Is it okay?

@donsky14 (5963)
Philippines
June 26, 2010 9:30pm CST
I was checking on my husband's Facebook account and saw that he posted something on his ex's bestfriend's wall. He kinda just said hi. I haven't talked to him about it up to now...but do you guys think that its okay that his trying to reconnect with his ex's bestfriend? I know that they've been schoolmates before but I'm pretty sure that their not close.
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10 responses
• United States
29 Jun 10
Some times best friends fight and it can take a while to reconnect. Saying Hi can be a starting point. Maybe he wants to be friends again. Don't worry over it though. Let him feel his way around.
@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
29 Jun 10
Its not his bestfriend...its his ex girlfriend's bestfriend.
@meemingNEW (2228)
• Philippines
27 Jun 10
Just be happy for your husband for finally having the time or courage to contact his ex-bestfriend and trying to reconnect with him again. In my opinion, when you have an "EX-bestfriend", it kinda really means that you lost connection or argued about something and that ended the closeness that you had together with that person. I'm just wondering how come your sure that they aren't close when it fact, you call the person your husband's "EX-bestfriend"? I have lost some close friendships I had because we didn't agree upon something. Though I have tried posting at their facebook pages just to catch up about something or even say hi.. I'm just glad that your husband did what he did. It sorta makes you feel a breath of fresh air. So, its totally fine. Just support your husband and listen to him when he opens up about it. Just wait for him to tell you if its something sensitive for him, if not.. then go ahead and ask. =) Best of luck
@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
27 Jun 10
hi meemingnew...I didn't mean his ex-bestfriend...I meant his Ex's bestfriend. His ex girlfriend's bestfriend.
@cream97 (29169)
• United States
24 Apr 11
Hi. donsky14. I would think that it is fine. I mean it is his ex's best friend that he was saying hi to. I hope that this will not go any further as a way of him trying to get close to his ex though. Sometimes men can do some strange things you know. There is this guy that I used to date in the past. And he has liked a comment that my sister has said. I know that he just did this because he wanted me to see and notice that he was there on her page. But I am not worrying about it though. I don't know what he is trying to prove but I am not falling for it.
@krisha13 (13)
23 Feb 11
i think that there is nothing bad with what your husband did. it is his way to reconnect with his old friends. you have nothing to worry about it. if you can't stop thinking about it, then tell it to your husband. so will you know the reason why he did it. remember that communication makes a relationship stronger.
15 Feb 11
i kno how i feel. im a quite jelous person and its hard to stop imagining things. but if he aint done anything before its unlickly he will do anything now
• Philippines
15 Feb 11
it may be a simple hi but know women we simply need to get to the bottom of things. why dont you discreetly ask him about it. hehehe...
@sid556 (31006)
• United States
1 Jul 10
I don't think I'd even mention it to him, Donsky. If he had something to hide, I would hope he'd be smarter than to post it on facebook of all place where you or some one of your friends would be sure to see it. I've searched for people that I knew in highschool but lost touch with just out of curiosity and nothing more. I don't think you should worry about it based on what you've told us here.
• Philippines
27 Jun 10
it is just a simple "Hi' from you husband and surely that meant nothing for him. If you need an explanation of why he made that thing, then you must communicate and talked to him why are you getting upset from that. You should also be entitled for an explanation from him.
@JenInTN (27565)
• United States
27 Jun 10
I think it's ok. I have recently got a facebook account and I have searched people just out of curiousity. It's natural to wonder about people you used to know. I don't know if I would be ok with exgirlfriends but bestfriends..well..I would be ok with that.
• United States
27 Jun 10
Don't over think it. If its just a hi its nothing, trust him. It's not even his ex. It's his ex's bestfriend. Don't be insecure.