If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, then it was meant to be..

@fheroan (619)
Philippines
June 19, 2010 8:05am CST
Do you believe in this saying?? I have experienced losing someone, a person i treasured so much because of misunderstandings.. both of us have made mistakes... so we decided to break up... and settle things first.. He said he will return if he have to, so I decided to wait... Someone just told me this quote... And in a short period of time, I learned that... I was charged by experience... So, in the later years, I hope I won't be making the same mistakes again and prove even just once that History don't repeat itself.. :D But how long does a person have to wait?? Others said, a week, 3-6 months, and a one who said a year... What do you think?? Have a nice day to all! :D Be Happy...
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11 responses
• United States
19 Jun 10
yes
• United States
19 Jun 10
Sorry forgot to right the reason!! I believe in this because I want to believe in it. It is such a nice thing and I believe it from my heart!
@fheroan (619)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
lol, its ok.. rangerkoji... I really appreciate you can believe things by your heart.. that's the thing i seldom see from other people..lol well, have a nice day!
• United States
20 Jun 10
if it is meant to be god will see that it happen's you have to be fair to your self and move on with your life i know that living in the past and trying to bring it back is not good so maybe it is time to move on.
@fheroan (619)
• Philippines
21 Jun 10
hi there craftyhomebody... You've got a point too... but i think it still depends on the person who is in that situation... well, have a nice day! And thank you for responding..
• India
20 Jun 10
yup i do believe but i didn't have the courage to stay away from her. I tried a lot but i always wanted to be with her in her hands hold her hug her and even kiss her. She was my first love and i could never forget her. But as always i am trying to move on because i have seen her move on in life. But some things are never quite easy.
@fheroan (619)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
hi there raviteja_ravi84... So, it's like we're on the same boat... He was my first love too... it's very hard to move on.. especially when you lose that person you treasured the most... I think your avatar is Prince of Persia... He likes that game very much, so i bought him a cd of that too... lol And i think your an indian because of your username.. He's an indian too.. guess Indian guys like that game very much... lol.. well, have a nice day!
• India
20 Jun 10
Hi, What you mentioned as the topic for your discussion was a sentence worth a million bucks. Sometimes, when we try to possess something, we only loose it more. With sense of possession our expectations increases, thereby increasing our ego manifold. Now all this makes us more and more vulnerable everyday. As a result we get hurt in the end. I believe, like you do too, is that the key to achieve something is the skill of letting it go. If you chase something with all your might, it will only be away farther. But if you just stop running for it, it will come back to you. Sometimes I think that we are running in circles. The more we chase the more we loose. The moment we stand stable, everything comes back to us, completing the circle. Thanks God bless you
@fheroan (619)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
Hello there getbiswa2000... I think i was like that... *sob*... I think i tried to possess him, and the more I did... the more we've been distant to each other... I expected a lot, so in the end it just hurt both of us... you're right, I'll stop chasing too... :) And let the things come back to me.. Thanks for the aspiring response... Have a nice day!
• Indonesia
20 Jun 10
sometimes God who knows best, would give troble to test us. sometimes he was hurt so that his wisdom can be embedded. if we lose love, then there must be reasons behind it. the reason is sometimes difficult to understand, but we still have to believe that when he took something, he was ready to give something better. most beautiful things in life require a long time, and Our anticipation was not in vain. while waiting requires a lot of things - faith, courage, and hope the wait promises one thing that no one can imagine. at last. God in all his wisdom, asking as to wait. for some reason that is important
@fheroan (619)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
hi there ardyan26b... you got a point too.. I believe in God and He has plans for each and every one of us... so, for now, I rely on Him... i also thought about that.. that this might just be a test... since i have promised things to Him, maybe this isn't the right time too... so, i give my life in His hands, and let His will be my will... Thanks for your encouraging response.. Have a nice day!
• Indonesia
20 Jun 10
Hello in my country there is a quote "soul mate won`t go anywhere" that quotes I always say to my self if I failed with my relationship. just let it go and make our mind relax first then we can find a better mate. Time will answer anything, all we have to do is do our best.good luck.
@fheroan (619)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
hi there aditiasovia... I think i heard of that quote too.... I just committed myself seriously, that's why it was hard... but at the same time im glad too... ill have to do my best... and just wait.. Have a nice day!
• New Zealand
20 Jun 10
Hold on and don't let go! I don't know whether to believe that saying or not, never experienced it. But in my opinion if you have something precious, you better hold onto it real tight.
@fheroan (619)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
hi there mzwriter1993.. I want to hold on too, but the situation calls for letting go... once you experienced this.. you will know, i guess you were born in the year 1993... you're still young too... there will be a time, when you will fall in love... and experience this things... well, Have a nice day.. and keep safe.. :D
• United States
19 Jun 10
For me, i do believe in this saying that when you love someone set it free. I used to do this when i was just a teenager, you know your puppy love,infatuation love and all those kind of emotions. If a relationship won't work i use to say well he is not meant for me but if he comes back he is for me. But you have to remember also you are not alone in this world there are lots of situations that you are not in controll of. Time and people and then you will just gonna realize that dang if i only did my choice before it will not be gonna like this. It is all about persuation and as what i say making choices. Now i am married i do not go by that saying if you love something or somebody set it free nah ah...i do not go by that. First before i got married i really thing about it a hundred time because i know tying your knot and saying a vow and entering a covenant of marriage is not a game.Especially to where i come from marriage is a life long commitment between you and your husband and GOD. For me,now i have to fight what is mine, if you love that person and you know that person loves you then figth for it no matter what. For people out there don't be naive fight for your love and start living a real life!!!At least you will not regret it at the end, you will say i did what i have to do! I did my best..For those people who are inlove stay and continue to be inlove. It is nice to be in love.GODBLESS
@fheroan (619)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
hi there dreamkeeper.. You're totally right! We need to start living a real life... i salute that... Ya, if i have to do my best, i'll do so!... but for now, i'll wait.... and let it all go to the hands of God... He's the only One whom i can rely on for now..:D Have a nice day!
• Philippines
19 Jun 10
Hello there, I believe there is a song in that saying but you know, LOve is self-less and letting him go was the right idea. for the mean time, you free to do what ever you want while you're free and waiting for him. i believe it's your decision not theirs so be happy with your life while waiting for him. or in the long run you might find some one else, better. but we don't know that. but letting im go proves that you love him
@fheroan (619)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
Hello there again LetranKnight25... :D Absolutely right, I love him very much... When it's about him, I don't really care for myself or whatever happens to me... Some say, it's weird, but it is.. you know there was a saying too... when you love someone, sometimes you can do things you never expect to do.. :D But that was the right thing to do, let him go... I'll have to wait... ya, at the mean time... im just going to pursue my dreams too and work my way to the top... and let people that loved and cared for me, be proud of me.. :D especially my parents..:D Have a nice day again!
@barehugs (8986)
• Canada
19 Jun 10
Thanks so much for this little piece of wisdom! Only a Higher mind can grasp this concept! This is the perfect squelch for the jealous husband, or wife, who cannot see beyond their tiny, closed mind! If it's meant to be, it will return to you, once again!
@fheroan (619)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
Hi there barehugs.. ya, this saying is a piece of wisdom... i believe the person who made it have gone through a lot of problems... most are losing something in life.. Have a nice day!
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
19 Jun 10
This cab be a hard concept to accept and live by. If you really think about it, it is true. Letting go of something gives the chance for it to return to you. It may not be what we want to do. Sometimes it is what we have to do. If it is really ours to have, we will get it back someday.
@fheroan (619)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
hello there my friend sender621... :D Ya, at the first time someone told me that, myself can't accept it, but at time goes on... im trying to settle my mind and emotions... i think this might be true, coz i experienced it too not only with persons but also things... even friends... i thought they have forgotten me, but after months.. or even years, they still do remember me... Have a nice day!