Please me that I have a crazy thought

United States
July 3, 2010 6:38pm CST
HI, I have been here for such a long time cuz of busy working... so how is everyone doing here? well, I have some thought in mind and want to share with you all here. I want to hear some thought about it. well, how do u feel when u see ur bf or ur husband took a picture his niece in appropriate way, such as she was hugging him so close and his hand on her butt, and his and her hip were connected(front part) well... to me YES... He never take picture with me this way before or if so, he never let me hug him or show something sweet than holding hand... he just afraid that I might steal his style or something... but today I saw on his facebook page... omg, It just shocked... what do u think?
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@Memnon (2173)
4 Jul 10
Let's just hope that this is just some Facebook stunt. Quite a few people that I know come over all touchy-feely when it comes to these type of photos. You could always see whether he would get someone take a picture of the two of you in a similar pose? As I can't see the picture I don't know how 'close' they really are. I would have thought that it should be the two of you on his page.
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• United States
4 Jul 10
I know... just something bother me about this photo... if I show u the picture here then u would say, are they bf and gf? lolz... and .....
@Memnon (2173)
4 Jul 10
Having read your other comments I can see why you are unhappy about it. I understand why it upsets you. If I had a niece with a similar age gap, and for some reason wanted our picture on my page, I would have asked my partner first: and that it did not come across in that manner.
• Philippines
4 Jul 10
Well, how old is your niece? if she is just a child don't put malice on it. Maybe you perceive it differently, sometimes we thought that it is but it isn't the real story. But if your niece is an adult then you need to investigate it, maybe there is something going on.
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• United States
4 Jul 10
HI, well... she acts too close to my husband sometimes... she is 25 and he is 32. oh!!! I just feel bad when I see this picture. well, I know there is nothing going on between them but seem like I am his wife but he never take close picture like they did
@paula27661 (15899)
• Australia
4 Jul 10
No that is not acceptable! I read in your comments that his niece is 25...If the picture is inappropriate you should demand not only an explanation, if he has one, but that he remove the photo from his Facebook page. I would look into this further because that is a very disrespectful way to behave towards you and towards his niece. He needs to reset his priorities and put you first especially seeing that he has never acted that way towards you. I would feel very hurt and angry and I would let him know so!
• United States
4 Jul 10
I know... even in his facebook, he doesn't have any couple picture with me... only the kids... well, I might not look good in the picture with him but I am a good person and everyone in real life know that... however, I feelt so sad and bad... he acts nothing happened... I hate that so much
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@paula27661 (15899)
• Australia
5 Jul 10
That is awful smileonstar! I could you say that you don't look good! You look really nice and your husband is behaving like an immature a**e if he makes you feel less than the great person you are! I would suggest telling him that the way he treats you is not acceptable and that he needs to make some positive changes or he may come home one day and find that you have gone! Don't allow him to take your self confidence away!
@savypat (20246)
• United States
4 Jul 10
I'd be shocked also. Do you think they staged this just for the shock value. One can only hope so. If tht is why they did it, it worked on you. But how many will know that thisis his niece? Blessings
• United States
4 Jul 10
Hi, I totally agree... even his friends comment "look like the girl tried to turn him on and sexy" well, I just dont really understand why he did that either... when I asked him, he said "I am not f**king my own niece." how dare he said that? so, this what they did just a picture... what else that I didn't know how far they go? I dont know... I was mad for 2 days ... but today I dont feel him in me... I think I have to think about my children more... if he does have feeling on her or watever... He is SICK
• United States
4 Jul 10
first off, if he is your husband you MUST be comfortable enough to confront him about this. 32 and 25 are close and that is no acceptable for him to be taking pictures that make you uncomfortable. Let him no how you feel, if he doesn't find fault with him, TELL HIM YOU DO! step 2: make him remove it. Step 3: punish him for his actions, whatever you feel is fit.
• United States
4 Jul 10
well, he went on vacation that is far away from me like half of the earth... cambodia and America... and first thing I know the picture... he didn't even tell me about it. everyone said WOW, how? I have no comment about it. I want to talk to him but he seem too busy for me now... so I let him does what he has to do now. thx for the comment
@cream97 (29166)
• United States
9 Sep 10
Hi, smileonstar. My guess is that your boyfriend is lying about him being on a picture with his niece. It could be his girlfriend or someone else. I remember my ex boyfriend had took a picture of him and this girl together. The picture looked just like the picture that we had took together at the fair. She was sitting between his lap. I thought that this was very inappropriate for a guy and his sister to sit like this. Later on he told me the truth. He told me that this girl was actually a girl that he used to go with one time. He lied to me so good. I knew something was up with this picture! If I was you, I would ask him about this picture. It is not right that he can take a picture with his niece.. He should have been taking this picture with you.