oh, no no no! WTF i really can't believe this!!!!

Spain
June 16, 2010 9:46am CST
a boy of 16 and a girl of 15... tsk tsk tsk last time, i raised a discusion saying about the run away of my brother with his gf.. yes, you heard it right my brother had eloped with his gf maybe 2 or 3 months ago.... WTF, now the girl and my sis in law to be got preggy... anyway, what could anything be done? damaged has already done.. tsk tsk tsk... i just told my brother to just continue his studies even his already tied with this girl....tsk tsk tsk.. so young..father.. so soon...
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• South Korea
16 Jun 10
darn i even have a cousin who got pregnant at the age og 14.... i dont know whats happening to young generation now.... they seems to be very aggressive...and really different.... i dont know how to put this in words...but children nowadays seems to be more mature..
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• Spain
17 Jun 10
this is very common nowadays, all their really wanted is fun but that should not the way it used to be... anyway my brother is happy about this and i greatly admire him... even the girl that abortion was not her option despite of their age...
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@oldchem1 (8144)
16 Jun 10
What a shame, they are both too young to be parents - they are still children themselves. Their lives will be ruined by this, but yes your brother MUST carry on with his studies.
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• Spain
17 Jun 10
you are right. they couldn't even spread their wings and fly...
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17 Jun 10
Your brother's a moron and so is his girl.
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• Spain
17 Jun 10
thanks for dropping by..
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• Philippines
17 Jun 10
Hmm.. We need to take down the root cause of this. Why the boy did it and whats the reason? I think as parents, if they fully give guidance to their children things like this wont happen. I am not saying that your parents didnt do their best to tell your brother and guide them in the right way they can. But since it already happened, the best thing to do is to give the best love and understanding to the both of them. Guide them as to how to become a good parents to their upcoming child and let them learn from their mistake by not judging them for what they have done. Its good to let them continue their studies so that when the time comes that the boy needs a job he has a fall back. And Kumar1232009, as a brother, you need to give your full understanding to your brother and support him to whatever he will do. Guide him in every way you can so he will also feel that he is loved and not judged.
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• Spain
17 Jun 10
as i have said earlier, my brad used to be the escort of this girl who happened to be the muse of their school body... we all have been from high school and we knew how really aggressive students at this stage are... as far as i know, our parents met their guidelines, our needs to include.. especially material and emotional support....
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@cherrc (666)
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
aaargh, that will definitely be a hard time for both of them. still, hoping that by this heavy responsibilty they'll be facing, they would learn in the process how to make good plans and be in the right direction. it may be a driving motivation for them. :)
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• Spain
17 Jun 10
Hi Cher, NIce message you got there... and we are here to support them...
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• United States
17 Jun 10
Goodness. They both have to try to continue with their studies though the girl's life is more ruined than your brother...Sigh, I have a friend in a similar situation though she was 16 and so was her boyfriend. She ended up quitting high school and is now having a lot of trouble making a living. Her life is not very present on top of that her boyfriend left her, but she found someone else...Though not sure if it is going to last.
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• Spain
17 Jun 10
my brother finished HS and the girl is a junior High. despite of everything, my brother is happy and i admire him... he even told me that he got a job but he just needed to exert more effort as this is really intended for skilled workers... but i said a big big big NO! do not work and go to school.. you are handsome and you deserve a better job in the office...and do not just destroy your physical appearance by working in that place with that kind of nature of job... during his freshman, he used to be the escort of this girl who happened to be the muse of their school body organization...
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@mspitot (3833)
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
oh my...they are still very young. they should have been careful. but since it is already there, i think it's better if your brother will continue his studies if that is okay with your family too.it's better to be like that so he can work after studying.
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• Spain
17 Jun 10
actually it was not okay with my family when they first confessed... they find it really hard to say the truth personally, and they need bridges.. as his elder bro, i convince my mom and dad with the nicest way i can.. and here.. its okay so life must go on.... he will go to college....
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@sid556 (31003)
• United States
17 Jun 10
Hi Kumar, That's sad to be so young and already having the responsibility of a child. As you said though it is a done deed so now really all you can do is offer help and moral support. They are going to need it. Trying to keep up with their studies and at the same time supporting and caring for a baby is going to be a real big task for them. I hope the families are close and will be able to help them out.
• Spain
18 Jun 10
both parties are close and supportive. changes from my brad has already been noticed according to my mom, if he used to be jarheaded before, now he is really straight forward and want to finish his college....
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
Young people are really messed up these days, they are barely even adults yet and now have to be matured right away because of the situation. I know a lot of young people are getting pregnant or had their girlfriends pregnant at such a young age, it's such a shame because they even haven't finished their studies yet, how would they support their family and their baby.
• Spain
18 Jun 10
yes and its too late for them to regret... thanks to God that abortion was not their option and inspite of everything, they confessed down their knees with both parents....
@sharay (2776)
• India
17 Jun 10
They both are in the phase of exploration right now, but the boy being 16 and girl being 16, i am sure they must have known very well about contraceptions, at least they must have followed if not control their emotions completely or where they intending to get pregnant so that their parents might not say "no" to their relationship? anyways, just make sure that they defntly continue their studies and raise the child with adult supervision, when you all are there for their support, they need not worry much now, except for the emotional mistake they had committed at an early age.
• Spain
18 Jun 10
they are now in my parents' possession.. as for me i am not wanting to use any contaception ones as i like it naturally done.. but at least they should have been aware of it...