The Bachelor / The Bachelorette ..would you like to be

United States
July 2, 2010 4:04am CST
When I happened upon the bachelorette it made me wonder how would anyone be able to get close to someone who is at the same time seeing and kissing so many people? ???? I mean TV is showing us that it's ok to be kissing how many different people at once to find you forever mate??? What do you think of the reality shows like bachelor and bachelorette.. The men take turns with dates with the bachelorette and many of them still kisses with her. .. How can there be any depth at the end of it all? IT's crazy in my eyes.. In the real dating scene..what date will want to be sharing the person they are dating with so many other people...ewwwwwwwww..
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26 Oct 10
I would never go on a show like that, I've seen some of the episodes on television and although it's pretty common. It's a little strange to say the least, I couldn't ever take it seriously and I really wonder if it's really effect in helping people find someone. Just seems for entertainment purposes only and not for help as such. Blind date and shows like that are quite interesting to watch, if you've ever seen the UK show.
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• United States
26 Oct 10
Can you imagine it..quite unsanitary to say the least.. Going from one date to the other.. in same day. You have to trust that someone you were snuggling up to is not carrying something ..God forbig you catch it and pass it on to the next date.. I wonder what tv tells us today.. Surely it's not good news.
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26 Oct 10
I'm cringing just from the thought of it. It's like the worst type of speed dating and I feel shows like that lower standards, as it makes it seem fine to do. (I'm probably old fashioned in saying this) I think TV plays a major role in how we change and what we learn to accept.. :) Thanks for the best response.
• United States
24 Sep 10
I think you are right. But I enjoy the show a lot, it gives me something to look forward to watch and it is interesting to see what develops during each show and trying to guess who has the greater connection and who will be picked in the end!
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• United States
26 Oct 10
i think it's always shocking to see the masks people wear..
• United States
5 Aug 10
What's sad is that almost all of the relationships, except for one, have actually worked out after it was over. You couldn't get me on one of these shows if you gave me a million dollars. I think it's just messed up how people can expect the couple to be faithful after you dated 25 guys/girls to find that "special someone".
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• United States
26 Oct 10
That is right and I think cameras don't make for good relationships
@laydee (12815)
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
I think it's just really a pure waste of time. I think 100% that those couples would not end up together. Just like any game - somebody wins, but after all the adrenaline rush of wanting to 'win', you'll end up sacrificing yourself to the point of lying to yourself. Which, I think, is the worst way to start a relationship.
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• United States
12 Jul 10
With so many men hanging around and the switching between so many ..How well does she know any of them.. She is due a heartbreak again.. The people I thought were good are dropping out I would never like something like that.
@syankee525 (6298)
• United States
2 Jul 10
i think these about the dumbest shows. to me they make themself look like fools. the guys and women.
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• United States
12 Jul 10
I agree with you; what I can't understand is how the lady can go from hugging and kissing one man and saying how much she likes one then go to the next and say the same.