What are they thinking??

@kun2349 (23475)
Singapore
June 21, 2010 11:23pm CST
Everytime u send your bf/gf home or, husband/wife, to work, the moment they turn their back towards u, have u ever wondered what's going thru their mind?? WHat are they thinking about?? What does their back view tell u about their thoughts?? WIll their back view be telling u the same thing as if we are looking them straight in the face?? I've always been wondering about this, especially when i see ple saying goodbye to each other, and watch them in person, disappearing into the darkness as they walked along.. What's going thru their mind??
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@ckyera (17261)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
wow! miracle do happens! lol! its surprising to see you start a new discussion... anyway, what makes you think about it? huh! actually as for me i don't really think about it coz i always believe on what he's saying and showing me. and besides i know that he's someone whom i can trust and not a pretender. whatever runs in his mind when he leaves or when i leave i don't really know for that's his mind. hehe but i hope that its not something different from what he's saying or showing in front of me.
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@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
23 Jun 10
lol =D Well, i'm a miracle on my own!! hehe Well, that's what came to my mind, whenever i see ple saying goodbye, turning their back and walk away.. Sometimes, a back view of them, tells alot more about their thoughts as compared to seeing them straight in the eye.. hehe DOnt u ever stand, and look at his back, till he walk right out of your sight?? IF ever u did that, maybe u will think differently?? U will be thinking more about him, rather than yourself?? hehe
@ckyera (17261)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
i think i use to do that before, hehe specially when we are just bf/gf. whenever he visited me in our house and when he's going home, i look at him while he's walking away thinking what this man do to me that i fall in love with him? haha and i am happy seeing him walking away but still looking back at me once in a while and when he finally reaches the farthest part of the street from where i am, he still sway with a smile. hehe and not only that, coz whenever i return back to my room, i just get my diary and write in there things about him still! haha and i know that he's also thinking about me coz he will still be calling me upon reaching his house. right now, i don't usually do it but i take a look at him whenever he's already sleeping. while watching him asleep, sometimes it just bring my memory back to yesterday and yeah, whenever i am looking at him, i think more about him than myself.yay! haha
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@annavi23 (6302)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
holding hands with love  - how it feels good to have someone to hold for the rest of your life :)
your post makes me smile,cK!:) you are suach a sweet couple,i may say!(where's the daydreaming icon here?) yah,when i also had a boyfriend i think that way,like you said (why did i fall in love with him,when in fact he didn't have good looks) but i'm not like you who usually stays for a while in the spot he left you. usually i go inside the house and not seeing the sight of him. well,i guess he's not also having those times to peek if i'm still there where he left me. well,usually we have this moment that whenever he take me home we always bid goodbye and smile for a bit when he just walks half the way the street then,that's it. but for sure,i'll text him right away when i get inside my room then i also have diary but i seldom use it for every night.yeah,he also calls when he arrives home but now we are separated and we don't have a landline now,so texting galore... how it feels good to have someone to love and hold for the rest of your life. oh,i just remember my ex,i used to look at him closely when i find him asleep when we used to sleep at our friend's house back then...
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@annavi23 (6302)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
uhhmmm... this looks familiar to me... well, i have a lover way back and he always sing this song everytime we have to bid goodbye to each other. the song is a tagalog (filipino) one. but it meant like happy days are gone,back to problems... i know he really loved me and he almost want not end the day with me.if he just have the power to stop the time so that he could stay with me,he'd do it.but we are facing reality here,so he just felt sad everytime we have to walk away with each other. and sometimes i think he's also thinking that we might met again tomorrow and he'd do anything to make me happy same as he.
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@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
24 Jun 10
THat's the whole point.. ONE can be looking happy as long as they are able to pretend and act as if nothing is happening to them.. bUt once their back is turned, reality is facing them on the other side, whereby they can only be solving on their own.. U are lucky to have such a bf ^_^
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@annavi23 (6302)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
you think so? well,we got separated very long time ago and currently living with our own lives. i believe i don't have a feeling for him anymore.but i do think he really loves me as of now,you know what last year,he even asked me if what we have planned to do this year would still work out,which is the wedding. but i told him, you wish! many years and things have changed not like we used to before. and bringing up the topic really makes me,. do you still expect that to happen for just one year? i just laughed about it,well i guess i was so bad at him.maybe i just don't ike him anymore,and i don't want to give false hopes for him again. he's just so good to be true...there are lots of girls out there that is better than me for him.and i also hope the right guy for me would come...
@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
25 Jun 10
When one truly loves u, they will wanna make u happy all day long, and take away all your worries, letting themselves carrying whatever burdens or worries that u have ^_^ BEsides, love is about being happy, and it's pointless for both of u to be happing over unhappy things while being together right?? hehe I think he does still love u now, but due to a mistake in the past, he has regretted it.. hehe ^_^ SOmetimes, being too good can be a bad thing too, for it can cause some kind of unbalance in the relationship, and be attracting the wrong kind of attention.. haha
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• Philippines
24 Jun 10
Oh my, what a wonderful question you have? It keep me pondering many times.. Well, such a heavy discussion with the poster so veteran with the topic you have..lol.. I am not really excited when I do that sending them back and most of the times I just excited seeing them returning to me..lol.. You think the same things, Isn't it? When I see their back I am thinking about the shape of their body and their figures if they have loosen their fats or slim down a bit..hahahaha.. Well, seriously thinking when I see that kind of scenery I just wish them to have a safe travel and also safe when they return back from their travel, work or from schools.. Of course the way they talk to us in front are done most of the times and it something rude to talk to the person while your at the back so the sincerity of the every words they spoken is highly limited.. Somehow telling honesty and telling lies are interrelated. Others have both ways to explain their side and make it appear to the other person they were the same as the first time you meet them till the time both part ways. About me once the person bid goodbye to me then it is the end of no return and do not like to make long thinking making me worry a lot when the other person never think the same way as I did to him/her... They are saying you could not really know the real person is unless you happen to spend long time with him/her and it happen for a short time then the closeness and comfort you show is only superficial. It takes time to know deeply, patience before each could really exclaim they are so close like a soul mates.. I really so slow replying to discussion using wifi have disconnection issues most of the times.. It quite rare for a while you make a discussion like and so surprising you did at last.lol..ok
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@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
25 Jun 10
haha =D OF course it's exciting and happy to see them returning to us, after all, a certain bond is formed for the whole day, and when they are our loved ones, of course we wont want them to leave.. haha =D WEll, sometimes it's much easier to lie when they are facing each other.. For once our back is turned while talking, one would have already exposed their guilt.. haha =D BUt when one is telling the truth, talking with a back view will be the most honest of all, for there's certain feel we get from it, and somehow, we feel for them.. hehe BUt no matter how close 2 ple are, they wont be able to know, or fully understand the other party, because there will always be some secrets or privacy in them, not known to us lol =D It's ok.. Well, these thoughts just came to my mind.. hehe
• Philippines
26 Jun 10
Yeah, that the best things in life having somebody to return and wait for you whenever you need. And to those who have never undergo any relationship when it comes to their personal life..They could divert their mind to enjoy bonding with their family/friends or join any community reach services to explore, learn or be expose with charming and intellectual people whom one could share each ideas or relate somehow with their favorites hobbies.. Of course lying could easily be manipulated by using sweet words and one could still come out with more convincing words but one need to look at the eyes of the person every time you talk with them since by looking in the eyes one could determine one sincerity or stupidity.. do you believe so? Somehow if you feel not in the mood to have a conversation then it is better to tell the truth than making an assumption then letting the other person guessing all the time. could be a little bit intimidating or else lead to boredom.. So I think the best way is to be honest wherever what comes out in one mouth is the truth or word that is full of disappointment at least it is better that way than making a false promises letting the other person wait when their is nothing to wait for. of course even best of friends tend to reserve some secrets trying not to reveal about themselves at all since their maybe a snakes covering up making them appear like an angel when their are really have bad intention too like a sort of jealousy when she/he know the other friend advanced or progress some have a plan to let them down. so it is best to reserve some things as sort of defenses since revealing is a disadvantageous things to do when your hidden enemy know some secrets it would only gives them power to expose you..lol..
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@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
28 Jun 10
YEah, right!! Eyes can indeed betray one's words.. BUt when one is already so used to lying, looking them in the eye wont make much difference.. Sometimes, it's their actions that give them away.. hehe BUt not all truth are well taken by others.. IF one is petty etc, they will think that we dun like to talk to them, for we think they are boring, when that's not the case at all.. haha =D Dun u know, promise is a kind of delay to things that can be done straight away?? haha =D hahaha =D Secrets are meant to be exposed, just that, we have to know, or find an alternative to keep it a secret when being exposed.. haha
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@meaqan (69)
• United States
23 Jun 10
I wonder what goes through peoples mind all the time. Me & my friend were talking about this yesterday but it was more about super powers we'd want! I chose mind reading and she didn't know what she wanted lol.. anyway, its weird how we can talk in our own mind
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@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
23 Jun 10
lol =D HOw i wish i can have that superpower of knowing what ple thinking in their mind!! Because i wanna know, what do woman wants from a man!! lol =D
@meaqan (69)
• United States
23 Jun 10
Lol well it all depends on the woman. Some want the nice sweet sensitive guy, others want the tough guy but either way half of the time what they think they want is the opposite if what they really want. Why else would so many men & women cheat? lol :)
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@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
24 Jun 10
lol =D SO right!! BUt at least, when we really have the power to know what's in their mind, the likely of cheating will be lessen.. hehe
@dawnald (84147)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Nov 10
I don't wonder about that. Am I the odd one?
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@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
3 Nov 10
haha =D U are not odd, maybe u just have more things going thru your mind than to think about what's going through their mind.. lol =D
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@thaMARKER (3094)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
i always ask myself about it every after i met or got out with this guy. he laughs at what i say (joke or not.. to me..) sometimes but i don't know if he really mean it just did so it'll make me smile or okay.. i don't know if the person was and is happy that he spent his time with. i wanna know if he talks about us to his friends after. but on teh other hand, not really.. hehehe.. positive answer or not, i don't mind. i'm me so a negative/positive answer won't change..
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@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
7 Sep 10
IT can be kinda easy, as well as difficult to tell what a person is like, from the things they say about themselves or friends around them. Alot depends on intuition at times too.. hehe
@jesgil (95)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
maybe they are thinking about where you are going then what you would do after, i know this because that is what i am thinking about my other co-nurses after we part ways. do you believe in this "it takes one to know one"?
@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
23 Jun 10
YEah, i do believe in that, 'it takes one to know one'.. haha =D SOmetimes, it's just so strange that all the weird thoughts coming to our mind, even though there's nothing to trigger it.. IT's not being overly suspicious or insecurity, but rather, the kind of feeling their back view brings to us.. haha =D It's just like a back view paints a thousand words, telling us things, whereby they cant be saying to us, straight.. haha =D
@utakgaga (17)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
Me, too. But oftentimes, I do the opposite. Whenever I walk away from people I've been with for a couple of hours, It keeps me bothered about what they're going to be talking about afterwards. Sometimes, I really wanted to ask people if they do that.
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@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
23 Jun 10
lol =D Dun worry about ple talking bad about u.. IF they have something to talk about u, it means u have left some impressions on them, so see it as a good thing ^_^ Be confident of yourself, and yet dun be self-centred, therefore u will find yourself well-like by others around u ^_^
• Philippines
22 Jun 10
Nice post =) When someone is sent to work, I do think their mind definitely shifts right away to the job itself lol Maybe a second or two on thinking about you and the beautiful thoughts and deeds you had before the time being but then he/she wouldn't want to linger on those thoughts since they will just be starting the day at work. On the other hand, when someone is sent home, they savor the memory of the activites you did that day. Just when they turn back, I can only I imagine the smile they're making. If you are looking at them straight in the face, they wouldn't want to make the bliss they're feeling be so obvious to you. I cannot speak for everyone but that's just my two cents. Happy MyLotting=)
@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
23 Jun 10
lol =D That's a good one, as well as carrying some humour in it! haha Well, humans are great pretenders after all right?? BUt no matter what, it always feel great to know that the other party is happy, or appreciate for what we have done, even though they din show it to us, or say it straight.. haha =D
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@joyce318 (139)
• China
22 Jun 10
I never think about the scene, because I have no bf. Now image it, maybe I will think about the dinner or what can we do after dinner.
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@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
23 Jun 10
Ah okay.. After all, thinking back about those happy moments which just took place, can be kinda sweet too.. hehe
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• Philippines
22 Jun 10
Typo errors again but that won't worry me that much teehee In addition to my post above, after being sent home, not only can they THINK about you and your deeds, they can even invite you over so good luck =P
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