how to get back your ex

@markleob (1904)
Philippines
June 15, 2010 2:38pm CST
most of the time when a girlfriend and boyfriend broke up, one of them if not both of them want to get back... i have found some powerful tips here for those who are struggling in it. http://howtogetyourexbackguide.org/ and for those who has idea on how to solve it, what piece if not pieces of advice could you give?
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@gloryacam (5546)
• Philippines
16 Jun 10
Getting back may be sweet, but if it were me, I'd rather use my enery in other worthwhile matter. Spending that much energy for an ex, I think, is a waste of energy and time. I'd rather spend it on a "future" After all, they say that success is the best revenge. (In this case, success in a new relationship) :) Also, when your actions against the ex backfire, you'll end up hurting yourself more and not the ex. By not doing anything, or simply ignoring him/her, I think, is good enough because to him/her it would mean he/she is not worth all that effort.
@gloryacam (5546)
• Philippines
16 Jun 10
ooppss...the discussion was about getting your ex back? i thought it was getting back at your ex. sheesh... in that case, ex is ex. if he's not worth getting back why get him back? :)
@breisa (165)
• New Zealand
16 Jun 10
lol.. You really should start a discussion about that! I'd love to get back at my ex and secretly ruin his life.XD
@markleob (1904)
• Philippines
16 Jun 10
hi there glo... hmm what if deep inside your heart you realized that you are still in love with him? and he is still right there, so much in love with you and waiting for you to take him back? are you gonna totally turn your back on him?
@basqui (3890)
• Philippines
15 Jun 10
Why would I want my ex back? I'm off with another girl and a better one..
@markleob (1904)
• Philippines
15 Jun 10
what if you still have feelings for her and it was just a mere misunderstanding that made your ways separated? hmmmm
@basqui (3890)
• Philippines
15 Jun 10
If her dumping me over a new guy is a mere misunderstanding then maybe I could get back to her. haha!
• Mexico
16 Jun 10
Hi markleob: I think that if it's just a mere misunderstanding it's ok to fight for your love and to work for the sake of the relationship but at the same time to keep the romance it's necessary that both parts want to do this. Thanks for your explanation. Have a nice day. ALVARO.
• Mexico
16 Jun 10
Hi markleob: I think that if a person wants to find to get his/ her ex back there must be a reason to do this. Love must exist in both parts. If not it would be a stupid sacrifice. I think it's difficult to get your ex back specially when this person has decided to continue with his/ her life. In this cases I'd think it's better to let it go. Thanks for starting this discussion. Have a nice day. ALVARO.
• Philippines
16 Jun 10
Hello there, still it depends on the situation of the two. but there is a saying that Love is sweeter the second time around.but it rarely happens to every one, most specially one has changed already. but who knows if the two comes back together then they were indeed meant for each other
@markleob (1904)
• Philippines
16 Jun 10
you have points letranknight... what if you still have feelings for your ex? arent you gonna take your pride and court her again? i believe it is pride when we dont admit what we really feel...
• Philippines
16 Jun 10
Hello mark, it depends on the situation here, most people prefer to move on with a new man or woman. but there are very little instances where the exes got back together and not because with the effort but mostly by chance. But your link is good i think others would want to use it some day if they still have there feelings with they're ex. but i don't think it's recommendable with everybody.
@markleob (1904)
• Philippines
16 Jun 10
yeah you got it right letranknight, i really like your thoughts regarding this issue.. hmmm yeah there are instances wherein you dont want to be with your ex again. but there also instances wherein you just broke up because of a very small issue wherein getting back your ex is vital...