usually though..
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• Egypt
15 Jun 10
thnax for your hopes iam just waiting the weekend to fix it , i can't live without it realy it is hard
@KCruzado (78)
• Philippines
15 Jun 10
Gee thanks for asking =D. What makes me happy at the moment is my promotion =D. Although it will be effective next year yet, I am otherwise starting with my training. Actually, it's the position but the opportunities that come with that position like training, exposure and so on. On the other hand, what makes me unhappy is losing a friend. Because of certain issues and hurt, a friend of mine decided that we can no longer be friends =(. Sad cos I love that friend. I am hoping he will find peace wherever he is right now.
@puccagirl (7316)
• Israel
16 Jun 10
Wow, congratulations on your promotion! Well done! Very happy for you! About the friend, I know how that feels, and it really is a bummer when it happens, but that is part of life. Hopefully you will get back in touch at some point in the future! Fingers crossed!
14 Jun 10
I am always very happy with the fact I am married to a wonderful man and have a perfect little girl. Anything that goes wrong or is making us unhappy around can always be made better by a smile from my little girl! Unfortunately things are never one sided in happiness. My husband is about to be made redundant from his job so is furiously job hunting though there is nothing around so we are very worried financially. Also we have been trying for two and a half years without success for a 2nd child (our daughter was a 1% miracle so we may not be able to have another one) and i have an op coming up which is worrying me though fingers crossed it will help.
@puccagirl (7316)
• Israel
15 Jun 10
Oh, that sounds like such a wonderful family! It does sound like you are blessed indeed. A lot of people face the same issues you do at the moment, both financial and with the second baby, but with the right attitude you can get through almost anything. And you definitely seem to have the right attitude!
• United States
14 Jun 10
i'm happy i have a job and my family, but am not at all happy with certain people or my living arrangement
@puccagirl (7316)
• Israel
14 Jun 10
Yeah, I know what you mean. There are some quite annoying people in my life as well (not family or anything, but people I come in contact with on a regular basis, even if I would rather not), but the best thing is usually to ignore them if you can.
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@reckon21 (3487)
• Philippines
15 Jun 10
I am feeling happy because I am applying for a job nowadays and it's a big step in getting out of this boring house. I really felt cage now and it seems my illness is dragging me down. Because of this illness I'm afraid to try things out but then after being so alone for a long time I come to realize that being afraid wont take me anywhere. So I have to take the big step to change my life I will not let this illness of mine stop me from getting work outside my home. The things that I am unhappy about is the though of waiting for so long before I can finally have a work. With so many people looking for job and most of them were qualified physically I think I have some doubts if I will ever get the job at all.
• Philippines
15 Jun 10
Hi Puccagirl! I'm happy with where my career is going. I'm happy that I can help and volunteer in my community. And I'm happy for my the good health and my family. On the other hand I'm unhappy because it's rainy season here in the Philippines again, and I'm afraid the floods might come again.
@ohiocy (215)
• Malaysia
15 Jun 10
Well, sorry to hear that you have health issues, anyways it's glad to see that you are content on your life. Mine is not really something to be happy with apart from my family, which I'm really glad to be apart of. The rest are not of the least satisfactory especially my own social life. Geez.. people get to attract people naturally and I get to ward them off.. tough break.. Anyways happy myLotting :)
@palkmae (30)
• Japan
15 Jun 10
I am most happy having a loving husband and an adorable son. I am unhappy living in the country where I am now because I cant speak and understand their language well enough to fully function as a member of the society.
• United States
15 Jun 10
we all have unhappy in our life so i will tell you the happy in mine. I am so very blessed to have a wonderful, gifted, christian son at only 11. Also, i have a extrodinarly wonderful step- family that has become my real family. This includes my mom, her husband(who i call daddy) , his mother (grammie) two great step-(brothers) and another grandmother. i could not have asked for a better family if God had let me choose them myself. Thanks again to our wonderful creator!!!
@laratri (254)
• India
15 Jun 10
hi... Yes, I am most happy with my husband and my son. The things I am unhappy with my friend Menaga. I am happy with my family.