How to change personality for good??

India
July 11, 2010 11:02am CST
I have this problem. Whenever I think that I should go ahead and talk to some person in some gathering.. I never am able to do so. I think a lot, but then take back my step and refrain from going ahead. Is this shyness??
2 responses
@allamgirl (2140)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
i am the same as you. i never knew how to start a conversation with someone that i don't know. yes, it's shyness. i've always wanted to change that about me too. but it's really hard.
• India
11 Jul 10
Are u a girl or a boy? Where I saw is, girls are more open.. but I am never approached..
@allamgirl (2140)
• Philippines
15 Jul 10
i'm a girl, joe. that's why it's allamGIRL :)
@babblbar (29)
• United States
11 Jul 10
You should go ahead and talk to every one 99% of people are nice. You must know that you like yourself you have something to offer. How would you respond if someone came up to you. Have you ever thought that maybe that person is feeling the same thing? You will never know unless you make the move.. here is the thing to do.. If you see something you like about the person just walk up and tell them everyone likes a compliment.. even strangers on the street. I have told people I dont know.. "I like your shirt." "I really like your hairstyle". I only say it if I mean it.. If it is raining or something and you meet up with a stanger make a comment " some storm huh" Or speak to sales people when makiong a purchase. This is good practice. say anything to any body and that will get you used to talking to anyone.. You have merit . you have a right to meet peole . You are a good person but no one will know that unless you let them so you have to make the effort. I f you think about the other person and put them at ease you will feel better . Try it today
• India
12 Jul 10
Yes I'll start trying.. Thanks for your tips buddy.. :)