Is my decision wrong about not joining Amway?

India
June 16, 2010 8:07pm CST
Hi friends, I had discussed about a new friend here in Chicago in another discussion. Same friend introduced me to the Amway Business and invited me to attend the 3 hour long seminar to get the idea about the business model. I had told him that earlier also I attended similar seminar at Delhi and did not join the business but he said that just attend the seminar and decision is your about moving forward with the idea. It was great discussion by Rick farechild (Not sure if spell correctly) who is at some level in the business. I enjoyed the great intellectual discussion and the business ideas but could not make my mind to join the program. Just wrote to my same friend about my decision of not going forward with this business idea. I felt bad that he had some hopes from me about joining this business but thought of telling him soon so that those expectations are dead and we still maintain our happy friendship. Do you know about this program? Ever tried it? Is my decision wrong about not joining Amway?
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11 responses
• United States
17 Jun 10
My cousin sells amway products but I am not impressed with them. By the time you pay all the shipping and handling charges it is about twice what you would pay for a similar product in store. I guess for some more rural areas, having these items delivered to your door is convienent. As for joining Amway, the only way you are ever going to make anything of it is to be willing to push the products. So if you are not willing to make that committment then you are certainly doing the right thing by not joining. You would have more invested in the program then you would get back and have a bunch of product you will never use.
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• Thailand
31 Jul 10
Yeah even i agreed that products are costly but on the other hand if you buy other product you do not get the rebates from them but with Amway you get also there is one new concept in Amway for those who don't like selling but need steady income for the rest of your life is that you become a member and use whatever products you think are good for you(health products for instance)then you talk about them to others about its benefit and when he/she is interested then he/she can join under you and use the products like this the residual income will be built by expanding your network of products users so no need to sell.It will take time but the income will be for the rest of your life and it also passed to the next generation as the network won't stop. Anyway this is what i learned about network21.
• India
13 Aug 10
I am happy that I did not choose to go with Amway. Thank You for sharing.
• India
18 Jun 10
Yes, products are costly but good quality. We can find similar quality product in less. Perhaps prices are high because of all the member commisions involved in selling . Thank You for sharing.
@carolscash (9492)
• United States
18 May 11
You made a decision based on how you feel about something and there is nothing to feel bad about. I did sign up to sell Amway a couple of years ago and never had any luck in doing it. They have some good products, but the cost is much for most people these days.
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• India
3 Jul 11
Yes, they are too costly and not suitable for all range of customers.
• United States
17 Jun 10
I don't know anything about Amway. All I want to say is follow your gut reaction. If Anything doesn't feel right to you , Don't do it. A real friend will respect your decision. Follow you bliss!
• India
17 Jun 10
You are correct and that is what I did, I denied to become the member of this business. Thank You for the response.
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• United States
17 Jun 10
Bravo! I'm so proud of you! Now you can see if this person is a friend or just a recruiter.
• India
18 Jun 10
Yeh, I was thinking all the time that why this guy is so nice to me but now its clear. Thank You.
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@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
17 Jun 10
AjaySinghBaghel, There is no right nor wrong here. It is your choice whether to join or not, just like deciding if you would want to go into business with friends or a particular company. It is just another business decision, weigh your options and if you do not like it then walking away is just the right thing. It will be wrong to join out of obligation and regret at the end of the day.
• India
18 Jun 10
I told him same thing, may be I will join this just because of him but do not want you to regreat my joining. Thank You for sharing.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
I think Amway products were good but if you think you will get something out of selling it...you have to think twice because it requires much persuasion on your part on how to persuade your friends to buy or join it. It can be similar to door to door selling. Which requires much time and effort before you will get nowhere. I presumed the organizer of the discussion is very adept in presenting the business and the product. They are all like that...they make you feel it will be the only good product for you to sell..but the truth is it's hard to sell products like that.
• India
18 Jun 10
Main thing is that I do not like to sell and time is another problem. Thank you for sharing.
@2004cqui (2812)
• United States
17 Jun 10
I agree with every one responding to this one. I sold Watkins years ago. I knew someone when I was a kid who sold Avon, to my mother. All I can say is that your world will be nothing but the product you are selling. Even if you're successful you will eat and sleep "product". Your day planner will be filled with obligations to your bottom line. And then there is the tax liability. If employed, your employer pays half of you social security on the income you made. Then you pay your half. When self employed who do you think pays that other half? You do. So when you get up in the morning your "social contacts" will be your customers, not your friends. And any get togethers, partys, and lunches you go to will be with others who sell "the product". Your friend will make money off you because you are a "downline" for them. Your friend looks at you as an opportunity to make more money, period. Close friends told me straight out not to expect any purchases from them. I never asked. If total strangers told me they wanted something I was very glad but never "hit up" friends or family. The "company" repeatedly told me this was a requirement. Hello? Friend, family or just money in my pocket? I'm on the do not call list and refuse to buy anything from a door to door salesman. Your cold call list better not have my number on it or I will do what I've done in the past. I will report you.
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• India
18 Jun 10
Well detailed, I do not like to talk about selling products when I meet my friend and relative or a new person. That is what I will have to do if joined this business. Thank You for all the details on this subject
@allamgirl (2140)
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
my mom tried it years ago. she just did it for a little while though. i don't know if there's a lot of income coming from that. but i do think that it takes up your time. well, if not joining feels right to you, then i guess you made the right decision. it would be hard for you to commit to it if you don't really like doing it.
• India
17 Jun 10
yeh I feel so, its not for me, I cannot sell anything other than my skills . Thank You for sharing.
@vandana7 (98778)
• India
17 Jun 10
Hi Ajay, while they do sell quality products, I am not ok with anything that is to be ingested, and they have something like that for shedding weight. What they expect you to do is buy the products, and find the next person who would be interested in those products based on your personal experience. Now why on earth would I want to make my friend eat something on regular basis, and eventually get some complications because of it (because we can never be sure which of these health foods are safe)? And in any event, I dont like selling any products. :) I have friends, I dont want them to be fleeing the moment they see me coming - just like people flee when they see insurance agents. :)
@vandana7 (98778)
• India
13 Jan 11
Thanks sweetie. Wish you the same. :) @Ajay - Thank you for the best response. I just noticed it. :) Happy Sankranti. :)
• India
17 Jun 10
vandana - you got it right, if I join this business all I am going to do is talk about it all the time whenever I meet a friend and worst part they all will thing that I am making money out of friendship. Thank you for sharing.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
17 Jun 10
Joining Amway is a decision you need to make yfor yourself. Don't let someone push you into something you do not want to do. i have had family members in Amway. Some were happy to do it. Others were not. Do what feels right in your heart. Good luck!
• India
18 Jun 10
Correct, So I decided not to join and feel that its right decision. Thank you for sharing.
• India
17 Jun 10
You did the right decision by not joining Amway... i have tried this business fro 1 year.. I had 30 people in my group and a couple were active...ou try convincing them to work etc etc... flood them with books and tapes. I always had the guilt feeling for people making them to join forcibly without me realising it.. You are flooded with tapes & Positive mental Attitude books... though I did like the book recommendation but was not comfortable with motivational tapes... Your ability to think creative is diminished since you are only and only have to follow your uplines and only duplicate the same what upline does... your mind will lose the ability to think... The associated motivational group are like Cult organisation... Yes they do have some good products but they are exhorbitant high rates... You did a wise decision for not joining... Sorry for being very Harsh here for the guys who love Amway
• India
18 Jun 10
If I believe in some concept probably will try to make others understand but on this I am not clear so do not want to bother others. There are many things upline, downline, the guy promised me to give 10 members under me. let's see what next he proposes. Thank you for sharing you rdetails and experience, I feel good about my decision. Thank You again
@breisa (165)
• New Zealand
17 Jun 10
My friend in the Philippines talked me into joining Amway but then I said no. From what I understood, its a bit similar to what we have online, if you get a referral, then you earn some percent from your referral's earnings. I dunno, but for me, it's a big risk to join amway. You see, you have to buy their products for a very low price, then it's up to you to sell it for a higher price to non-members! I believe this strategy is only good for people who are very good at sales talking and those who has a very large set of customers! What if nobody is interested in buying them? That's where the problem comes. :(
• India
18 Jun 10
I am not saying that the business is not good but I am not fit for this and hence thought of being away from this. Thank You for sharing.
• India
18 Jun 10
Oh thats bad, thank God I am away from all this. Thank you.
@breisa (165)
• New Zealand
18 Jun 10
haha.. no problem. If you really think that you're not fit for it, then don't go for it! My friend who joined amway by the way, is now struggling. She's having trouble because she has to sell all the things she bought. She tried selling them to my classmates and they all couldn't afford it, because we all are students. :(