how to tell it to your boyfriend/girlfriend?

Indonesia
June 25, 2010 5:11am CST
Do you ever feel bored with ur couple (boyfriend/girlfriend? I think we all ever feel bored with our couple (correct me if im wrong). So, when u feel bored, how do u express your feeling to him/her? Do u tell it directly or do u have another way to tell about it without hurt their feeling? Coz honestly, if my boyfriend tell me that he feels bored with me, it will really hurt me so much. Any opinion about this?
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• India
25 Jun 10
Well i dont think you can really get bored from someone if you are in true love with him. But if you are just going around with the person and there are not much such feelings involved, its obvious to get bored of one another. So according to me at such a kinda situation, we should sit together with our partner and politely discuss this matter in such a way that does not hurt him.
• United Arab Emirates
25 Jun 10
Yes, you do feel bored. The reason is that you are not taking interest in his or her interests. Eg: I hate shopping but my wife loves it. I know what will make her happy and i go for shopping with her and love to see the smile on her face. I love sports, but she does not, still she allows me to watch sporst and likes to seeme happy. Its a win win situation here. The way we unlike their likings we will start moving away from them. But the best thing you can do is, tell them straight in the face rather that playing around. This will hurt but you have feeling that you id not cheat on him / her. But before you say anything, you need to think a hundred times of the consequeces. Coz the word once said cannot be taken back.
• Portugal
8 Jul 10
just try to talk about something else or go somewhere with him^^ you dont need tell him that that moment was boring for sure he maybe feels the same right? try to go to a place you guys never visited before, share different things that way for sure you wont be bored^^ and noone will be hurt^^ if you go to a different place or do a new thing for sure you have a lot to talk about and a lot to enjoy^^
@p3ks626 (6550)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
Of course that's hurtful. But I think I will not do anything like that if its going to hurt his feelings. I am married now and I had boyfriends before. There were times that I got bored with them too but I never told them, I just show it in my actions that I am no longer interested and they break up with me. hahahaha
@p3ks626 (6550)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
Of course that's hurtful. But I think I will not do anything like that if its going to hurt his feelings. I am married now and I had boyfriends before. There were times that I got bored with them too but I never told them, I just show it in my actions that I am no longer interested and they break up with me. hahahaha
@rhinarea (311)
25 Jun 10
i have been in a relationship for 7 years with my boyfriend and i never get bored when i'm with him. I feel very comfortable when he is around.
@Bogdan22 (400)
• Romania
25 Jun 10
Well the best way to tell it is to say it straight in her/his face. Any try to sweet this discussion may lead into something else. Communication is everything in a relationship.