James Yap Fails to save marriage, Divorce on the way :-(

Philippines
July 9, 2010 11:07am CST
Hello Lotters, It was noted before that james vowed to save their Marriage but it seems things really won't work out this time. Kris Lawyers stated that divorce papers are on the way, yup kris has decided, she has made the decision and will go for the divorce. I don't know what he did to at least try to save it since Kris has matured and can make decisions with No come back, i guess that's it. i don't feel sorry for Kris, she has friends, families, and fame, even if she can have many kids from different fathers, she can still move on. for James, this is just another torn he needs to live with....i feel james is a good man, but let's face it they're not compatible.
11 responses
@jlamela (4909)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
Divorce?not annulment?anyway, if that is what Kris really wanted to do right now so be it, maybe Kris really wanted to get out because the marriage given her so much misery. It is also very agonizing on the part of Kris is she will continue to pretend that everything is okay when it is not. I don't think it is right to remain in the union just because of kids, it is going to be miserable and kids will be affected anyway if the couple will continue fighting each other. Kris should go with her happiness, anyway we live only once so we have to find things and do things which can make us happy. But next time, Kris should be cautious in entering into relationships so that she will not be stumbled again.
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
yes, jlamela, it's divorce. it was i believed explain by her attorneys she even televised it but i wasn't able to watch
@ip5217 (1656)
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
I pity Kris because she always fails when it comes to her relationships. I guess this is the best time for her to evaluate her total being, see the common denominator of those failed relationships. I hope someday she finds a man that will understand and love her. We all know that she's one of a kind.
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• Philippines
11 Jul 10
i don't think she's in anyway different from any other women out there. yeah, she made a mature decision to let go but she's not getting any younger. i think she can move on, and hopes she'd rather live a single life if she can't keep this one.
@sweetbit (75)
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
At some point I never really liked Kris to begin with. First of all, her tactless attitude on and off cam. It's noticeable in previous shows she was in how she, i don't know if was on purpose or she really is just like that, that she would drop remarks so off key, that you'd catch a few in the audience or at most her co host smirk at the most often insulting remarks. Clueless of her actions, consequences occur because of that. Just take for example between her and Ruffa G. Though both parties tried to shy away from a controversy that Kris was the main reason why she left a particular talk show, this just shows how Kris is around people. Oh well, too far from the topic? Yeah, but this brings me back to my opinion on James and Kris. I really wondered, what made James fall for Kris in the first place. Every public personality exudes a facade. I just am guessing that what they show might also be how they are in their personal lives. I am no psychologist but I do think that is a fair reason to claim. Anyway, we only have opinions for what these public personalities show on televisions and in interviews. That is as far I think I could give an opinion on James and Kris. Whatever might or might not have been done to save a marriage, is off limits already to the audiences or public. To do so would be becoming judgmental and totally irresponsible of saying things about a matter one knows little of.
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
hello sweetbit, well, james is a private but nice person. probably Kris is too much for him and that explains why. probably she was too occupied now with public service and quiet life because a lot of people criticize her for acting like the first lady, advising noynoy to at least chose her friends in his cabinet.
@rsa101 (13337)
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
Yes I guess he has failed to restore back his family and would end up being divorced with. I just do not know if the divorce thing would be valid since we do not have divorce here in the Philippines. I just forgot if they got married abroad since if it is then they could really file a divorce anytime I guess and their marriage will be voided in here. I do not know with Kris but I guess she does not really want a long term relationships with men. If we would look at her past he had two old and matured men around her and after sometime she dumped them both for some reasons. I thought she already got contented with James being young but it seems Kris found some reasons for her to quit the relationship just like that. In the past two relationship I think she was looking for a father figure from them that is why she got involve with mature men. If we try look at her past life, she practically grew up with no father figure since her father at that time was imprisoned and when they got exiled it was very short time they got together and spent some time with each other. When she got involved with James I think her family chose this guy since they found him to be eligible already to be with her and the family ended like they were forcing the two to be married since this is the practical thing to do to make the family looked good since she was the only daughter that has had many controversial relationships. But then and again she made this another failed relationship one more time despite her family trying to patch things up.
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
hello rsa, well, not the first time she losses something like this. although, it's probably the second marriage after Philip salvador? (i think) but the relationship i thought would have been a lot more promising. am sure they will find their way with other people. i don't want this happening in my life.
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@mspitot (3834)
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
I don't know why but I felt sad about it. I think that Kris will move on fast cause I can see her being busy helping her brother and going to different provinces to do charity works...Is it true that James has a women pregnant? I just heard it about a week ago in the radio...
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
She's use to it. well, they need to dig it if it's true. otherwise, it's going to be another EX hubby scenario for james.
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
Did really James Yap done anything to save the marriage, he just read a statement that he will fight for his family but nothing happened after that. James Yap already establish a name being a basketball player even before she met Kris, for sure he will still reign in basketball without Kris, I don't feel sorry for him. Anything that happened to their relationship maybe is quiet personal and I don't care much of it. I hope the children do not suffer a lot and James will be given a visitation rights to visit his son and also Joshua. And to Kris, I don't care a lot about her.
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
Hello Grecychunny, Well, he tried at least or otherwise we wouldn't be hearing the comment from Kris attorneys filing a divorce case against james yap. well, the children will understand and get along with it some day, am sure what's important is the kids living their lives even though their mom is single now. i wonder, if kris will find some one else even though he had two kids already
@grayxenon (1307)
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
is divorce allowed here? or they were not married here? anyways, another failed relationship for kris, I think she has no luck at all in relationships. I not suggesting that she should stop seeking one though.
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
hello xenon, I don't think it's allowed yet it's because Annulment is the only legal choice. i think she's too much in every relationship, probably gets upset when ever she doesn't get what she wants and can be bratty at a times.
@maean_19 (4662)
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
You are definitely right. Whatever we say about their relationship, in the end, it is still their decision. There is always two sides of a coin. Whoever is at fault, it is not our business to meddle on. They are not really compatible like other celebrity relationships have, to add their age difference and personalities. Lately, I heard news about the possible cause of the break up. But nothing has been confirmed. It is in fact a controversy that people always want to find out and being intrigued about.
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
the media has always been part of the pressure in their relationship. not jsut media pressure but also the political pressure, knowing Noynoy doesn't have a First Lady, they're portraying Kris Aquino since she has a good way in reaching people through charity and giving to the poor.
@jaiho2009 (39034)
• Philippines
9 Jul 10
hello Letran, Well,we never knew the real score between them. It is so sad to hear news like this. Maybe Kris also did her part to save the relationship. Let's just hope,they can still find a way. Who knows,by the time they got divorced,it will make their relationship more stronger and smoother(as friends)
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
Hello Jaiho, I don't mind them separating but they have a child now and it's more difficult for the likes of James knowing the only had basketball star buddies as his friends. all, this fight started because of a rumored that Kris was planning to sell the house for his brothers candidacy which might have upset James
• Philippines
9 Jul 10
I really hope so that she has matured because she is noted to be finicky and impulsive. She says things and does things without thinking first. I agree they are not compatible at all. I do not think they are right for each other. Kris is overpowering her man and this leaves a man with a bruised ego. He is always in the limelight while she always takes the spotlight when it comes to their marriage. I can also sense Kris is somehow too jealous about her husband that leaves him with no breathing room and she does boss over him so much. No wonder the marriage would fail. Marriage is a full time commitment and there will be mistakes along the way, the question is how far will you go to make things work instead of announcing what went wrong to everyone.
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
Hello candyfairy, not to mention sensitive to other issues. when her husband accused of flirting with some one she quickly left the place, with out even bother talking to her. i don't see that much on James Yap smiling when ever they are together, besides, she is celebrity and James is not that much of a star except in basketball.they should work it out but i doubt it will be the case.
@Shavkat (50192)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
I think both parties have the problems that made marriage didn't work out. It needs two to tango as they said.