are your best friends your best enemies?

India
June 17, 2010 9:28am CST
it's one thing you never know,it's equivalent to a situation to a situation where you are stalked constantly by some unknown person,it's happenened to me twice and it's a dangerous situation to be in,so,what can i really say that don't ever blindly trust your best friend also,you never know when the friend has a change of heart and most probably you will very well be backstalked by the person and by the time you come to know of it,it will be pretty late,so count your chickens before they hatch!
5 responses
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
I too believe in this dictum, because since our best friends could be the closest person to us, that we reveal to them all our deepest secrets, we confide to them our problems and other things which our parents/ brother or sister woudnt even know, that when mis understandings come between you and your bestfriends, your best friend knows all your darkest side he/she could use against you
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
Hi Loralie,, It's hard to find a good friend, but it's even more hard to find a one true friend. We should know that we must not confide everything in someone who hasn't proven to us that he is a trustworthy person. A lot of times we get carried away with saying things that we should not but a real best friend is someone we can count on. You'll know you found him when even you have parted ways, he contineous to be a loyal friend to you keeping your deepest darkest secrets and even when you had misunderstandings, he won't backstab you. Have a nice day!
• Portugal
15 Jul 10
depends^^ i mean im always a good friend for my friends^^ i always care for them and try to know if they are fine^^ but i had a best friend before that he really hurt me much and i didnt deserve bcs i always cared and always showed him that and he started to act like ignoring me and i never deserved it. anyway i must think that he lost and not me right? :(
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
Hi Roger_banger, I have several good friends that I can consider my best friends because they kept their loyalty in our friendship as I am faithful to them. It's hard to find out one day that the person you treated as your best friend and trusted with your life's secrets turns his back on you and back stabs you. Maybe I am lucky to find real true friends whom I can be truly proud of. They are one of my treasures in life. Have a nice day!
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
It's better to be friends with an enemy. You can monitor their activities and therefore plan an attack that has a high probability of success.
@smiley83 (1535)
• Malaysia
17 Jun 10
It depends..I do have one of the girls who was my best friend that I used to tell her about mostly everything, however, she payed me with a great stab on the back!