Introduce myself to Girl

India
July 5, 2010 6:31am CST
Hi lost week i met a girl at my friend's wedding. She is so cute and i knew where she is living. At the wedding i did't get a chance to introduce myself. but i want too now..How to introduce myself to her...i have her cellphone no..
6 responses
• United States
5 Jul 10
I am a little confused here. If you didn't meet her and introduce yourself, then how did you manage to get her phone number? Do you mean that you met her and she gave you her phone number, but you didn't really get to talk that much or get the opportunity to ask her out on a date? If not, then did you get her phone number from a mutual friend, perhaps the couple that was getting married? How you got her phone number would have a large impact on how you should proceed, in my opinion.
• India
5 Jul 10
No no i got her phone no from her friend. not directly.
• United States
5 Jul 10
If you got her phone number from her friend and not her directly, then I would definitely be cautious about how you proceed. I checked your profile, and you are from India. I have no idea how things work over there, so I don't know whether or not this type of thing is done often. Over here in the US, though, if a guy gets my phone number and calls me out of the blue without me first meeting him and giving him my number, then I would be very suspicious and not very happy. Maybe that is my personality, but I definitely would not want my friend giving out that information to some stranger, especially since it should be my decision whether or not to give it out. If it is a normal practice in your country, however, then I guess it is fine. If it is not, on the other hand, then I would talk with her friend and ask the friend to find out whether or not it would be alright for you to call the girl. If this is not possible, then maybe you could contact your friends that got married and have them find out for you. Otherwise, you can try to call her, but she might not be very happy or receptive to the idea, since she is not the one that gave you her phone number. On the other hand, she might be happily surprised that you are interested and be very receptive to the idea. I know that I am probably not very much help, but I see all these other people encouraging you to call her, and it might be the right thing to do. I do want you to be aware that it could have negative consequences, though, and you should be prepared that it might not turn out as well as you hope. That is why I think that you should first try to find out from someone that knows her better whether or not it would be a good idea to call her. If not, then perhaps they could arrange a "chance" meeting between the two of you, which would give you the opportunity to introduce yourself, and it would give her the opportunity to give you her phone number herself.
@kodukodu84 (1576)
• Malaysia
5 Jul 10
Hmm...you have her cellphone number. Maybe start messaging her by saying, "Hi, hope you are doing fine. We met at my friend's wedding, and I have your phone number so I thought maybe it's nice to catch up". Just a suggestion, good luck though and have a nice day
• India
5 Jul 10
Thanks. I knew this is good point.I hope here i can get more and more awesome ideas. its cool ..to make a call.
5 Jul 10
yes... good idea
• Portugal
5 Jul 10
i think if you have her number you can send her an sms saying hi ^^ how are you? im jothimani. i saw you at the wedding and thought you seem a sweet person. can we be friends? if you talk sweet with her i dont see any reason for her to dont accept being your friend^^ just be sweet to her thats all^^ is very easy to approach a girl^^
5 Jul 10
call her. say you want to know him more deeply.
@hanagi (391)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
Give her a message telling you saw her at the wedding and ask her how she met your fried or how they knew each other. Or just even say hi!
• China
5 Jul 10
I suggest that you can call her , and ask her if she have a book or something which you want to borrow from her . If she say "yes ,I have " ,then you can persuade her go out for borrowing you a book or something . Next , of course , you make it .and have a appointment with her . goo luck to you .