What will U do when U love a person who has got married?

June 24, 2010 3:34am CST
Will you say your love to him&her when he & she has married or keep it as a secret and never let them know? for me I m afraid i don't have the courage to say~and u? how to do? Ths a lot to the very first respons and have a good day~
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7 responses
@med889 (5958)
24 Jun 10
Love is love after all and we can feel love for anyone and everyone too so if ever someone is in love with a married man then it is better to accept it however to do not tell him too, this is wrong as it can create a confusion for him and for oneself too. Okay you can say it but just assume all the responsibility afterwards.
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
No..because when you really love someone, you will never ruin his/her marriage. yes, it would definitely hurt you knowing the fact that the person you love the most is married but you have accept it.it's the reality, you will only fool yourself and the rest of the people around you if you continue to do it.another thing is that, you would lie to everyone specially to his/her spouse.if you really love someone, set him/her free.the only thing you can do is to pray their happiness and for you to find the right person that is meant for you.
25 Jun 10
Oh gosh! all responses are negative, ok~ maybe U r right~~and I will have a clear head not to think too much about this trouble on me~ ths, nice day~
• Portugal
13 Jul 10
jessica if you love that guy and he married you can tell your feelings for him anyway. you are not making him go to you just you are telling him how you feel. if he decided to leave that girl was his decision but if he loves you also and just married that girl bcs didnt know how you fell for him?at least if you tell him you wont regret nothing^^ also maybe he can leave his marriage for you ^^ who knows maybe he loves you too^^ dont say nothing else just say that you love him and see what he says^^
• Portugal
13 Jul 10
just say that you needed to tell him how you felt that you dont want to interfer in nothing but that you needed to tell him how you feel^^ dont worry you are not doing nothing wrong. you are not seducing him you are just telling him your feelings^^ so is nothing wrong^^
@annavi23 (6302)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
i will not tell him that i have loved him,and try to avoid my feelings for him cause he's already committed and it is such a great sin for me to have relationship with him.if possible,i would stay away from him and focus my mind on other things. there are lots of guys who are single there and it is not my attitude to ruin marriage lives. i even had experienced being linked to a guy who is husband of my friend. well,he liked me but since he was husband of my friend,i don't think that would be nice if i entertain him.and they had kids. luckily,even if i find him sweet and gentleman,i didn't get tempted to love him.
@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
24 Jun 10
That's true Annavi23. Never breaks up anything that was bonded by holy liaison.
@annavi23 (6302)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
yes,it not good to ruin a friendship same as marriage bondage right? there are lots of guys out there that you can have commitment with,don't let your heart be with those who are already married. i have been linked always to husbands of my friends or unknown people but i never liked the idea of breaking bondage.at least i know,i have limitations and i know the feeling of being betrayed by the husband.it doesn't feel right,
@shibham (17025)
• India
26 Jun 10
hi jessica. i have plan. when i shall get married a girl then i ask her to tell all about her past history on the very first night of marriage. i also say that if i find something later that u have not said this night, then i dont know how i shall treat you. so tell me the truth and i also expose all everything about my past. thanks.
27 Jun 10
we don't live in the past ,and I do think it is no necessary to tell what happened before, let all bygone be bygone,tomorrow is beautiful and for the future its all new and fresh~so live your future better~
• Portugal
13 Jul 10
i would say my love if i knew the guy i love will marry and i will lose him forever i would run to him and say that i loved him and if he loved me too. bcs if he loved me too he could give up of that. but say to him after he is married what could we do? unless he divorced right away if loved me too ahah would be funny though ^^ anyway i think i would say it anyway bcs i would like him to know that i loved him so if he loved me too we could be happy. if he loved that person i wouldnt bother them at all but i would still say to him what i feel^^
@vedanta (304)
• India
24 Jun 10
i will not love to any married person. my imonations are on my control .
@knicnax (2234)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
I most definitely will not tell him. Marriage is something sacred and no one should ever break it. I'm not saying that you want to take the man away from his wife, but what good will confessing your love for him do? confessing love means you are wishing that he'll love you back, or at least appreciate you more, which is morally wrong.